I think u did a great job, let her stay for so long and give her many chances to learn, don't blame yrself, some of them really not deserve to get any sympathy!
我鐘意你同我講 I Love U, I Love U Too!
You are the sunshine of my life. That's why I'll always stay around. You are the apple of my eye. Forever you'll stay in my heart.
I realised my helper with attitude and emotional problems since she has worked for me 9 months. With her 'lack-of-common-sense' and 自把自為 nature...... I have no choice but had to stand for all the above, because I don't want to train a new helper again and I believed she will improve. Until today, she has worked for 19 months, still have 5 months to finish her contract. But her problems are getting worser and worser and being very very impolite to us. We think she is not trustful anymore and we always feel worried when we go for work. That means she doesn't fulfill her role as a domestic helper, because she can't make us feel comfortable to take care of my family. This turns me to employ another to replace her. I feel she is 可憐 as you do, because she won't finish this contract but will be terminated instead, it ruins her reference and CV. However, she ruins her prospect and doesn't treasure her job to induce this result. I flash back how I 忍左佢咁耐, and now I have to 吞聲忍氣用埋呢個月, 又要睇佢面色~ 我夠可憐咯~!!