Yesterday, my bun and I went to the supermarket. She put her M 巾, a bottle of coke, and coffee in the cart. Of course I paid for that. It is not a big deal, only around 50 dollars. But I am not quite comfortable with that because she did not even ask me. And except the coffee, I do not think it is my duty to buy those for her. I talked with my husband about that and he blamed me for being stringy. He said if she broke something at home, that will cost more 50 dollars. Just take it as a tips for her because she is doing good job here. Maybe men is more generous than women?
Today, there is a lady called my home phone for her. Later she told me that comes from the insurance company for her husband and son in Philippines. That sounds really tricky to me, to be honestly. Is it possible that she borrowed money from some companies?
Sigh...Staying with her is really like doing the EQ test every day. Anyway, she is quite good at the housework. And I do not want to find another one since the baby is coming. I am just complain here, that's it!
I just feel we already needed to pay all that extra 
to hire another one to replace her and now we need to pay more?? 
back to your problem, i really think you are being too good la! Is your helper new to HK?
I can only blame myself not verbally instruct her on the direction... maybe you need to tell your bun bun to start at least one cycle before just to be sure ar..... i don't want you to go thru the same thing as i did. good luck!
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