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發表於 05-8-3 11:28 |只看該作者

返工時間長，怎和小朋友溝通?

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Re: 返工時間長，怎和小朋友溝通?

Call me during office hours, I can them oftenly. And once back home, talk to them first, I have 2 kids, 1 is 8 and 1 is 3, I talked to them once back (asked my daughter what happened that day and then you tell them what happen in office, they will be courious to know about your job), that's pretty work! While my daughter in school, I ask her to tell me one happy and 1 unhappy things in school and then I told her the the same in the office, she loves this method to communicate, try it

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發表於 05-8-3 18:23 |只看該作者

Re: 返工時間長，怎和小朋友溝通?

moon_moon 寫道:

Call me during office hours, I can them oftenly. And once back home, talk to them first, I have 2 kids, 1 is 8 and 1 is 3, I talked to them once back (asked my daughter what happened that day and then you tell them what happen in office, they will be courious to know about your job), that's pretty work! While my daughter in school, I ask her to tell me one happy and 1 unhappy things in school and then I told her the the same in the office, she loves this method to communicate, try it

thx,邊個幫你湊?

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發表於 05-8-4 12:21 |只看該作者

Re: 返工時間長，怎和小朋友溝通?

I have lots of typo, sorry, I means call them during office hours and then I call them oftenly, sorry. I have a maid to take care of them, but as my daughter to be in school full day (only back home by 4:00pm) so mostly only my little boy and the maid at home. I call and talk to my boy since he's small, they know I love them and want to listen to their voice so they like to talk to me as well (you need to listen when they want to talk but don't push them to talk if they want, otherwise they will not want to talk to you) You have treat them as your friends and they will like to communicate to you. So not only talking homework, ask them if they made new friends or any one to be naughty in the class then they will tell you as they usually want to say someones bad but he/she is good

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Re: 返工時間長，怎和小朋友溝通?

moon_moon,

I totally agree with your method. My daughter is 3 years old and I always talk with her on the phone during office time. She goes to kindergarten in the morning. So I ask her to call me around 12:30p.m. when she comes back from school. However, sometime, she does not want to talk with me. I need to ask my maid what is going on. I have only one daughter. She only stays with my maid and my dog during the day time. She always feels lonely. I have taken advice of my friend and try to spend half hour with her (only 2 of us) in the night time, both of us enjoy the night time talking very much. Sometimes, I will ask what has happened at school and read some stories for her.

It is a pity that my husband cannot use this method to communicate with my daugther because he comes back from work very late. Do you have any good experience? Perhaps we can share with each other.

Cheers!

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Re: 返工時間長，怎和小朋友溝通?

Hi Sandy,

I will be happy to share my experience with you. The kids usually not like to talk with the phone, as they feel strange with talking to a machine. But if they are happy and they will talk. You don't need to worry, at least they know mom is missing them and around them even we are working (this is what my elder daugther told me how she feel and she is 8 yrs old now, so you need to keep that). How late will you and your husband work, I usually back to work until 8 and sometimes very late or need to have dinner with customer so communicate with phone is very useful for me and my kids. So my kids love me so much, they will hub me and kiss me always, Did your husband did that too, just ask him to call once a day otherwise she will feel mom and daddy is too trouble! Did your hubby need to work during weekend, if not, let him to play with him first and then you join later (not from the beginning as you need to give him some private time with the daughter in order for her to understand daddy love me and like to play with her) You may pretend need to do something in the kitchen or in the room. For sometimes, she will have feel that daddy is also important person for her (at least she will feel daddy is a good playing partner), this is my experience, you may try and hope it works for you.

SandyWu 寫道:
moon_moon,

I totally agree with your method. My daughter is 3 years old and I always talk with her on the phone during office time. She goes to kindergarten in the morning. So I ask her to call me around 12:30p.m. when she comes back from school. However, sometime, she does not want to talk with me. I need to ask my maid what is going on. I have only one daughter. She only stays with my maid and my dog during the day time. She always feels lonely. I have taken advice of my friend and try to spend half hour with her (only 2 of us) in the night time, both of us enjoy the night time talking very much. Sometimes, I will ask what has happened at school and read some stories for her.

It is a pity that my husband cannot use this method to communicate with my daugther because he comes back from work very late. Do you have any good experience? Perhaps we can share with each other.

Cheers!

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Re: 返工時間長，怎和小朋友溝通?

moon-moon

moon_moon 寫道:

Call me during office hours, I can them oftenly. And once back home, talk to them first, I have 2 kids, 1 is 8 and 1 is 3, I talked to them once back (asked my daughter what happened that day and then you tell them what happen in office, they will be courious to know about your job), that's pretty work! While my daughter in school, I ask her to tell me one happy and 1 unhappy things in school and then I told her the the same in the office, she loves this method to communicate, try it

Thank you !

I also want to try your method...

Happy every days ;-)

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Re: 返工時間長，怎和小朋友溝通?

SharonNg,

I proposed this method to my friends and they feeback to me it works. And I have told my daughter's teacher/principal this method (while she is in kidergarden) and they commented as a "good idea" and proposed to other parents. So you can try and hope it works.

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Re: 返工時間長，怎和小朋友溝通?

moon_moon

Than you... I will try...but some time was very tired to play with them... do know how? because my son too active..

Happy every days ;-)

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發表於 05-8-4 15:39 |只看該作者

Re: 返工時間長，怎和小朋友溝通?

I can understand, as me too, so try your best la!

SharonNg9813 寫道:
moon_moon

Than you... I will try...but some time was very tired to play with them... do know how? because my son too active..

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Re: 返工時間長，怎和小朋友溝通?

moon_moon 寫道:

I can understand, as me too, so try your best la!

[quote]
SharonNg9813 寫道:
moon_moon

Than you... I will try...but some time was very tired to play with them... do know how? because my son too active..

[/quote]
I feel that too.

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Re: 返工時間長，怎和小朋友溝通?

hi Irene,

咁夜未訓? 剛剛才有自己休息時間呢?

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Re: 返工時間長，怎和小朋友溝通?

Hi, I am Kowbie mum. Thanks for giving me the information to communicate with my little daughter in future. This idea is excellent and will build up a good relationship between us.

I am also a working mum. I am busy to work and study. Hence, I can only spend 1.5 at night to play w/ kowbie. What a pity!!! :-(

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Good morning Kowbie,

Glad to know you like this idea, try it,

Working mother is really difficult, right? Especially you need to study as well. I give up my study was because I want to spend more time with them. You are already good la!

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Re: 返工時間長，怎和小朋友溝通?

good morning !!

moon_moon

Yesterday I asked my son (his was 5 years old) he told me Happy is (play in the kindergarten) unhappy = No ..Than I also told him my happy and unhappy ....than he was change another subject...

Happy every days ;-)

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Re: 返工時間長，怎和小朋友溝通?

Sharon, Good afternoon,

So do you think he willing to talk to you? You may try to talk further, like he said he feel happy to play in playground and then you can ask him who to play or did you meet new friends and then you tell them how to meet new friends, something like that, you will find lots of things to talk to him. Keep up. Remember, when you talk, just in a quiet place, no toys, no tv and you can ask him to sit on the bed and give him a hub before start talking, this is how I will do usually with my kids

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moon_moon

Thank you so much... I will try again...than i will let you know again..hope you can give me advice again la..

Happy every days ;-)

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Re: 返工時間長，怎和小朋友溝通?

moon_moon 寫道:
hi Irene,

咁夜未訓? 剛剛才有自己休息時間呢?

等阿女瞓咗先，遲啲開夜， :-(

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