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littlebug

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Please share your experience and give me support

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Loreal

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發表於 11-7-28 14:13 |只看該作者

woo... now no helper at my home. Very good

Save some much money and my home more clean.

Most important, no one will make me angry/

P.S. I m pregnant (8 mths) + 3 yrs old daughter

I rather do all house work, i dont want employ helper

But this goodness days will gone, coz when my baby born, i need someone help me. P.S. HELP NOT HARM me

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wcpcelia 祝你好運,加油呀發表於 11-7-29 09:02

sasatt 請個鐘點啦試下發表於 11-7-28 21:26

Bcat totally agree! 發表於 11-7-28 15:45

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魚子媽媽

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發表於 11-7-28 15:32 |只看該作者

點解像吸毒呢?因為辛苦?
relax, 降低一吓要求, 只做最重要的家務
會唔會因為你之前既工人ok
你先至呼吸唔到新鮮自由既空氣?
不過, 歡迎你同大家在這裏傾吓呻吓, 互相支持!
我跟我家工人也倒數緊...可能遲些我也覺得好辛苦, 加油!

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Betty媽咪 me too, still have 1 mth to go! I do not know no helper is good or not, but at least..I want to try! 發表於 11-7-28 23:14

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點解好似吸毒呀???你工人好到令你上"引"????? 我年半前決家唔同條賤老賓續約. 佢一踏出我地家門, 我地舉家歡呼, 當晚仲出外慶祝tim

. 我自己都湊返兩個小朋友成年半, 家務一腳踢. 有時都會覺得幾辛苦, 特別係兩個小朋友都病時, 但係我都唔會想再請外傭. 有工人在家的日子令我地好冇安全感, 特別係兩個小朋友, 從來冇鐘意過佢, 仲勁抗拒佢tim. 請佢果段時間發生好多不愉快既事, 不過我唔想再講羅. 見樓主好似冇左工人唔得甘, 唉!我反而有工人的日子令我全家擔驚受怕, 我唔想再過呢種日子.

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Bcat 我正經歷緊你之前既野.正考慮自己辛苦d去湊返發表於 11-7-28 15:48

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My maid has gone for only a week. She is at least honest and obedient. When she was still here, she did all the housework without my supervision. But now I have to do all the housework by myself, and most important is I dislike cooking. (已廢舞功十多年) It spends me at least three to four hours to do the preparation and washing up. It's terrible. I miss my maid very much. I am afraid I cannot stand it and decide to employ a new maid eventually.

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發表於 11-7-28 16:43 |只看該作者

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我都剛沒有工人，家務一腳踢，成半夜先睡，希望快些找到好工人。

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littlebug

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發表於 11-7-28 16:54 |只看該作者

very upset and I cannot imagine how i can be a full time mom

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seatootoo

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發表於 11-7-28 20:53 |只看該作者

Agree. Cooking is still okay to do myself. But I don't want to wash the toilet anymore....

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發表於 11-7-28 21:22 |只看該作者

我在等工人走，互相加油吧！

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sasatt

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發表於 11-7-28 21:33 |只看該作者

冇工人最麻煩的是要自己汁狗屎,
沒汁好耐啦,DO not want to 汁anymore

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其實我bun bun 走左無耐，最初以為自己會唔慣，但原來只係維持一日。自己照顧bb，點都開心d，bb又跟自己，感情好左，係最大得著。係有好多家務做，咪將要求降低law。間屋dirty 少少，唔會死。仲好過養個幫唔到手，仲隨時要比筆錢佢走既廢人。

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bblou agree ^^我屋企就唔會污joe得去邊,因無咩傢C什物 ^^ 發表於 11-7-30 02:09

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回覆：沒有工人的日子像吸毒

我炒左個偷野印，現在等緊新工人。
這個月來自己湊仔(其實一直如此，因為個工人都唔理小朋友既），做家務，間屋仲乾淨整齊過無工人時。我兩個仔都好細(3歲及11個月），好需要我去照顧，沖涼餵飯看書玩耍，忙到一頭煙，但無工人就好free，又唔使勞氣，又慳錢，唔使日防夜防。
我仲要係working mama，只是近期放假。

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kck_88 你做野咁係咪工人湊2個呀,其實2個最好你都係度,工人幫手發表於 11-8-1 06:53

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littlebug

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發表於 11-7-28 22:48 |只看該作者

You may wonder why I quit my maid. It's all because of my children. I started to have a maid since my children were born. But they relied heavily on her. They did not tidy their room and they seek for her help when they have troubles. I don't want them to go on like this. I have struggled for a long time before I made the decision. Now I am not happy and my children are not happy either. What's more, I am a working mom, I am just on holiday. I have no confidence that I can handle everything.

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cecichow but the real situation is u need a maid wor~~ 發表於 11-7-30 00:41

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發表於 11-7-28 23:02 |只看該作者

I will be no helper use anymore by next month. My helper just resigned but she got another new job. She doesn't like to look after my children but to choose to serve with other family with elderly. I don't understand why the helpers can easily get a new job even though they are not "finish contract". I decided not to employ other helper as the helper's quality in recent years is going down and I don't want to pay my money but in return, I need to do housework by myself because they can't do it well.

I even found her borrowing money from 財仔...it is too bad!
I hired maid over 10 years. This is the only one I found her to have the financing problem. hope it will be settled soon.

I hope I can handle myself for coming time. If it is OK, no helper again. However, if it is too tough (since I am a working mum too), I may consider hire again either part time or full time helper.

Add oil~
Please support me too!

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魚子媽媽 Add oil, Betty媽咪! 發表於 11-7-29 07:02

Betty媽咪人生總是充滿挑戰與無奈, 好多事并不是自己所能控制, 但仍希望可以將所有障礙一一闖過, 健康的活下去......... :-P :-P

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Same here! Although doing housework is tiring, 心情 more happy & relax

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魚子媽媽 agree x1000 發表於 11-7-29 07:03

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Support!!!!

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Betty媽咪 thank you ar! 發表於 11-7-28 23:21

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本帖最後由 Umi 於 11-7-28 23:23 編輯

我工人走左兩個幾月啦~ 我係full time mom. 所以都OK的. 只係cooking係我弱項, 其他都so far so good la. 事實又好似大家對個家真實左囉. 起碼老公和阿女會幫手做小小家務! 似返個家

懂分工合作.

而我個女都12歲, 所以影響無咁大. 曾經有對c6講話唔駛請都得. 但佢話唔好播~ 因為佢唔想大家咁辛苦...(其實係佢唔想幫拖姐

) 所以我都尊重佢. 都係請laaaa..無謂吃力不討好!

我現在要等多幾個week應該新姐姐會到埗啦~ 希望今次好運D啦

我呢兩個幾月做家務既心得係...唔駛咁急做...relax d...慢慢做! 做到熱就坐低抖抖飲杯水睇下TV先...我仲要開行冷氣做

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魚子媽媽 agree, 要向你學習! 自己有時都比較心急發表於 11-7-29 07:06

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回覆：沒有工人的日子像吸毒

我今朝啱啱炒咗個工人！佢偷咗屋企嘅信準備今日放假去借財仔！好在我及時發現製止到！佢幾個月前都已經有偷屋企嘢，但只係食物，所以warn咗就算！但今次事態嚴重，我已經唔再信佢所以即炒！今日自己揍2歲B大半日，真係好唔慣！但我亦領略到其實之前我太倚賴工人！對我自己個B嘅生活習慣熟悉度只有7-8成！好慚愧！冇工人嘅日子係幾辛苦，同埋我係working mom, 而家同公司請住大假先，之後嘅日子要諗辦法解決！好worry呀!

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我個今日走咗, 夜晚餐由我煮, 又要洗碗......都好多野做, 最煩係兩個小朋友專在我最忙時, 不停叫......好期待新姐姐......

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Betty媽咪發表於 11-7-28 23:02
I will be no helper use anymore by next month. My helper just resigned but she got another new job. ...However, if it is too tough (since I am a working mum too), I may consider hire again either part time or full time helper.

Unluckily, most part time helper would like to come in the morning or in the afternoon before 4:00 while at that time i am still working in the office. They need to cook for their own family.