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大宅

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發表於 11-11-5 20:57 |只看該作者
工人黎左4個月, 每次講野前都唔會叫太太OR 先生, 好多時都係得三個人OR 我同工人在家, 所以佢講野都會覺得我一定會應佢, 但好似有無禮貌咁, 可以點同佢講呢, 因為我老公開始覺得佢無禮貌啦, 就咁同你講, 一聲太太都唔會叫....
現在佢做哂野都自己去拜神唔會知會我一聲, 我自己去同佢講OR 叫AGENT 同佢講好?????


大宅

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發表於 11-11-5 21:35 |只看該作者
1. Just talk to her directly about your requirements.
2. Call her name before you tell her to do something so that she can learn from you.
3. Remind her whenever she forgets to do so.
4. If it doesn't work then ask the agent to talk to her.

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wongwlv  good suggestion  發表於 11-11-7 11:35
mmnmm_m  完全同意,用身教,直接講,最有效  發表於 11-11-5 22:27


大宅

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發表於 11-11-5 22:52 |只看該作者
回覆 suki1012 的帖子

my ex-helper always call me "mama" when she want to talk o me....a little funny but I don't mind..


男爵府

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發表於 11-11-6 00:44 |只看該作者
我之前都有你類似問題,工人黎左4個月左右,我媽話工人態度麻麻,佢上到黎工人唔嗌佢、唔笑,我都發現佢無講早晨同早抖果d......

我果陣都諗左一輪應該點,後來開心見誠見佢講,我地中國人既文化係要有禮、要叫人,我想bb將來都有禮貌,所以想工人都咁做,仲俾左張memo教佢點:

e.g. 有客人黎,開門要講早晨/hello,要斟茶;早上要say早晨,臨睡say早抖

她的回應好好,之後一路都做到晒!

我估可能文化唔同,佢又有d怕醜,so......

我suggest唔駛經agent啦,自己講左先!


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發表於 11-11-6 11:36 |只看該作者

引用:工人黎左4個月,+每次講野前都唔會叫太太OR+

原帖由 suki1012 於 11-11-05 發表
工人黎左4個月, 每次講野前都唔會叫太太OR 先生, 好多時都係得三個人OR 我同工人在家, 所以佢講野都會覺得 ...
Is it a problem? My new bun just arrived. She says"Excuse me 太太"all the time. I really prefer she just ignores me. Now I am a little bit shy to step out of my room and meet her.




大宅

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發表於 11-11-6 22:13 |只看該作者
My previous helper was quite good and polite at first. But she changed in the second year. I really felt odd when I saw her every morning and she didn't greet or looked at me just like a stranger on the street.

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jloklok  why she become like that ?  發表於 11-11-6 22:38


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發表於 11-11-6 23:25 |只看該作者

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男爵府

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發表於 11-11-7 00:25 |只看該作者
lovesunny 發表於 11-11-6 11:36
Is it a problem? My new bun just arrived. She says"Excuse me 太太"all the time. I really prefer sh ...
哦,咁睇你本身的家庭文化je~
不過你唔駛專登叫佢"減少"同你excuse me,佢自己會慢慢「融入家中」(愈來愈不客氣)


子爵府

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發表於 11-11-7 01:28 |只看該作者

引用:Quote:原帖由+suki1012+於+11-11-05+發表工

原帖由 lovesunny 於 11-11-06 發表
Is it a problem? My new bun just arrived. She says"Excuse me 太太"all the time. I really prefer sh ...
慢慢會慣,反而唔叫你好無禮貌




侯爵府

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發表於 11-11-7 13:06 |只看該作者
直接講---代$入他袋,幫人教女


大宅

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發表於 11-11-7 14:08 |只看該作者
直接同佢講, 相信你同佢講嘢前都會叫佢個名, 你同佢講你expect佢都咁做咪得囉.

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