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dream_cool00


大宅

積分: 1972


1#
發表於 10-3-21 00:50 |只看該作者
重未揾到工入， 之前揾到個本地完約,前日話我知揾到第二個employer,唔來，我係working mum,冇得請假,老公又係。
我有兩個小朋友, 9 months and 4 years old,佢地做之前都知,來到又吾做,好辛苦，even未來都唔做，於是揾返之前陪月,話得,跟住今日打來又話唔得....我好黑呀,家中兩個b又細,又冇屋企人support,我老公開始埋怨我對工人奄尖,我成日買野比佢食，又幫佢諗下d野点最易做,我只係叫佢就算唔識英文唔緊要,得閒同細b睇下書，玩下波波，唔好只抱bb講電話，於是佢放假就去agent度揾new employer,(已立刻揾到)因佢有十年local experience,間agent重叫我唔好話agent會幫僱主，驚工人唔開心，我而家明la,佢地賺工人$好過賺我地hk人$,但都唔好咁冇道意,我當初揾佢,係喊住揾,因我坐月時新來bun bun話驚揍nb,一來就比one month notice我話唔做,又開始玩野,我賠机票 and $送佢走,坐月時成日 ，而家個工人,當時重有2 days visa到期,我見佢都like bb,就請佢,我知佢冇揍bb experience, only 老人家，但我又就返工，舊agent又話冇人,就請佢...点知而家佢揾到new employer話走就走,我叫佢諗在bb份上,等新工人來先走,even全家總動員求佢,佢都係準時三＋一号走,咁我家小朋友点呀？点解政府只保障工人,我地d苦主就比人一獲蹺起,
我有個所謂老'親戚'話會幫我住d細,叫我比我準備賣又裝修好既屋比佢住,佢當時已冇提租金,結果佢都冇比,又唔比我同老公入屋,驚我地有菌,又唔比地產樓,就係咁我地好似冇左層血汘錢買返來既樓,老公又埋怨我...

請問大家可以点做，我其實哩排巳經發晒柔去揾agent,大agent就話冇,細個d又比d 40 幾歲,斷約(唔知点解),visa弟二日到期比我,我雖然好心急，但自問自己非有$人,又唔想再比d衰工人利用我過橋來揾 d new and comfortable job,我都冇應承,亦吾想wate, $4000比agent,最後又賠机票及$,再加上佢地對我d小朋友做d野我好怕，如將塊面'辣'落heater,而家細b塊面有個印,同d警察講，佢地只問'証拒呢'？
係哩刻,我好冇助,既然老公,家人又成日埋怨我生兩個做乜，我諗如我帶埋兩個細'走'，我知咁做好自私,但原來求人係咁難。

[ 本帖最後由 dream_cool00 於 10-3-21 00:54 編輯 ]
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cutekiddy


男爵府

積分: 7487


2#
發表於 10-3-21 01:22 |只看該作者
你千奇唔好亂唸,你有2個小朋友係好幸福,有啲人真係好想生都無.

我個賓賓都係月尾到期,依家仲未搵到,要自己湊番2個小朋友.我其實都好驚,但係係自己生出嚟,幾辛苦都要頂硬上.

如果你真係未搵到,可以考慮保良局暫扥,可以月計 or 日計,有分bb及幼兒,好似係幾十蚊日.時間由早上7点幾8点至夜晚6点幾7点.bb可以全日,4歲嗰個可以半日.

你check吓啦!,偉大嘅媽媽,加油!
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dream_cool00


大宅

積分: 1972


3#
發表於 10-3-21 01:37 |只看該作者
原帖由 cutekiddy 於 10-3-21 01:22 發表
你千奇唔好亂唸,你有2個小朋友係好幸福,有啲人真係好想生都無.

我個賓賓都係月尾到期,依家仲未搵到,要自己湊番2個小朋友.我其實都好驚,但係係自己生出嚟,幾辛苦都要頂硬上.

如果你真係未搵到,可以考慮保良局暫扥, ...


cutekiddy,

多謝你既鼓勵，我真係 左出來，因為身边既人,包括老公,亞媽,都埋怨我，雖然同事見我瘦到似人型既樣都叫我quit份job,有頭髮想做'辣'哩咩？我唔做,唔通攞縱援咩？
雖然我唔係笌一次比工人蹺起,但今次真係好驚呀,因為多左細b,d工人老實d就say no, including overseas,唔老實就騎牛揾馬....
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sisilui


男爵府

積分: 6401


4#
發表於 10-3-21 01:40 |只看該作者
千奇唔好唔開心, 我都請極都冇好工人, 唔係我炒佢, 就佢炒我。我都俾人講了好多閒話, 尤其是老爺99, 我明真係好唔開心。但困難一定會過, 再望返轉頭已無用, 不如想下點樣解決, 你係咪真係無相近的人可幫忙? 我試過請褓母, 雖然是貴了一點, 但請住2-3個月幫手先, 你可以去一D專請陪月的AGENT搵, 或再培訓局, 或勞工處搵。

唔好的工人或根本唔想做的工人留係到都冇用, 衰個D可能會傷害D小朋友, 所以你想下, 可能個工人走左係不幸中的大幸!積極D, 希望在明天!

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xoboy1125


大宅

積分: 4709


5#
發表於 10-3-21 01:43 |只看該作者
請 oversea 印印, 應該肯同你做 2 年嘅...

原帖由 sisilui 於 10-3-21 01:40 發表
千奇唔好唔開心, 我都請極都冇好工人, 唔係我炒佢, 就佢炒我。我都俾人講了好多閒話, 尤其是老爺99, 我明真係好唔開心。但困難一定會過, 再望返轉頭已無用, 不如想下點樣解決, 你係咪真係無相近的人可幫忙? 我試過請 ...
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3509


男爵府

積分: 5127


6#
發表於 10-3-21 01:48 |只看該作者
困難時期我都遇過, 但記住只係暫時性, 會有改善嘅一日. 千期唔好求工人, 佢地根本唔會諗你死活, 你試吓 cutekiddy 講, check 保良局暫托啱唔啱你, 或者搵托兒所照顧兩個細路. 又或者本地 ee 頂住先. 面對困難時, 要用積極心態去將問題解決, 唔需要覺得自己慘, 只係覺得慘解決唔到問題. 亦唔好理其他人講物嘢生兩個, 佢地出生就係同你有緣份, 唔好再搵本地工人, 佢地好多都係騎牛搵馬, 最後都係害自己. 祝你好快解決問題同搵到好工人.
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Jasmine-4711


翡翠宮

積分: 91878

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7#
發表於 10-3-21 01:49 |只看該作者
黑暗之後便是黎明,千祈米亂諗野.

你可找臨時日托或月托,唔好急到請籮底橙.年紀>35或冇nb exp或本地完約/斷約都唔好要.

你個親戚霸完樓,唔交租又唔湊仔,你好快d收番層樓.否則,12年後樓就係佢的. Possession without paying rent for 12 years give her ownership by law.
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dream_cool00


大宅

積分: 1972


8#
發表於 10-3-21 01:49 |只看該作者
原帖由 xoboy1125 於 10-3-21 01:43 發表
請 oversea 印印, 應該肯同你做 2 年嘅...

但要等兩個月,加上agent話冇人啱我,我同老細講過,佢只係話揾屋企人幫(但冇..亞媽自己有份工，亦唔會QUIT,奶奶巳90歲)...唉!
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dream_cool00


大宅

積分: 1972


9#
發表於 10-3-21 02:01 |只看該作者
原帖由 Jasmine-4711 於 10-3-21 01:49 發表
黑暗之後便是黎明,千祈米亂諗野.

你可找臨時日托或月托,唔好急到請籮底橙.年紀>35或冇nb exp或本地完約/斷約都唔好要.

你個親戚霸完樓,唔交租又唔湊仔,你好快d收番層樓.否則,12年後樓就係佢的. Possession without ...


my god, i don't know this,我諗佢會係到養老,仲想我負責佢及其姊姊的医療及生老死'裝'!(唔好意思,吾係curse老人家),但我同老公都feel到,因佢地冇親人,其實我都唔係,只係我細個mummy冇乜理我,佢見我咁可憐,有時會煮下飯我食,而我大個左,都一路揾佢,諗住報答下佢,但又冇諗過養佢喎 ，因為自已未搞得掂！
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formulababy


複式洋房

積分: 280


10#
發表於 10-3-21 02:02 |只看該作者
Don't think too much . Be positive. Find a local EE to take care of your two children first. And then , find an agent or local maid . Where do you live ? I try to find more information to you .I have a friend who knows a philipine maid she can look for some finish-contract maid in church.Tomorrow is sunday, maybe I can get her news. Don't cry in front of your children . If you know my story , you are not too bad. Some time , god had arranged every thing.
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3509


男爵府

積分: 5127


11#
發表於 10-3-21 02:03 |只看該作者
你試吓搵啲 agent 可以係網上睇工人cv同 video, 咁樣可以快啲, 唔使成日走去agent到睇cv. 試吓海 x僱傭啦, 我以前都係咁上網搵, 同埋你可以上去同佢地講你想揀點樣嘅工人, 叫佢地一有新cv就通知你, 佢地啲工人都去得好快.
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cutekiddy


男爵府

積分: 7487


12#
發表於 10-3-21 02:07 |只看該作者
formulababy,你搵完比dream可唔可以跟手幫我搵一個?不過dream urgent啲,你有就比佢先啦! thanks a lot!


原帖由 formulababy 於 10-3-21 02:02 發表
Don't think too much . Be positive. Find a local EE to take care of your two children first. And then , find an agent or local maid . Where do you live ? I try to find more information to you .I have ...
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dream_cool00


大宅

積分: 1972


13#
發表於 10-3-21 02:07 |只看該作者
多謝各位mummy夜人靜仲咁有心安慰我,但我感到絕望，除左係工人冇情外,再加上d人停'nut'底,好似個天有心玩我咁,家人冷言冷語都令我心力交碎,好朋友亦只有愛莫能助,連本地ee都'nut'底 or 冇
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cutekiddy


男爵府

積分: 7487


14#
發表於 10-3-21 02:10 |只看該作者
你住邊區?試吓幫你搵local ee!開心啲啦!

原帖由 dream_cool00 於 10-3-21 02:07 發表
多謝各位mummy夜人靜仲咁有心安慰我,但我感到絕望，除左係工人冇情外,再加上d人停'nut'底,好似個天有心玩我咁,家人冷言冷語都令我心力交碎,好朋友亦只有愛莫能助,連本地ee都'nut'底 or 冇 ...
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dream_cool00


大宅

積分: 1972


15#
發表於 10-3-21 02:14 |只看該作者
cutekiddy and formulababy ,
pm you too already. thanks
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formulababy


複式洋房

積分: 280


16#
發表於 10-3-21 02:18 |只看該作者
[quote]原帖由 dream_cool00 於 10-3-21 02:07 發表
多謝各位mummy夜人靜仲咁有心安慰我...
Don't beg anyone !! For me, I am the only one person working in the family .I needed to earn more than $40,000 for the family. My daughter doesn't eat even though my husband feed her. Because of some reasons , I needed to find a person (randomly) to take care of my daughter immediately.I just only give my daughter to a stranger to take care of my daughter. But this time , god opens eyes, The EE is caring , My daughter started to eat. A very very good maid will work for me two months later. Anyway I just want to help you. Where do you live ? I need time to find certain people or organisation to help you. Tomorrow , I will call my friend to help you also . PM your number to me .Remember , don't cry.

[ 本帖最後由 formulababy 於 10-3-21 02:20 編輯 ]
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formulababy


複式洋房

積分: 280


17#
發表於 10-3-21 02:22 |只看該作者
[quote]原帖由 cutekiddy 於 10-3-21 02:10 發表
OK
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formulababy


複式洋房

積分: 280


18#
發表於 10-3-21 02:47 |只看該作者
I think , you need to change the agent .
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dream_cool00


大宅

積分: 1972


19#
發表於 10-3-21 03:11 |只看該作者
原帖由 formulababy 於 10-3-21 02:47 發表
I think , you need to change the agent .


I changed and paid for 3 agencies already, each cost aroudn $4000 but I've got the same bad experience. When the maids know that no one support me and I can only depend on them, they started to play tricks on me or my babies. Or they become so lazy that I don'w have clothes to go to work for a long time (3 weeks). but fortunately I became so thin after I gave birth to the 2 child, I could wear the old clothes.
I know the agencies are bad but I can't afford to pay for another one...I just ask them to help, but turn out that they told the maid secretly that her employer(me) had some bad comments about them, and they asked them to quit qiuckly rather than fired by me in order to get a bad record. Then the maid and the agency had made up everything without my notice and consent... I was the one became a fool, they got all the benefits but I still beg them to help me as I really have no one can look after my babies. Well, at the end my maid just showed me the face, "I DON'T CARE, IT'S YOUR OWN BIUINESS' WHO TOLD YOU THAT NOT TO LET ME TALK ON THE PHONE'.

Now I felt regret that I made my maid angry as I really found that no maid(even overseas) is willing to take care of a nine-months old babies and a four-year old one, though she get used to be alone since her sibling was born. My eldest daughter told me that she was always left alone in the dinning room and "姐姐"always close the room door with 妹妹only without letting her go inside the room, so she doesn't know what was happening inside the room and I knew that she wiped her own bottom even after 'poo poo' as 姐姐 was busy talking on the phone, somehow i feel so sorry for her that I gave birth to the second child, as orignially I thought 妹妹 can be a gift for her. But now I found out that 妹妹actually only brings her suffering(according to my hudsbun's theory). I know I am not a good mother as I did not forsee the future well, now not only me, but my two lovely daughter are also suffering.
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bbfish1992


子爵府

積分: 14777


20#
發表於 10-3-21 04:21 |只看該作者
原帖由 dream_cool00 於 10-3-21 03:11 發表


I changed and paid for 3 agencies already, each cost aroudn $4000 but I've got the same bad experience. When the maids know that no one support me and I can only depend on them, they started to pla ...


Oh! Shock for reading your words.
I'm also a mother of 2 kids. I experienced your experience.
Don't worries, solutions are always more than problems.
1) Children are innocence. They are gifs from GOD. They will feel and know your everlasting love.
2) All these are not your faults. Children are yours, the family is your. Forget all those useless comments. Mother is the strongest person in the world, particular working mum. Salute to all mothers including you.
3) It is good that maid is leaving, how come no one look after the elder sister, how come baby sister got burnt by the heater. I would rather fire her immediately instead of begging her to stay.
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