i was just having a chat with my helper (she is 38), she is going back during easter... I said I was worried that she may not come back.. then she said, "haha... my ex-employer is different from you, she always worried that I will get pregnant..."
Then I ask her... "err.. don't think you will right?"
She said.. "NO LA!! my daughter will kill me (her daughter is graduating from college in 2 years)." "now all my kids are getting big, I don't go thru it all over again"