My dear, don't be unhappy. Sometimes he didn't ask for going in there is because he is scared too. My husbund told me once that if he have a choice he don't want to go in there with me too. Not because he doesn't care about me or he doesn't love me. It's just because he thinks that I am one of his very close person and he loves me so much that he can't accept it when he sees me so painful and he can't even help me. I remeber before I really gave birth to my daughter, I went into hospital few times because my bb might want to come out. I was crying since it is so painful and I see my husbund didn't say anything but crying also. He told me it's because he dont' want to see me so "sun fuuuu". Although he went home while u were working really hard in the labour room but u have to figure out is it his idea to go home first or is it his family wants him to go home first. Dont' be so unhappy !!