since we 1st started to organise our wedding, so many things gone wrong and all the problems come from MONEY .........
my bf ask why I am not standing on his side about the money problem about our wedding? since the 人情 & 禮金 will be given to my parents, not me? why should I bother what he is going to give (just is very little?)?? why should I stand on my parents side and ask him for more?
Well, what the .......! I am my parents eldest daughter. And I dont think I worth that little!! my parents spend so much over the years to provide the best for me and in return... only...........
Also, talk about 酒席, even more angry, we asked for 8-9 tables minimum, and now, I wrote out all the ppl I invited and total take up 10 tables.... and u know what, he ask me to finalise it (which is ok, I will do it), but the reason for him to ask me to finalise is not because to minimise the mess on that day, it is because.... IF WE TAKE UP MORE THEN 8 TABLES, we got to PAY by ourself, since we only asked for 8 tables b4 WO~~
(of course I understand the money problem started from his parents and spoke out by my bf to me la)
but still........ how come they are soooooooo CHEAP... 2 more tables only...
Also, the money for wedding dinner is borrow from my bf brother, we ( me and my bf) need to return every cents in the future.... I have not hear about any parents these days not helping out their most loved son wedding for 1 cents
i thing I better mention here in case ppl say I am not fair, his parents brought a house and let us live there la, but they buy it not because we getting marry wo, it is because of some other reason wo.....
But my point is still on the cheap cheap thing they do and treat me la, treat me like a '妹'仔ar, not even pay for the extra 2 tables.... SHxt..... i am not that cheap