Re: What should I do - I found some condoms in my hushand's brief case
Agree.
As I am a working mom and my job will become busy in the coming months. I will keep my energy on my works first (finance is too important for me at this critical moment).
Of course, by the meantime, I will keep silence and collect all other evidences ie visa statement on his expenses pattern, etc.
Once I settle everything in office, I will present all the evidences in hand to avoid any arguement from him.
However, my most concern is my son who is only 2 years old. If there is any changes on my family, I will feel deeply sorry to him. Any mom has any experiences to avoid any unhappiness arise from the child ?
Re: What should I do - I found some condoms in my hushand's brief case
Bingo, all you mentioned were happened.
. The condoms were not packed in the box
. when we're out, he always create excuse to leave me alone such as go to toilet, etc, actually I caught him on spot he was talking on the phone with someone else who I believe should be a lady
. last month, he told me that he had a business trip to Guangzhou, however, i found from the visa statement that he went to Guilin. I even found out that he should have returned to HK on Monday but he came home on Tuesday, he stayed in a HK hotel for a night
. even more, I also found in the visa statement that he paid for some comestics (I never received any gifts from him or use that brandname of products).......
. he also always create excuse to go out at night and came home in the mid-night.
. as he is now running his own business, he has no contribution on the home finance, in addition, he always (especially these few months) borrow the money from me and told me that he would return to me, but of course, nil return.
Sometimes I feel I am extremely exhausted, I worked so hard (every day almost 10-11 hours) in the office as well as taking care of home affairs and my baby, the return is just like that.
Re: What should I do - I found some condoms in my hushand's brief case
My character is quite indepedent. Once I finish my projects in hand (I do not want anything interrupt me at the moment so as I can concentrate on my work). I will disclose everything to him and ask for a reasonable explanation. Or else, I will choose to divorce and take care of my son my own.
However, as I mentioned, I am afraid my decision will have a negative implication on my son which make him lose a complete family. I really lost my way in this case and don't know what I should do to secure a happy family for my son.
Re: What should I do - I found some condoms in my hushand's brief case
Frankly speaking, I know he still loves our son.
However, he always create excuse to have business trips (or private trips !) at the weekend, he did not have much time to accompany the son indeed and it seems that he's not fully enjoying the family day. He is not so participative and attentive as before.
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按道理佢無理由咁失察偷食唔識得抺咀的. 除了condom外佢仲有無其化朱絲馬跡呀? 例如: 少同你行埋; 成日鬼鬼崇崇講電話, 早出晚歸等.... 
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