is it ok one bun bun look after 2 children
one is 7 months and one is 4 years old
the elder one goes to school from 11 to 4
i am quite worrying about them
because the elder one is very active
the younger one always wants people to carry
i go to work from this month
so one thousand worries
any mummy can share
thank you for your reply in advance
My maid look after two boys, one 5.5, one 4.25. She is OK. She works with me since they are 2 & 9mths old.
You should let her know what is the most important thing she has to take care.
I did tell her look after the boys is her main job. Weekdays basic cleaning plus meals are enough. Sat is the big cleaning while we are at home and take care the boys oursleves.
thank you for your sharing. You cannot imagine how worry I am. the first day I come back from my office. The little one no sound at all , because crying too much. The elder one still not have dinner, around 8: 30pm.
I begin to wonder si it right I go out to work, but as you know, if you need money, of course you have to work.
Being a working mum is not easy at all.
you are totally right.
But due to ecocomic reason, I have to go out to work.
Can you share some experiences how to manage the maid in order to improve the present condition.
I have told her cannot be like that.
But she answer me it is really busy and she has already tried her best to do it.
As I go out to work for the whole day,
I dare not scold her,
but only respond in a firm attitude and ask her to have better management.
Is this her excuse , or the real situation?
I think it is OK if you let your elder one study full day in school, so that your maid can take her time to look after the younger one and do some houseworks.
is it ok one bun bun look after 2 children
one is 7 months and one is 4 years old
the elder one goes to school from 11 to 4
---> if your helper is capable, it should be ok cos there is a age gap between your kids. for the active one, you may tell your helper to get your kid busy e.g. playing different kinds of games / toys / activities at home - drawing, puzzle, building blocks, vcd or dvd, etc. my view is ~ it does not worth to employ two helpers in your case. the capability of your maid is very very important
my case is:
my first kid was born in 02, second one in 03 and third one in 05. i'm a working mother and don't have in-laws or my parents to help out ~ so i definitely need two helpers. i hired my second helper right after my second child was born.
I agree with prettywife that the maid has to be very capable in order to take care of two children. But from my experience, it is very difficult to find such capable or good maid, you would be lucky if you can find a maid that is good but maid who is capable of taking care of two children at the same time would be extremely difficult to find.
I have a 5 years old daughter and a new born baby. My daughter goes to morning school, I plan to hire a philippine maid together with a local baby sitter (very costly), but I got no choice since my unit can not accommodate two maids and I think it is better off with two helpers of different background so they can not play up at the same time. The local baby sitter is just temporary until I find a capable maid who can take care of my two children.
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I think it is OK if you let your elder one study full day in school, so that your maid can take her time to look after the younger one and do some houseworks.
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i have no other relative or old people to help
and my house cannot employ 2 maids
i think i can only employ one local part time
come 9 to 12 from mon to sat
the salary is 2000
my living place is near caine road
any people have friends or relatives want to introduce,
kindly let me know
i am really grateful to all of you, willing to share my headach n big worries.
i have no one to talk to n i love my children very much.
so the word "thank you" is from my heart , to all of you
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