I think you better tell your sister & cousin in-law not to tell anyone....even your 99 & lo yeah....they should understand and won't tell........if they ask if you're pregnant, then u say no......cos even your husband doesn't want to tell......it's 'their son's idea'.........so, no matter what, your husband will support you......if you 99 blames, put the ball back to your husband!! :) you're now the QUEEN, no need to be scared.....just if anyone asks anymore, u just say no........if you insist not to admit, they can't say anything!!
it is a happy thing to share with others. I fully understand that some people will make it as a top secret within 3 months, esp my mother-in-law.
she don't want me to wear any pregant clothes or buy anythings about pregant within the period.
But to be honest, i have told my friends when i only had 2 months . I want to share my happiness with others. Luckily, my baby is 5 years old now.
of ource i will not tell my mohter- in-law that i told my friends, in order to make her feel comfortable.
If you want to share just do it, don't have too much pressure.