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我頂唔信順我屋企件印妹... 想請個菲佣.. 因為我想請個聽話既菲佣可以幫手教下我個女... 現睇岩一個 (唔知算唔算筍盤?!?!)...資歷如下:

1. 29歲
2. 已婚, 有一個3歲既仔
3. 大學社會工作系畢業
4. 工作經驗: 4 年社工, 2年晌屋企湊自己個仔, 1年教書, [size=large]但完全無女佣經驗呀!!!!!!!!

my main concerns are

1. 佢點解要黎hk做工人?
2. she hasn't worked as a domestic helper at all... 佢捱唔捱得架??? 因為我個女好活躍...我鐘意俾佢週屋走, 自由發揮... 所以個工人一定要成日都要追住佢... 唔好俾我個女整親.... 同埋我要求亦會好高, 佢捱唔捱得架???
3. 其實佢完全無女佣經驗係好定唔好?? 會唔會聽話易教d? 定係會好似d新印印咁無common sense兼教到嘔血???

各位媽媽, 請幫幫眼~~~~~~唔該晒~!!!

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Re: 姊妹們: 你地快d黎幫幫眼丫~~

Hi, Icecrm

Last night I also decided to hire a Ind. maid. It is really difficult to make a choice, but luckily we know the agent very well. Hope everything goes smoothly.

I also considered their qualifications, but the agent telling me not to choose one with high qualifications, as they might not have the preparation of working as a maid. In certain extend they might think they are 懷材不遇, rather I should choose one with acceptable qualification, as well as practical experience. At least they know what they exactly need to do when they working as maid. Therefore I choosed one with senior high school, working in Singapore for two years, single and 24 years old. I did talk to her over the phone, and her English is understanded and acceptable. Hope I am lucky la. Good luck to you too.

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Re: 姊妹們: 你地快d黎幫幫眼丫~~

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Re: 姊妹們: 你地快d黎幫幫眼丫~~

IceCrm
我自己用印印,我擇工人時,我個agent話最好請冇仔女

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Re: 姊妹們: 你地快d黎幫幫眼丫~~

Icecrm,

我認為佢未出過國 and 冇做過maid始終有risk wor... 而且佢有一個三歲小朋友, 怕佢真係會有home sick.

我現在個maid係印印, 佢係Singapore 做過3years照顧3
個小朋友. So far (做咗4月) 都幾好. 可以我地要求唔高. 佢照顧天仔ok and 好有耐性餵天仔食野. 天仔也好鍾意同佢玩. 當初我地要佢, 主要係佢已婚(33years), 冇小朋友而又有照顧bb D experience(咁就唔會掛住自己既小朋友). 當時我地諗住佢應該唔會想要bb掛. 不過, 最近我知佢都希望自己日後會生BB, 我怕佢做唔長. 所以有risk就唔好要, 免得遲D又要請另一個.

希望你早日都找到個好maid.

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發表於 05-3-12 23:57 |只看該作者

Re: 姊妹們: 你地快d黎幫幫眼丫~~

IceCrm,

最太問題係無經驗播！　　

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Re: 姊妹們: 你地快d黎幫幫眼丫~~

IceCrm,
我未請過外籍工人, 俾唔到咩意見妳, 但係同其他媽咪一樣, 直覺驚佢未做過家庭傭工會唔會無咩服從性, 妳有無agent跟呀, 有既就好d, 起碼會train下佢。

妳唔使太驚佢為咩要來香港既, 多數係為錢ga la。其實真係講彩數, 我祝妳盡快搵到個合心水既好工人。

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發表於 05-3-14 20:08 |只看該作者

Re: 姊妹們: 你地快d黎幫幫眼丫~~

Dear all,

Thank you all of your valuable comments!!!!

This prospective maid was hunt by my dear auntie in Philippines. My auntie knows me very well.... of coz knowing I am very serious and demanding... that is why she chose this maid for me... I have interviewed this prospective maid on phone for 30 minutes by both David and me 2 days ago. We found that as what my aunties said she is very mature, gentle and speaking quite logical with very good English. She's eager to work in HK soley becos of money for her son... becos she wants her son to obtain good education in Philippines too... She mentioned she is very busy at home in Philippines as she has to do all the housework for her family too.... In my view, I will assign her to take care and educate Charmaine with 70% time in Hk and 30% time will be spending on household work as I am the one who go to market and cook when I am in HK.

I interviewed her by asking many difficult questions like emergency & first aid questions, childcare skills and educations. I felt very satisfied with her answers and she knows how to educate toddlers like we do, eg. flash cards, stort telling, motor skills activities etc... these are waht she mentioned to me only, I didn't tell her how i teach Charmaine at all... so I hope she will be fine for us.

Actually I urgentky have to terminate my current Indo. maid, so I have no choice and I dont really trust agencies in HK as they always say those maids are good... so I think I will get this prospective maid after I return HK by this trip... ie. I am now in London..

Pls wish me good luck~~ :lol:

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發表於 05-3-15 09:23 |只看該作者

Re: 姊妹們: 你地快d黎幫幫眼丫~~

IceCrm,
如果係咁, 我相信佢係教導charmaine方面應該唔難做到妳既要求, 妳一定會good luck既!

cheers!

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發表於 05-3-15 23:44 |只看該作者

Re: 姊妹們: 你地快d黎幫幫眼丫~~

IceCrm,

如果妳覺得佢好的話就go ahead 啦！　雖然話佢未有女傭經驗，不過請工人真係好講彩數嫁，而且從另一角度睇，無經驗反而無左Ｄ古惑野tim！

Wish you very good luck!!

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發表於 05-3-17 13:53 |只看該作者

Re: 姊妹們: 你地快d黎幫幫眼丫~~

HI iceCrm:
我自己就請過兩個賓賓,其實兩個都好聽話,
(1)老既呢(40幾歲),有兩個小朋友(但係都十幾歲),大學
,有兩年經驗,未嚟過hk,唔覺佢有homesick,無咁多精力去takecare bb囉,因為我見佢都真係由朝做到晚,
成日都好似好疲倦咁,到續約時,佢話都想,
但係真係無咁多精力囉,最後佢都搵咗第二份工做,
只係照顧大人,唔使揍細佬既

(2)後生既(24歲),有三個小朋友,大學,有四年經驗
未嚟過hk,好少homesick,
係頭嗰兩三日囉,好有心機去揍我個仔,
做嘢都好快手,佢直情當我個仔係佢個仔添,但係到續約時,
佢都係唔續,因為我個仔成日蝦佢,令到佢好激氣喎

其實你多d同工人傾計,多d溝通,通常都無咩問題既.
加上一個有責任既agent就更加好啦

good luck :mrgreen:

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發表於 05-6-5 01:33 |只看該作者

我真係好鬼憎我個衰工人!!!!!!!!!!!

我真係好鬼憎我個衰工人!!!!!!!!!!! 唔該俾我發洩下!!!!!!!

我每一次做完長途機返到屋企(我既工作係空姐~ 多數飛長線12-13個鐘, 放工後倦到已經魂魄唔齊) 捱完夜,晨早返到屋企就會俾我個衰印激到想mung刀'吉'死自己!!!!!!!

每次我返到屋企, 佢一定有野做錯/無做/唔記得, 又或者佢有佢做野方法(係唔合邏緝果種), 話佢 (同佢講道理咋~)就勁黑面兼詨辯兼駁咀兼唔認錯!!!!!!!!!

咁我問佢咩態度..... (She stared at me very badly!) 佢話我好鐘意鬧佢, 話我好happy窩..... 嘩~ 咩態度呀????? 我問佢..." 做錯野唔認仲要唔抵得俾人鬧,又唔say sorry, 仲要咁既態度... 你點做工人呀??? 你不如返屋企啦.... 你唔聽話, 又唔respect我係你既employer!!!!" 點知佢仲發脾4話,"係啦係啦.... 我咪返屋企囉~!!!" 我話,"咁好丫~~ 你即刻同我寫封你自動辭職信先~ 我即刻打去agent叫佢黎接你!!" 佢不動聲色, 但繼續勁黑面~~~~~~~~~~!!!

我立即自己返房, 唔想見到佢, 真係好嬲... 佢每次晌我放工後最辛苦, 最倦, 最想休息既時候, 都鐘意刺激下我~~ 我好嬲, 但唔可以去盡咁鬧佢, 因為 1)仲要靠佢湊我個女; 2) 我唔想成日晌我個女面前鬧人, 第日有樣學樣!!!:cry:

我真係好唔明點解我每個月俾咁多錢佢, 俾佢食好,住好, 著好既... 我仲要睇佢面色,受佢氣???? 佢係邊位呀???

我已經請左新工人(visa仲未批!!!), 但我宜家呢個衰工人唔知我會唔要佢!! 我仲起碼忍多佢10日... 因為我今日打去immigration dept. 仲未批得新工人個visa~!!! 忍忍忍~~ 已經忍左好耐~~真係人都顛呀!! :-(

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Re: 我真係好鬼憎我個衰工人!!!!!!!!!!!

IceCrm

重有１０日就有好日子過、吾緊要Ｌａ、好快架Ｊａｒ、
工人真係可以令人Ｄｉｎ架、Ｉｆ他黒面真係吾好、需然我個工人好Ｓｔｕｐｉｄ、成日無記性、但一定吾会黒面。
李請新工人時、有無写加快信？聴講係会快Ｄ批既。
吾好為工人宜傷神傷心、李重要陪女女玩架麻、甘李工人走時李要写評価、記住写０西他既吾好野出来Ａｈ。

我叫恭平！２００３年１２月２１日出世

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Re: 我真係好鬼憎我個衰工人!!!!!!!!!!!

Dear IceCrm,
我深深體會到妳既憤怒, 真係好激氣, 簡直想

水妳個工人。有無搞錯呀

祝妳新工人快d來到, 一切順利, 聽聽話話。

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Re: 我真係好鬼憎我個衰工人!!!!!!!!!!!

Dear IceCrm,

I can totally feel your anger, my pervious maid was actually the same case as yours!!
Poor thing, I know it must be very hard for you esp. with your job nature. BTY, can you find a part-time and someone you can rely on to do the housework and take care of Charmaine respectively during this period so that you can fire the stupid maid straight away?

Just want to let you know that the visa of my new maid actually took a month to issue even after a wrote a letter to ask for speed-up process saying that my current maid was very useless and needed a new maid to help me out urgently. Then she will be ready to fly in about two weeks time straight after the visa is sent to her agent. Therefore I really don't think 10 days is adequant.

IceCrm 寫道:
我已經請左新工人(visa仲未批!!!), 但我宜家呢個衰工人唔知我會唔要佢!! 我仲起碼忍多佢10日... 因為我今日打去immigration dept. 仲未批得新工人個visa~!!! 忍忍忍~~ 已經忍左好耐~~真係人都顛呀!! :-(

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發表於 05-6-9 21:52 |只看該作者

Re: 我真係好鬼憎我個衰工人!!!!!!!!!!!

icecrm,

嘩! 咩佢咁呀!

你唔好再動氣啦, 幾日後佢都out 啦....happy d 啦! 有時間再call 你傾ar....

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Re: 我真係好鬼憎我個衰工人!!!!!!!!!!!

clic_1221,

Exactly! I am now thinking if my new maid can be here before July........... and up to now, i still haven't got call regarding the visa approval.... my goodness...

Pizza,
I am feeling better... if I hide myself in the room and not seeing her like now!

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發表於 05-6-22 10:41 |只看該作者

Re: 我真係好鬼憎我個衰工人!!!!!!!!!!!

Dear All,

I also have two times experiences to fire the maid. In my opinion, we should use some techniques to guide them and we cannot point out their mistake directly in minor things, except they come HK in first month. Remember, must let them know that they should respect the employers and don't let them feel the employers can be their friends. Otherwise, it is difficult to control them.

For example, my maid is very lazy and she doesn't want to cook. In fact, I told her that if she cannot cook a standard dinner for us, I will employ another maid for cooking but you should share your salary to her as I can effort one maid salary only. As a result, her cooking is very well now!!!

Hope it is useful for you.

Fili

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Re: 工人!!!!!!!!!!!

又係我~ 哎~

我新工人(今次係賓)做左8日, 我放足8日假晌屋企睇佢, 有以下既"特點":

1. 一黎到就準備好晒"香港僱佣條例"小冊子同 "賓賓工會"求助熱線單張

2. 我叫佢初初黎到, 唔好放假住, 我補水俾佢, 因為我想佢spend多d時間習慣呢度既生活同工作, 但佢即刻話: "Mum, I would like to have my holiday once a week if available!" :lol:

3. 佢英文係好好~ 但係成日唔講野, 唔同我地講又唔同呀b講... 呀b唔跟佢, 佢又唔會講野'tum'下佢, 餵呀b食飯又凈係用手餵(唔會同佢講野, 好似robot)

4. 唔識煮飯, 家務大致上麻麻 --- e.g. 拖地拖到個地濕噠噠....<---我都唔怪佢喇~

5. 尋日放佢假, 講明10am - 8:30pm, 佢9:30am就著定衫, 準時10:00am出門口, 夜晚8:40pm先返, 我無話佢, 不過覺得佢好好意思囉~~

6. 簡野食: 唔鐘意食carrot, 蔬菜, 橙, 桃駁梨, oreo餅(早餐)

7. 無耐性, 容易放棄: 餵呀b食蘋果茸/奶, 未食晒剩返少少, 就倒左佢..... 同呀b睇flash cards, 睇小小, 呀b走左去, 佢就收埋晒佢, 當睇晒!:-x

8. [size=large]最大問題: 湊唔掂我個女!!!!!!我個女c都唔肯跟佢呀!!! 唔知點解自從賓賓黎左後就晏晝/夜晚都好難先tum到佢訓... 夜晚一晚醒3-5次大喊!!!!!!!! :-( 日頭又係無啦啦勁喊兼發脾氣... 工人一想抱佢, 佢就走兼大喊, 見到我地就癡到實, 連我去廁所放低佢都勁喊.... 前日開始仲喊到把聲沙晒, 沙到今日(沙到我聽唔清楚佢講乜)去睇醫生... 侯嚨聲帶發炎 :cry: ! 仲有我個女行為大倒退... 半年前已經每一個鐘去一次廁所坐potty.... 但宜家一聽到工人話"wee wee' 就走同唔肯去, 捉佢入廁所就唔肯坐potty兼狂喊反抗.... 連片都唔俾人同佢換!!!!!!!!!!! :cry:

點解我咁命苦?!?!? 請個蠢得滯又激死我, 請個叻既又係唔掂, 仲驚佢醒過龍.........

究竟點先可以請到個好工人呢???????

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