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複式洋房

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發表於 11-8-5 16:30 |只看該作者
最近呀媽(~64 歲)發現右乳房nipple位有變, 先係紅漲, 到而家話變到一pat咁, 前後5個月倒........
佢堅拒睇專科, 唔想check, 唔想知, 話就算係cancer都唔會医, 因為身心的痛苦會破懷quality of life, 已60幾歲, 医左可能身體仲差.......
想由得佢到end of life......我好矛盾, 好擔心, 好驚見倒佢痛苦, 好驚dum 耐咗會好大件事, 我應點做? 你們認同她的想法嗎?
其實有冇人唔用西医方法医, 淨係睇中医食注中药去拖住呢....
而家最大問題係佢check都想check, 根本唔知咩事! 請各位比D意見我, 謝謝!


大宅

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發表於 11-8-5 17:31 |只看該作者
回覆 coolchoir 的帖子

如果要對症下約 中醫也要看 x-ray 片才可醫得好
但你媽媽不想知道真相 就比較難處理
她有沒有看開的家庭醫生 or中醫
會不會由他們勸你媽媽先做些 test
那就可知道裡面情況如何
可能她怕 化療 電療 開刀
如全都不用 只吃中藥 or + 針灸
會不會好點
我想每個人也不想 化療 電療 開刀 那種痛苦
但如有選擇 她會不會拿起勇氣去面對
重重要是先去做 test
才可以走下一步


禁止訪問

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好媽媽勳章


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發表於 11-8-5 19:01 |只看該作者
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大宅

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發表於 11-8-5 23:21 |只看該作者
本帖最後由 Jeremy3214 於 11-8-5 23:29 編輯

回覆 coolchoir 的帖子

I guess you need to convince your mother to see a good & gentle doctor.
Tell her - 64 years old is very young, average life span for a HK female is about 90-92 years old.
She need to clarify (& heal ) the problem not only for herself, but also for her daughters & grand daughters (the family health history will help her, her children and grandchildren to prevent some health problem in the furture).

I use to be afraid of doing annual breast check-up, find it very embarassing.

But 2 years ago, my "school doctor" (I work in an educational institution) recomended me to consult
陳惠娟醫生. She is very polite, kind and gentle. She respect her patient & treat her patient with great kindness. I also refer my younger sister to consult her. Tell your mother to resolve the problem. No need to worry. Dr. Chan is a very kind & gentle doctor. She respect patient & allow patient to keep their dignity. No need to worry ah!

陳惠娟醫生
http://seedoctor.com.hk/dr_detail-1.asp?dr_doctor=3142










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發表於 11-8-6 09:57 |只看該作者
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子爵府

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發表於 11-8-7 23:51 |只看該作者
其實你應該搵多d資料比你媽咪睇, 等佢知道其實就算唔好彩係cancer, 早期的話都唔係好辛苦, 亦可以完全好返; 但拖遲咗, 問題同所受的痛苦係更難想像。我有個neighbourhood, 佢都係好驚唔想睇, 但最終佢都做咗手術, 仲唔駛做化療, 佢話手術一d都唔同, 佢唔駛一個week就出咗完嗱。


複式洋房

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發表於 11-8-8 10:32 |只看該作者
各位, 好多謝你們的勸告和意見, 給了我勇氣去勸她! (其實我自己都好驚)
己約了月尾見医生, 而家會慢慢同佢傾.......
謝謝你們!


大宅

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發表於 11-8-8 11:28 |只看該作者
Coolchair

sometimes, elderly people does not want to create financial burden on us, so they refuse to consult any doctors (they think it's expansive, & create burden for their children.

You need to comfort her, & tell her "her health is most important", by resolving her health problem, she is helping her daughters and grand daughters to prevent furture health problem ...

Remember You're the only person who'll care enough to look after her, so you need to convince her with love & wisdom ...

Take care. Good luck.

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