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男爵府

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發表於 05-10-21 15:46 |只看該作者

賓賓瞓晏覺

我個賓賓嚟咗兩個月,每晚多數11點幾瞓﹝有時可以早瞓佢都係自己睇書﹞、朝早6點半起身執屋、抹地,因為我個仔夜晚唔係瞓得咁好,有時一晚會醒幾次,要人拍下瞓番﹝未必需要抱起,同埋多數拍幾下瞓番﹞,但係而家我個仔下就瞓晏覺,個工人多數會陪我個仔瞓埋一份﹝我阿媽響屋企照瞓﹞,雖則佢基本家務都做妥,但係如果要做一定有家務做,例如鞋櫃佢嚟咗兩個月都未抹過內籠、廚櫃呀o個d都唔會攞起d野抹下/執下,我阿媽話如果唔話佢,習慣咗日日瞓下就覺就幣,但係因為我個仔夜晚成日醒,佢都或者係夜晚瞓得唔好,所以日頭冇精神要瞓下覺.....如果你係我,會唔會話佢?? 而佢算唔算過份呢??


大宅

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發表於 05-10-21 16:28 |只看該作者

Re: 賓賓瞓晏覺

jollydophin,
Hi! Your bb is so cute! How old is he?
My bb sleep in the same room with my maid & she normally awake several times at night & I let my maid sleep in the afternoon with my bb.

I also feel the same as what u mention :"雖則佢基本家務都做妥,但係如果要做一定有家務做,例如鞋櫃佢嚟咗兩個月都未抹過內籠、廚櫃呀o個d都唔會攞起d野抹下/執下" . (I quess that's all the boss thinking !)

During holidays, I am the only one who take care my bb , I won't did any housework except cook for my b....I still feel very very tired! & I will also sleep during my bb is & I must agree that take care bb is really not easy! That's why even though sometime when I saw my house is not tidy enough & it make me feel unhappy but I will still let her sleep in the afternoon ....but I will tell her to clean it the place later on law~!

I also don't know I let my maid is correct or not but I can tell u that my relationship with my maid is very good & she love my b......that's what I concern most!


男爵府

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發表於 05-10-21 17:17 |只看該作者

Re: 賓賓瞓晏覺

milka,
我個仔而家14個月lu...多謝你讚佢cute..不過佢真人好naughty架...如果你見到...我驚佢會嚇親你....哈哈...你個囡囡呢..而家幾大呀...佢都好靚女呀...

講番工人...其實我有時都諗...湊b真係好辛苦...加埋要做家務...你都咪話唔係...但係我媽咪成日話而家初初唔話佢..佢一定會變本加厲...所以我亦都好矛盾囉...當然我都好想佢鍚我bb...而佢一直以來既表現亦都係好細心照顧我個仔既...但係因為早兩日發生咗一d唔開心野...佢比我炳完...我同佢硬係覺得中間有少少...唔知點講咁,不過佢依然對我個仔ok...所以我唔知如果再同佢講...會唔會令我地既關係變差...仲之就好頭痕....當然,如果佢唔係好過份,我都想由得佢,但係你知啦,屋企有個老人家,佢梗係話我咁就個工人點唔得點唔得,所以都唔知點算...





侯爵府

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發表於 05-10-21 17:39 |只看該作者

Re: 賓賓瞓晏覺

我吾會比工人訓晏覺

同埋屋企有人係度, 佢又吾係做左好耐, 自動自覺佢訓晏覺, 佢根本自把自為.............test 緊你bottom line

我都知我工人會訓晏覺, 但我看吾到當吾知

但我係屋企就一定吾得

佢吾係夜訓, 係你比佢訓, 佢看書吾去訓之麻


別墅

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發表於 05-10-21 17:42 |只看該作者

Re: 賓賓瞓晏覺

I let my maid take nap in the afternoon when my girl was still a baby. There's no right / wrong! Try it yourself & you would know what to do :lol:
You better explain to your maid about the situation...just be reasonable la!!


大宅

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發表於 05-10-22 00:26 |只看該作者

Re: 賓賓瞓晏覺

真係好難講, 在我來說, 我之前個工人, 同而家的都不可以訓, 我是這樣指示的, 她有冇偷偷地去訓就唔知啦,

在我認識的朋友中, 有d都會比佢地訓, 但大部份都不會, 除非他們晚上真係訓得好少, 而我的工人過去一直都不用晚上起身揍bb的, 所以冇得訓晏覺亦好天公地道


珍珠宮

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發表於 05-10-22 00:29 |只看該作者

Re: 賓賓瞓晏覺

我會同佢講襯囝仔去訓晏覺, 你要抺野架.


男爵府

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發表於 05-10-22 09:04 |只看該作者

Re: 賓賓瞓晏覺

Thanks for all your advice.


伯爵府

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發表於 05-10-22 10:09 |只看該作者

Re: 賓賓瞓晏覺

我有比我bunbun瞓晏覺, 我以前仲成日叫佢亞b瞓晏覺你就一同瞓啦. 因我亞b都係好似你個b一樣晚上瞓得唔係幾好. 我覺得夜瞓早起要比佢瞓晏覺囉(比著你係佢你估你會唔會瞓晏覺呀) 而且佢d野都做晒啦. 當然屋企野要做一定有好多野做, 不過如果佢唔夠瞓會好易病, 我覺得休息後工作能力會好d添. 睇你點睇啦, 我地做野都會蛇下啦, 佢瞓得幾耐啫1hr啫. 唔通你想做屎人咪. 大家都係人無咩所謂啦唔好要求咁高


子爵府

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發表於 05-10-22 10:51 |只看該作者

Re: 賓賓

我想問妳了, 屋企有老人家係度, 如果妳吾想工人因為甘而


男爵府

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發表於 05-10-22 11:31 |只看該作者

Re: 賓賓

siulisa & all,
我個情況唔同,我個仔係唔需要人陪瞓覺架,不過係個工人見到我個仔瞓咗覺,所以自己瞓埋一份啫...但係佢亦都冇限住自己瞓幾耐,總之如果冇人叫佢整野,佢可以瞓到阿仔起身先起架...我阿媽就話,有時見佢瞓咗,都唔知好唔好叫佢起身整野好,好似好衰咁,但係屋企有野整,又無理由比佢瞓覺而唔駛整架喎...就好似尋日,我個仔要覆疹,臨出門口前半個鐘瞓咗,咁地下成堆玩具未執,個工人又去瞓埋,率之我阿媽係出口門前叫咗佢兩次,佢先起身執埋d玩具,同攪好出門口既野...你話如果係咁,係咪都算我地過份咗呢??


子爵府

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發表於 05-10-22 11:59 |只看該作者

Re: 賓賓

jollydophin

如果係米又好似過份佐咼, 即係佢當正自已


洋房

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發表於 05-10-22 15:45 |只看該作者

Re: 賓賓

我的情況係我本來沒有明確話可以或吾可以, 我亦在星期六(我day off在家的時候)見到個賓have a afternoon nap. 開始時我無出聲, 但如是者一個又一個星期, 總之每次我放假係屋企都見佢會take afternoon nap, 仲係問都無問就先動去訓, 所以我好吾高興. 跟往我就比過份reviewed home regulation佢, 寫明no afternoon nap without permission. 點知個maid問我點解吾可以有晏覺 死未? (直情老奉一樣) 老實講, 我家只得兩大1小(3歲), 日間兩大都要番工, 囡囡就朝早番學, 中午食完飯大概1:30pm, 之後2:00pm-5:00pm訓晏覺. 個工人下午得閒到死, 本應有足夠時間做定dinner的預備工夫, 好似洗菜, 切定肉類等, 但佢就用來訓, 或講電話或做自己野. 每晚要成8點幾先有飯食. 不過我宜家同佢講, 佢可以take nap, 不過要finish all the housework and dinner must start at 7:00pm sharp. 如果佢做到我的要求咪訓到夠羅. 所以近日食多左好多餐chestnut燜chicken, chestnut燜排骨, chestnut煲湯, 又或者steamed minced pork with (something) 貪佢工夫多, 吾駛有籍口話無野做要訓覺.


複式洋房

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發表於 05-10-23 07:50 |只看該作者

Re: 賓賓

jollydophin 寫道:
siulisa & all,
我個情況唔同,我個仔係唔需要人陪瞓覺架,不過係個工人見到我個仔瞓咗覺,所以自己瞓埋一份啫...但係佢亦都冇限住自己瞓幾耐,總之如果冇人叫佢整野,佢可以瞓到阿仔起身先起架...我阿媽就話,有時見佢瞓咗,都唔知好唔好叫佢起身整野好,好似好衰咁,但係屋企有野整,又無理由比佢瞓覺而唔駛整架喎...就好似尋日,我個仔要覆疹,臨出門口前半個鐘瞓咗,咁地下成堆玩具未執,個工人又去瞓埋,率之我阿媽係出口門前叫咗佢兩次,佢先起身執埋d玩具,同攪好出門口既野...你話如果係咁,係咪都算我地過份咗呢??

野都未執好就去訓晏覺,我覺得唔可以接受,好似老馮咁樣 你阿媽話得佢岩呀,唔好種慣晒d工人呀 :tongue:


侯爵府

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發表於 05-10-23 08:34 |只看該作者

Re: 賓賓

我一早就講左, 吾係訓吾訓晏覺我問題, 是有老人家係屋企, 佢未得老人家/僱主同意就走去訓覺, 還要係黎左無幾耐, 你都吾出聲的話, 以後就真係無定企.

如果你驚佢因為湊你個仔夜晚吾夠訓, 自己湊返, 一黎可以check下你個仔夜晚起身的密度, 知道幸吾幸苦

我試過以前d bun, 成日同我講, 我個女夜晚成日起身, 佢地訓得吾好, so我比佢地訓晏覺, 點知到佢有次放假, 我自己同個女訓, 阿女根本無起過身, 佢返黎我問佢, 佢先話係呀, 依家無起身啦, 我頂..............無起身還訓晏覺?

跟住到個仔, 我自己同個仔訓, 起碼佢無execuse要訓晏覺, 我又吾以親子, 等到個仔真係無再半夜起身, 我未比返佢同工人訓law..........

p.s. 我有返工的, 我都無訓晏覺


男爵府

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發表於 05-10-24 01:05 |只看該作者

Re: 賓賓

hinhinmummy,

我個仔都係一時時,有時日頭玩得勁,真係起好多次身架...但係如果要我同佢瞓,又真係有一定問題,因為我係好夜瞓架,如果佢一晚仲要起幾次身既話,我就真係唔駛番工都得...仲有就係,如果佢張床放係我個房,就要成日推嚟推去,出房門又要推,落床又要推...真係有d....


別墅

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發表於 05-10-24 09:18 |只看該作者

Re: 賓賓

jollydophin,

你個賓係第一次來港定係係香港做過架?照睇你個賓好明顯係蝦你呀媽喎,真係當佢死的,你唔想正面同佢沖突,咁你一係隔晚比定多d野佢日頭做,又或者日頭多d打電話回家check佢,我都建議你睇仔訓覺既責任比返你阿媽,唔好再比你個賓去陪訓,你要同佢講明,日頭做完野想休息都唔可以入房休息,如果要休息就只可以係廚房,我就情願比個工人係廚房釣魚,都唔比佢大模私樣咁訓覺.


男爵府

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發表於 05-10-24 09:29 |只看該作者

Re: 賓賓

tssm,
佢係星做過兩年,今次第一次嚟香港...

係啦,我都覺得佢唔係話好專重我阿媽,不過,其實最大問題係佢地溝通唔到,雞同鴨講,我阿媽有我阿媽講,佢有佢做,所以我阿媽一同我講工人壞話o個時,我問佢有冇話佢,佢都係話"我點識同佢講"呀...所以而家個問題就係我身上,係我管得個工人唔好...但係當我話話個工人o個時,我阿媽又好勞氣咁話“唔好話佢喇”...好似早輪我炳我個工人比咗屋企電話人...炳到佢喊到九彩,我阿媽又同我講驚佢剋薄阿仔..你話幾咁左右做人難....


all,
我唔想話得佢太出面,所以我加咗工作比佢做,我叫佢襯阿仔瞓o個時盪阿仔d衫,以前我唔駛佢盪阿仔d衫架,一來d朋友同我講可以殺菌,二來可以等佢多番d野做,不過,唔知佢會唔會襯我阿媽係屋企o個時就等我阿媽去睇仔而佢走去做,如果係咁,最後個結果或者都係一樣...我諗要再睇睇佢會點樣安排先得..

不過,我同佢講o個時,我問佢會唔會有問題,佢都話可以加係阿仔瞓o個時,我諗佢醒我係間接話緊佢掛...


別墅

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發表於 05-10-24 10:58 |只看該作者

Re: 賓賓

jollydophin,

有老人家係屋企係咁架喇,我以前奶奶都有來我家幫手睇住個工人,咁果時請左個賓賓,我奶奶又係咁日日投訴,又叫我話個工人,但當我話個工人時,我奶奶又係度講,寄人籬下真慘,嘩!嬲得我丫,但又唔出得聲,鬼叫佢係長輩,後尾我都係炒左個工人,因為隻衰賓都唔係好野,所以當發覺工人有唔好既地方就一定要話,都唔使理d老人家講d咩野.

你既做法都


男爵府

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發表於 05-10-24 11:19 |只看該作者

Re: 賓賓

tssm,
佢唔係一個醒目既人,就算夾硬講係,佢都係學緊...我覺得正確d嚟講佢只係唔怕我阿媽,同埋我阿媽見到佢有乜唔妥都好少話佢﹝因為溝通唔到﹞...我尋日已經借d兒同佢講“婆婆係我master,佢話唔得我就要專重佢意見,要按佢意思做”..我咁講係個朋友教我...佢話等佢無意間接收到婆婆既說話我係佢主人都要專重...何況係佢...我頭先都特登打咗比我阿媽,我同佢講如果隻衰野襯我阿媽係度去盪衫,我叫阿媽同佢講"no"...到時等阿仔瞓咗覺,我就叫阿媽叫佢入去盪,等佢知道應該邊個時候做盪衫工作...或者一早係我衰既,我同佢講一星期盪一次衫,等佢平日好似好少野做咁,所以而家我同佢講總之洗完衫之後得閒就盪衫...再加埋我要佢盪阿仔d衫,我諗佢每日工夫會暫時多咗...真係要見招拆招..

唉...同工人玩/相處真係一個大學問,有機會真係要再同大家學習學習...

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