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My New Indo Maid is too Smart, Worry!!

It is my first time to employ a maid. My indo maid arrive today and I find her is too smart! I am worry I cannot "head" of her.

Would you please share your experience what I should do in advance to minimize any trouble?

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Re: My New Indo Maid is too Smart, Worry!!

我果隻新黎印印又係非常精叻....家陣都煩緊驚佢叻過頭~!

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發表於 05-10-24 19:36 |只看該作者

Re: My New Indo Maid is too Smart, Worry!!

Hi tsznok

How smart is your indo maid? Any example to share?

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發表於 05-10-24 21:57 |只看該作者

Re: My New Indo Maid is too Smart, Worry!!

等我講o下我個工人o既事啦~!
我係o向上星期四先接佢番o黎,講真,初頭真係令我好驚訝….驚訝o既係佢好多方面都令我好滿意:-
1. 個樣好順眼,好好笑容,亦好好禮貌,我見佢行李冇帶膠拖及毛巾,我見呢d野好平唧,咁我咪買俾佢當係送俾佢囉,佢都已經好開心咁識同我講”多謝太太”…可能係d門面說話,但起碼佢冇當係老馮要買俾佢丫。

2. 可能佢o向新加坡做過兩年幾,佢做野及個人衛生上都算好乾淨!份人仲好聰明,印印中佢都算係話頭醒尾果隻!之前我聽過d人講話佢地連基本個人衛生都要由頭教起,但佢都講得番俾我知去廁所要用紙巾抹、完事要洗手、M巾要用袋包好先可以掉落bin…等等;另外屋企好多家電都唔使教就識用,好似電煮水煲呀、飯煲呀、微波爐等等,唔使教都識用,我問佢o向邊度學番o黎,佢同我講新加坡o向果邊打工時學到o既…

3. 原本,我最擔心o既就係溝通問題,點知又一大驚喜 – 佢o向training center逗留期間(大約差唔多一個月),已經學好左廣東話(之前新加坡果份工講英文及馬拉話),即時已經同我完全溝通倒囉!!我初時都怕佢聽唔明又扮明,但佢又講得番晒我要求係點、我要佢做乜野等等,所以肯定佢係明白我講乜野。不過,從呢樣野睇,佢個人真係好醒目….換轉要我一個月內學識印尼話都唔得啦!

後來過左兩日,到上星期六之後…

本來我都幾like呢個工人,覺得佢幾純品又冇乜野咁,家務果d都做得唔錯,好醒目果種….但o向上星期六,俾我o向webcam拍倒佢上午入左我間房,仲要此地無銀三百兩地用件衫遮住房o既webcam,期間足足有九個字時間唔知佢攪過d乜(因為我即晚check番又冇野唔見過)!!初時我想即日揭穿佢,但老公同一d朋友講叫我唔好打草驚蛇,話佢好可能只係出於八掛想睇o下個老闆間房衣櫃有d乜、想睇o下我收埋左佢本passport o向邊...等等。by the way, 星期日我老公已經裝多左隻針孔從另一方向拍間房,另外我亦提左工人兩次,叫佢如果先生或太太唔o向屋企,唔可以入房做任何野(包括清潔)....睇o下仲會唔會有"真人show"!順帶一提,佢湊我大仔湊得幾好,我個仔對住佢唔夠半日已經好跟佢....我尋日試過扮訓覺入房,得番佢同個仔o向廳,我就o向房睇真人show...見佢好有心機同我仔仔玩&睇書仔咁。

到今日三點幾,我老公番左屋企"突擊檢查",入屋見佢冇乜野咁做緊d家務,我老公就入房睇番d片,我最關心o既當然係:佢有冇再入我間房呢?結果係:有囉!!聽我老公形容,佢入左房後先用條毛巾、好似走火警咁遮住自己個頭(正白痴),然後走去舊有o既webcam位用衫遮住佢,之前提及我地星期日已經o向另一個位裝左個針孔,佢唔知仲有另一個webcam囉~~~~如我估計一樣,佢係出於八掛而走入我間房囉!因為片中佢只係打開我地衣櫃門&衣櫃入面櫃筒睇,連手都冇伸過入去,真正"眼看手冇動";大約十分鐘左右,佢就拎番開用o黎遮住webcam o既衫,行番出去閂埋門。

我同agent傾過,佢suggest我要嚴厲地話佢咁樣唔o岩。但我老公就認為: -
1. 其實將來小朋友番黎長住時(而家大仔o向我媽咪果邊住),我地o既房門都會中門大開,而家話完佢,第時咪又係要俾佢行入去。
2. 如果而家擺晒d証據出o黎,咪等如教精佢,話晒俾佢知我邊度裝左webcam,仲有佢雖然精,識得用衫遮鏡頭,但又叻唔晒,冇諗過我地會拍倒佢呢個動作,其實都係一隻豬,所以我老公話如果同佢攤牌就等如教精左佢。
3. 暫時睇佢只係衰八掛,但其他家務都做得好好,照顧大仔暫時睇落又冇乜問題。
4. 原本我地安排佢放平日,但佢就提過想放兩個星期日,我老公就話,既然如此,不如就當係一個"交換",老公叫我同佢講:"太太同先生傾過喇,先生話可以俾你放兩個星期日,不過,先生要你明白,因為保安問題,屋企入面d webcam係唔可以郁動或遮住,如果俾先生發現你郁過d cam,就一定唔可以放星期日!"

唉,講真我又冇乜貴重野會擺屋企,因為我地兩公婆都唔習慣擺大舊錢o向屋,金銀珠寶果類野又會收o向保險箱,銀紙果d我又會夾入銀包,除非佢連廁紙都o岩啦…
有時我地呢d在職媽咪真係好無奈,兩公婆都要出去番工,兩個小朋友就咁肉隨占板上,對佢太狼的話,我相信吃虧o既只係自己!我都有考慮過:"使唔使炒佢呢?!"…但炒左佢,冇人擔保下一個會o岩用,如果仲衰過呢個,又點呢?!再者我都冇時間去再教個新o既工人。

§ 為左食得好又健康啲，靚太橫行廚房中… §

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發表於 05-10-24 23:05 |只看該作者

Re: My New Indo Maid is too Smart, Worry!!

your maid is very similar to my previous maid, she had resigned and left my house on 30 Sep. The agent help her to find another employer before she left. I also installed cam in my house in my bedroom, dining room and living room. However, I found her steal my personal belonging e.g. tooth paste, tooth brush, sanitary napkin, shampoo ...etc , things that can be found in the toilet where cam cannot be installed. Becareful for these...

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發表於 05-10-24 23:39 |只看該作者

Re: My New Indo Maid is too Smart, Worry!!

doraemonj,

趁早俾d rules 佢歎吓，唔係遲d 就 head 唔住佢。佢有唔啱，你要令佢知道你唔滿意佢嘅做法或態度，千祈唔好忍佢，否則佢以為亞 mum好易"恰"。

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發表於 05-10-24 23:46 |只看該作者

Re: My New Indo Maid is too Smart, Worry!!

tsznok,
如果你工人咁醒，你重俾星期日佢放假，小心越學越壞。

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發表於 05-10-25 00:40 |只看該作者

Re: My New Indo Maid is too Smart, Worry!!

Hi andrewbaba

I brought the maid to have body check today only. The medical report will be ready on Wednesday. If everything is ok, I will let her "enter house" on Wednesday.

Her cantonese is quite good. I said she's smart because she listen my questions "selectively"!

Same as tsznok, my indo maid has nice smile.

I will ask her to sign "house rules" before enter house. But as smart as her, sure she will negotiate with me for holidays and other things.

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發表於 05-10-25 00:47 |只看該作者

Re: My New Indo Maid is too Smart, Worry!!

唔好比佢放星期日住。

首先同佢講，話個房 web cam 比人遮住左，而廳部 web cam 就影到佢入去之後先至比人遮住既，咁就實係佢啦，你話可能佢唔覺意啦，不過，一定唔可以再犯，仲同佢講唔見得d 野(求其講樣唔係好值錢既野)，問佢有無見過，佢實話無。

咁你就同佢講，下次部 web cam 再比野遮住而有野唔見，就會即刻報警拉佢。

你咁講住先，再觀察下佢先，然後先決定比唔佢佢放星期日。

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發表於 05-10-25 00:51 |只看該作者

Re: My New Indo Maid is too Smart, Worry!!

我個印都係好醒目個隻!做佐唔夠1week,佢第一日黎都同佢講唔可以大話!
之前都試過,但想比機會佢!今日比我捉到睌飯後冇抺廚房地下!問佢,佢仲話日日有抺,!我話煎完魚成地油,你又出出入入!!會整污穢埋個廳,佢死死地氣走去抺.!!,我條氣好唔順,就同佢講以後叫你做的野,你冇做,我唔會鬧你,做返咪得囉.唔好講大話!..
& 我一早同佢講過第日我放工o向到,"你就做你平時做唔到的家務(之前都重複講過幾次),好似洗厠所咁(之前只叫洗厠搭,但昨晚叫利用我o向到時洗下企缸).依家我放假train你揍bb,都可以忍受,但唔代表你唔使洗,衣家都10:15pm la.日日咁遲咪使洗??聽至做la" 之後佢沖完涼!就入佐房,bb晚飯條餐巾&10點奶的沙巾都洗,&冇同我講聲"我訓la"(之前佢有講or我叫佢訓la,幾日係唔過11pm,我驚佢冇精神),
重有6pm 我o向到,佢洗好餸但未煮得住,就成日出黎同bb玩,今日成日係間房&出去買餸都冇同bb玩la,想比佢揍熟下先啫!&我餵晚餐比bb食,食佐碗幾唔想食la.工人就係廚房出黎,叫bb食la.重同我講話bb下午都食都好多,好似我唔識餵咁

重攞佐隻匙餵bb,bb都只係食佐一啖,就擰晒頭!我有o的唔like話:bb唔食囉!佢再食會嘔家!!

唔係個仔係佢手+對bb好&肯同佢玩(唔知係咪我o向到)
否則

實係天花板見到佢!當我流

我有好多野都冇set佢幾時做,我話你做一次徹底的以後要保持,或我覺得污,你就要洗,而且我假期有限,最注要係train佢揍bb,其他野都叫佢得閒orbb訓佐至做...大野就留返我o向到先做 :-(

以後應該點應付呢!個仔係佢手!!
有冇人可以幫我呀??
thanks

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發表於 05-10-25 00:54 |只看該作者

Re: My New Indo Maid is too Smart, Worry!!

Is the "Sunday" holiday a big bargain power? I read some BK message use Sunday holiday as a weapon.

Actually, I don't mind the indo maid to day-off on Sunday.

By the way, can I offer her 2 holidays @month now? Of course, I will pay back her in terms of money$$. Will she sue me in future?

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Re: My New Indo Maid is too Smart, Worry!!

doraemonj 寫道:
Is the "Sunday" holiday a big bargain power? I read some BK message use Sunday holiday as a weapon.

Actually, I don't mind the indo maid to day-off on Sunday.

By the way, can I offer her 2 holidays @month now? Of course, I will pay back her in terms of money$$. Will she sue me in future?

根據法例，休息日 (即係每星期既例假) 係可以工作既，只要佢同意，唔同法定勞工假期。所以，你同個工人講掂數，仲要出糧個時清清楚楚有條數，顯示係有出到個兩日休息日既人工比佢就得。

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Re: My New Indo Maid is too Smart, Worry!!

Hi Maymei

How old is your BB?

My friend said a working timetable for maid is a must. eg. time to wash floor, wash cloth, cook baby food daily.... or wash window, wash refrigrator once a week, etc.

I am drafting a timetable for my indo maid, very trouble!

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Re: My New Indo Maid is too Smart, Worry!!

Hi Tommythumb

Thank you for your information.

To employ and train an indo maid is much troublesome than I go to work myself. Originally, I am planning to take rest during my "pre-delivery-baby" 3 weeks holiday. But now, I think go to work is more comfortable than to "face" an indo maid.

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Re: My New Indo Maid is too Smart, Worry!!

Sunday holiday is really a problem to me! when my yan yan came 5 months ago, I already told her no Sat or Sun. but she said she wanted to go to training ctr to learn how to cook and Cantonese..so I let her Sat off...and then she hv many reasons and want to hv Sun off e.g. Indo bank only open on Sun, not Sat, want to learn computer course which only on Sun la....and now she ask for Sun off on Nov 6 because of Muslim day ! I don't know what to do !!!

I am tired to argue with her, because my son is on her hand...!!! :-(

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發表於 05-10-25 01:30 |只看該作者

Re: My New Indo Maid is too Smart, Worry!!

Ask your agent talk to her . Cannot be like that .

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Re: My New Indo Maid is too Smart, Worry!!

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Re: My New Indo Maid is too Smart, Worry!!

tommythumb 寫道:
[quote]
doraemonj 寫道:
Is the "Sunday" holiday a big bargain power? I read some BK message use Sunday holiday as a weapon.

Actually, I don't mind the indo maid to day-off on Sunday.

咁兩年唔放假，補$得唔得?

By the way, can I offer her 2 holidays @month now? Of course, I will pay back her in terms of money$$. Will she sue me in future?

根據法例，休息日 (即係每星期既例假) 係可以工作既，只要佢同意，唔同法定勞工假期。所以，你同個工人講掂數，仲要出糧個時清清楚楚有條數，顯示係有出到個兩日休息日既人工比佢就得。[/quote]

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發表於 05-10-25 01:37 |只看該作者

Re: My New Indo Maid is too Smart, Worry!!

I ask already, but agent said I definitely said no at the very beginning, now it is more difficult to head her....BTW, is any one know the exact Muslim date, I hv asked someone is Nov 4, not Nov 6, and then she said Muslim date is from Nov 4 - 6. Thank you

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