Even if you buy for her, she might not use(like my maid). Now my maid is supposed to buy herself, but we suspect that she is stealing ours.
I think when my new maid comes, I'll give her some extra money to buy toiletries for herself(maybe $50 a month), and forbid her to use ours.
she will buy it herself. but i cannot control that she is not using my stuff. we share the bathroom. i do not know whether she is using my stuff in the bathroom or not.
i cannot find her shower gel in bathroom. i believe she is using mine.......