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ivanama

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發表於 11-11-8 10:26 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

本帖最後由 ivanama 於 11-11-8 10:29 編輯

賓賓做咗5個月, 佢要照顧8個月大bb, 平時要等我地放工返屋企先可沖涼, 尋晚突然同我講要朝早沖涼, 佢話呢樣係佢响菲律賓嘅習慣, 我同佢講(1)朝早沖阻住我地返工用廁所 (2) bb細, 冇人在家時,佢走咗去沖涼好危險 (3)做完家務會好大汗, 夜晚會整污穢張床, 跟住佢好委屈咁喊, 我就唯有比佢掃地拖地後, 等bb瞓著就可以沖。

依家好後悔開咗個先例! 因為遲d bb識行時會更危險! 即使佢去沖涼時bb是睡著, 但有可能bb好快瞓醒, 到時bb走來走去又冇人咪好危險?

應承咗好難收返, 我可以點做呢?

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spiderlily

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發表於 11-11-8 10:46 |只看該作者

You can let her bath before you use the bathroom in the morning. You set the time that she has to finish by then. They usually wake up early.

My previous two helpers and the now bun bun bath in the morning and take a quick shower before bed.

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spiderlily 發表於 11-11-8 10:46
You can let her bath before you use the bathroom in the morning. You set the time that she has to ...

Yes, I ask my maid to wake up at 7, but she wakes up at 6:45am to take bath and wash her hair. I don't mind as long as she's clean enough to take care of babies.

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本帖最後由 ivanama 於 11-11-8 11:11 編輯

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點解一定要沖2次涼呢?
點解d bun 一定要朝早沖呢? 真係唔明?! 佢只係來打工, 呢度唔係佢屋企, 佢咁做就等於 “因為我習慣食下午茶, 所以我要求老闆一定要有下午茶時間咁” 唔合理lor!

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發表於 11-11-8 11:29 |只看該作者

為免佢係你地出門口之後放底bb唔理,你都係叫佢早d起身沖啦..
之後晚上再沖一次囉..佢乾淨d你都放心d

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ivanama 發表於 11-11-8 11:10
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點解一定要沖2次涼呢?

It is something related to personal habit. I find it ok as it does not affect her job. If insist on changing one's habit which is not material to the job, the relationship won't be long and good.

If we do not drill too much and go extreme, we have less trouble to face with. Helpers are also human beings, like us. Job of care taking nature depends very much from the heart and mutual respect is the key.

The thought of employer has absolute and overwhelming power is OUT in the 21st century. We can experience the mentality of nowadays helpers are different from those 10-20 years ago. We have to keep in pace with the changing world. Those were the days...

Everyone has different view and value. This is just my thoughts.

P.S. She works as a live-in helper. Is your home considered as her home ("quarter") in Hong Kong?

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Lovely_Babybaby Totally agree with you! 發表於 11-11-9 09:25

mmnmm_m agree 發表於 11-11-9 08:45

TelleTelleMom agree 發表於 11-11-8 22:57

hoifai i agree with you! 發表於 11-11-8 14:09

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發表於 11-11-8 11:39 |只看該作者

我屋企個賓都係朝早沖涼,但佢好早起身沖,而且我屋企有兩個廁所,所以唔會阻到我返工,有時晚上佢仲會再來過quick shower先瞓

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spiderlily It is a good hygienic habit. Something similar to brushing teeth. 發表於 11-11-8 11:44

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發表於 11-11-8 12:05 |只看該作者

try to tell her take a bath b4 everyone wake up !

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回覆：賓賓喊住要朝早沖涼

係喎，唔好阻住我地朝早起身用洗手間，你知朝早幾趕啦

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發表於 11-11-8 13:36 |只看該作者

If you let her take shower at morning time, remember to fix the time.

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sunshine0613

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發表於 11-11-8 13:53 |只看該作者

Shower 好啦, Bath 好大獲架.

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發表於 11-11-8 14:00 |只看該作者

sorry, i have the same habit for ages! showers in the morning & before go to bed

declare that i'm not a bun bun but purely HKer though!

as long as no crashing & maid does not take shower in the morning when no adult staying home

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發表於 11-11-8 14:15 |只看該作者

my bun shower in the afternoon with my bb sleep

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其實我個姐姐都一樣 (佢係印印), 佢要晚上沖一次涼AROUND 20-25MINS, 跟住一起身又沖一次 AROUND 20 MINS,,,有時成30 MINS.....佢要TAKE CARE一個3個月BB和一個4歲BB, 試過好多次佢沖緊涼, BB都叫, 我覺得如果中間要出街,或者SUMMER TIME, 佢沖兩次都OKAY, 但如果係冬天, 又唔要出街, 我唔明點解MORNING都要沖涼....

但佢唔會同阿女沖兩次涼....

我覺得香港空氣唔好, 一出街, 一定要沖多次涼, 返工要見人, 早上都要沖多次.....但姐姐無MUD 呢個需要!不過我從來無話過佢 (想問佢好多次), 只係有叫佢沖涼唔好沖咁耐, 因為真係好唔環保!