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複式洋房

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發表於 05-3-14 16:21 |只看該作者

返Nursery後的轉變

囝囝現兩歲半,返Nursery後更痴身,經常要人抱,特別返學時要抱,佢會想一些辦法唔去婆婆處,唔返學,如要媽媽抱著坐係梳化,要婆婆同佢入房訓覺.

我知道佢唔係唔鍾意返學,而係唔想與親人分開.佢似乎唔夠獨立,點様令佢獨立d?

另帶一提,佢很容易喊,佢做d唔arm的嘢,試過又打又罵又兜都於事無補.都要喊一輪先,喊得多又入風,嘔曬的食物出來.以前細個,我話媽咪唔開心�嬲,佢就唔敢,現在已經唔得,Any advise?


別墅

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發表於 05-3-14 18:07 |只看該作者

Re: 返Nursery後的轉變

現今社會,個個媽咪都好想個小朋友快d返學學多d野,怕小朋友到k1跟唔上,我有個親切同你個囝囝一樣兩歲半就讀Nurery,他由返學第一日開始喊喊到他三歲,足足半年,她同你一樣,覺得自己個小朋友唔夠獨立,有一日,個囝囝突然同媽媽講,我以後返學都不會喊,因為我已大個囝.
其實好多小朋友因太細個不能接受親人分開感覺,所以他們感到不安,到小朋友有大d他們會明白他上學後你會接他回家,所以你不用太譫心.
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男爵府

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發表於 05-3-16 13:47 |只看該作者

Re: 返Nursery後的轉變

(^oo^)(*oo*)
我囡囡返咗N1兩星期, 今個星期開始先返半日, 佢曾經試過喊到嘔, 但係今個星期返學係笑住同我BYE BYE. 其實我想係好睇每個小朋友的性格及適應能力, 另外亦試問你係大人, 我將你送到一達地方MUD人都唔識, 而生活方式完全唔同屋企的要去適應, 你又想你要多少時間去適應得到呢? 因為我囡囡自理方面仍在改善階段, 所以琴日同主任傾電話, 佢同我講教育方面係長遠睇尤其對幼兒, 從一張白紙去做或改變, 一定要比時間小朋友的, 做媽媽及教育者都要有耐性, 其實小朋友每一日都改進緊, 但記住可能係好細微細眼的事, 而亦無可能一朝一夕可以要小朋友接受及改變的, 所以請比耐性及信心你小朋友吧.
奇蹟只會發生在永不放棄的人身上~~ 8-)


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發表於 05-3-16 13:51 |只看該作者

Re: 返Nursery後的轉變

Hi

Yes, agreed.

其實男孩2.5歲仲好細,因比女仔遲熟,所以要慢慢來。你要講他知:大個仔,要返學la,唔好咸la......etc。

佢大d就會好d。仲有佢咸時你唔好采佢,等佢知咸時冇用的,要狠心d。實work!



複式洋房

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發表於 05-3-17 15:28 |只看該作者

Re: 返Nursery後的轉變

Thanks.


男爵府

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發表於 05-3-17 18:19 |只看該作者

Re: 返Nursery後的轉變

(^oo^)(*oo*)
其實最好同佢地嘅班主任傾下, 小朋友多數都會聽班主任說話架, 而且總好有效, 同埋老師經驗又豐富d, 可能有d更好嘅方法, 慢慢黎喇, 我囝囝依家一早就同我講88, 今朝總叫我搵aunt傾計, 一陣去湊番佢放學。
小肥肥一族 我家有個 肥 爸爸, 又 有個 肥 媽媽,一定有個 肥 囝囝


洋房

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發表於 05-3-18 11:13 |只看該作者

Re: 返Nursery後的轉變

My son started his nursery when my maid took her annual leave. I brought him to school and he could not stop crying. When my maid returned I asked her to take him to school. And surprise surprise - he did not cry at all when my maid left him at school. The teachers said that this happened to many children.
My son was close to the maid as well but after all there are differences between maid and mother.
So if you have a maid, you can try this way but of course you will need to keep explaining to your child that going to school is good to her.


洋房

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發表於 05-3-24 23:46 |只看該作者

Re: 返Nursery後的轉變

Agree...my situation is almost the same. Everytime when I'm with my daughter, she'll be much more naughty or always crys even I never spoil her (at least I think I didn't). They really can sense the difference between mother & maid!

If you don't have a maid, try ask somebody like your sister or your husband to go school with him. It'll be much better I think!

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