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esther720


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被打擊餵人奶的決心

前幾日中秋造節食飯，d老人家問︰而家仲餵人奶？﹗人地個b細過你個b，都大隻個佢，你個b奀挑鬼命，加d奶粉卑佢啦﹗.....餵人奶餵到幾時呀.......bb夠唔夠食嫁？...........餵人奶個b好"痴"身嫁﹗...........

唉﹗好煩呀﹗成日打擊我餵人奶的決心.............激c﹗

今天99上來，bb現在三個幾月，99一上來就立即抱bb玩，亞b一見到佢，就好大聲喊，99好不開心，話bb開始認人，又話我餵人奶，攪到bb好只跟媽媽，好"痂"身的........又話第日唔飲奶樽.......好難介奶...........
唉﹗又煩c..............

跟住有朋友上來，話餵人奶唔好餵咁到太耐，第日bb好難介奶，可能第日出出下街扭計要食奶............最耐餵到1歲好啦﹗

好煩........




餵人奶的媽媽，你們的bb是否會很痴身？會否在街上突然扭計要食奶，第日係咪真係好難介人奶呢？
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pc9


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明白你此刻的難受.通常遇到這情況,我都會來這裏呻一呻.然後問自己,為甚麼讓BB吃母乳?

你問到BB是否會痴身?
BB因為吃母乳,和媽媽關係較親密,喜歡媽媽多些,愛錫媽媽多些,有何不妥?

而BB會否在街上突然扭計要食奶?
要分開來看.BB扭計是一回事.吃奶是另一回事.
到吃奶的時間,就應該吃奶.無論吃奶粉還是吃母乳.
至於你BB幾時會扭計.....這個嘛.........

至於戒母乳的問題,我都曾經擔心過.
但現在已不覺得是問題.因為是我不想戒餵母乳.

到了6個月,BB開始吃固體食物,便不會完全依賴母乳了.
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FlorashleyTim


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Esther,
Don't bother their criticisms. You are the mother of your bb! They don't have the knowledge of bf so that they speak sth so naive.

Tim always clings to me but I enjoy it very much. The mother-son relationship is strong that it's good for your parenting later.

Health is more important than having many muscles but getting sick all the time.

For quitting bf, just let it be. I hope that I can bf Tim until he 's 2.

Support you and don't give up. You are giving the best to your bb.
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Lamblamb


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Esther720,

I guess many of us have had the same problems too.

It is sad that some people don't understand that breastfeeding is hardwork, let alone wishing them to appreciate its benefits.

I think it's better to "transform your anger into energy" and continue to do what you think is the best for your kid.

And for some, they are simply jealous that BB clings onto mum most! In fact, you should be happy that BB needs you most and that you're unique to your BB - your role can't be replaced by someone else.

  Lulube was born weighing 3.2 kg
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CarolChan


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Hi, esther,

我bb 6個星期大,你以上對話同我版本一無一樣,心同感受,連我老公都叫我唔好再餵,好曬時間,無人支持,所以當bb扭計或自己好倦好煩的時侯,都默默忍受.

加油！
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chiuchristan


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Breastfeeding ma is very great. Don't give up!
Give the best food for your lovely baby.
Mama milk is the best, money can not buy!!
add oil!

Baby Hayes mama(breastfed for 11 months)
Hayes had been breastfeeding for almost 3 years, then naturally weaned by himself！

Wish Hayes with Love, Peace & Joy！！
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chingchingmom


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如果唔係有真正醫學上理由，餵唔餵人奶，係媽媽同BB之間的問題，其他人畀的只是個人意見，唔應該左右大局。即係話，你可以唔駛理佢地。

我大仔食人奶3年，唔算黐身，到佢約1歲時會行會走後，更加鍾意自由行，唔會成日走過來。我個女而家食左8個幾月，又係唔算黐身，基本上乜人都跟。不過，我覺得餵人奶最好的，係雖然我要返工，仔女全日見婆婆/工人多過我，但係一見我回家，就雀躍到拍手跳舞咁滯，妹妹就算玩緊，都一定要過來抱一抱先，食飽粥仔都想過來吃兩啖奶。

好在係咁，如果餵奶粉，我怕我阿媽已經用各種美食，引到佢地唔黐我啦。

係街上面，佢兩個都係被外界事物吸引，可以唔食奶都得。妹妹6個月時，就試過響海洋公園由12nn至6pm無飲過奶，係我驚覺咁耐無餵，捉佢出來要佢食一餐，佢至無可無不可咁食下。

至於戒奶，人人經驗唔同，我個仔3歲生日前幾日，算係自然離乳。真係幾自然，無乜問題。
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77777


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Hi,

I have a son now is six years old. I have breast-feeding him until 4 1/2 years old. My son's character is very happy and always very confident before the others. I am sure it is the advantage of breast-feeding since the child who is breast-feeding feels more secured and thus he is always pleasant and confident before the others. The chance of getting sick is also lesser comparing to the one who is fed on milk-powder.

Breast-feeding also gains a better relationship between the mother and son. If you look back in the future, I am sure you will be very proud of what you have insisted for him at this moment since the tremendous time of breast-feeding will never be back again once you have stopped.

So, please don't give up, you are giving your baby the best!!

Regards,



77777
施比受, 更有福
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swan_lau


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發表於 05-9-20 07:50 |只看該作者

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esther,

u need to insist bf ma....

for my case, i've bf bb for 16 months la...my 99 also said the same things as yours...when i heard that , i just listen, the most important thing is your husband support u ma....i won't argue with her as i think that it's not good to do so.

up to now, i really enjoy the relationship with my daughter, she can play and read silently by herself and not so "stick" to others....

and she's brave and confident , we visited a fd last few days and she can touch a dog a few times, dun scared....

anyway, you'll find the "treasures" of bf as the time goes....

just ignore the ones oppose u la...and come here and let's share your unhappiness, i totally support u to continue ga....

cheers
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1) 又話第日唔飲奶樽
你是否全職媽媽呢? 如是, 即是將來bb 唔用奶樽都冇問題架, 仲好, 唔駛烚.

2) 你們的bb是否會很痴身
囝囝係比較痴我, 不過基本上佢有得玩的話, 個個都跟.
bb 痴媽媽係天經地道的事, 你同bb 的關係係你10月懷胎時便建立了, 冇人可以代替.
你bb 見到99 cry, 可能係少見, 見多d 就唔會架啦. 即使你餵奶粉, bb 見到少見的人都會cry 架.

3) 會否在街上突然扭計要食奶
細個果時都會架, 如果佢要食, 咪比佢食law.

4) 第日係咪真係好難介人奶呢？
我囝囝係家只係早晚半夜食人奶, 我返公司冇pump 奶. 將來會否難介奶, 我都冇唸過, 不過姑娘話當bb 大大下就會唔食架啦. 再者, 你bb 仲咁細個, 唔駛咁快唸介奶問題喎.
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欣欣軒軒媽


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我覺得唔係個個bb都一樣架，好似我個仔咁，佢係全母乳bb，但係佢見親人地用奶樽都會搶，有時真係想特登泵d奶入落去比佢飲，等佢可以過下"引" ，另外都唔明點解我24小時照顧佢，但係佢痴我阿爸阿媽多過痴我 :-( ，我仔出街時扭計就好小，食奶就會要，但係比o係係屋企小，因為佢太八掛，好多時去幾個鐘頭街都完全唔駛食 ?-(
而介人奶呢，我覺得冇咩所謂，因為當你一路keep住餵佢，你真係會唔想幫佢介奶ga....
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esther720:

我好羨慕你可以成功餵人奶.
我現在還是要努力去餵人奶,
因為我未夠奶比 bb.

你餵得咁好, 點解要放棄呢!
而且, bb 痴身有 mud 問題,
到佢大 d, 你想佢痴身都好難......
你反要珍惜這段日子啊!
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Tami


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Esther,
Don't give up ah. Who said that BF baby 會廋D ah, you see my Athena, she is on the 80 percentile of the growing curve, I worry she become a fat girl rather than malnutrition. I'm really agree all the mama says "BB痴mama天經地義" 有乜problem。 But I really lucky than you, cos my whole family support me very much, except my mother, but我好understand my mama唸乜,因佢都好心痛自己個女咁辛苦，又要返工又要BF。MY baby nearly 6 months la, many people ask me when you will stop the feeding, I always reply:as long as possible.
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esther720
講bb瘦,我估你阿b好難及我個lu,我個女一路係 3% curve!!!
係人見佢都話:嘩!!!咁細粒!!!!永遠無人估到佢真實月齡,實係估少幾個月!!!
99成日笑佢:細細粒,容易食!!!
我習慣晒lu,無咩feel lu!!!我會答:係呀,係細粒呀!!!
(心諗:係細粒,點姐!!!我地食腦o既,咁大隻做乜!!hehe..)
至於痴身,我又好enjoy佢痴身,我一日到黑番工,我真係好想親近佢,佢依家都係比較痴我,不過其他人佢都跟o既!!!99都有少少唔鍾意bb痴我,我會答,我係阿媽都唔痴我,我真係 c law!!
出街扭食,咁就真係唔會lor!!!
介奶,hehe....介唔到咪唔介law,邊個話要介奶,又唔見d人叫奶粉b介奶!!!真係啋佢地都傻
我把平安留給你們，我將我的平安賜給你們；我所賜給你們的，不像世界所賜的一樣。你心裏不要煩亂，也不要膽怯。(若 14:27)
Happy moments, praise God. Difficult moments, seek God. Quiet moments, worship God. Painful moments, trust God. Every moment, thank God!!!
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esther,

My baby is also thin (according to grandparents' standard) and naughty, but she is not sticky.

My niece is a formula baby, she is the one that is so sticky that my grandmother doesn't like her much. So my baby has most of the love from my grandmother, aunts and uncles

It's a matter of the personality and family background of the baby, it has no relation with whether you are bf baby or formula baby.

As long your baby is healthy, there is no reason to quit bf, even she is thin, naughty, sticky.....

Add oil!
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katiecheung


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發表於 05-9-29 12:25 |只看該作者

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我開頭都好似你甘, 我亞bb又係細碼bb, 我喂人奶時, 我奶奶成日都話亞bb"唔救包", 要加奶粉, 次次我去健康院都話問醫生亞bb係咪要加奶粉(我當然無理佢), 到亞bb4個月的時候又話要煮粥仔亞bb食, 我同佢講亞bb要到6個月先食得, 又唔信, 跟住我現在仍喂緊, 佢景然話亞bb食得多人奶唔好, 問佢又咩唔好又講唔出, 因我亞bb唔係好鍾意佢, 佢就話因亞bb食人奶, 所以痴我, 但我唔理佢.
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Lamblamb


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發表於 05-9-29 12:33 |只看該作者

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Hi Katie,

Your 99 is so jealous!
  Lulube was born weighing 3.2 kg
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katiecheung


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Hi Lamblamb

係呀, 我奶奶 妒忌亞b跟我, 又時我奶奶抱亞b, 明知亞b唔鍾意都抱住唔放, 又話唔好比亞b認人, 成日攪到亞b cry, 攪到我都唔開心
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