我同我男友拍拖2年了, now we planned to get marry. When he discuss this matter with his parents, they just concern if I can have baby or not, because they know I've operations b4 and they think I can't have baby! My bf told them doctor said I've no problem of having baby, but they don't believe........and they even don't mind I'm pregant b4 getting marry, which means I must have baby......then they would allow me get marry with their son!
In fact, the relationship between me and his parents were quite good, I feel really hurt by their response
My bf said he only want me, he don't care the others. I know he loves me very much, but I don't want to be his burden. Another way to do is.........I try to get pregant and they'll shut up. But I can accept it and I think this is not fair to my parents and my baby.
I'm not dare to tell my parents yet, because if they know it, they might feel upset and angry too.......
My bf was not young (and I'm not young too), he had good background and he can afford the expense for wedding too. But the problem is he is working for his family (family business)............that's hard for him if he upset his family. Or can say in another way, what is got is from his family. We must 面對佢兩老人家..........and therefore I know if I insist being together with him, 以後既日子就辛苦啦 :-(
My bf loves kids very much and he want to be father too. But he also said he don't mind if I can't have baby, he's know it's not my fault.
He firmly told me he will only marry me, he had confident we can overcome the difficulties. I know its hard to stop what other ppl think and talks...........but I really not have confident for myself. 佢父母唔會難為個仔, but they'll blame everything on me. This is not the 1st time they object his gf (they always picky towards to his ex-gf). Perhaps they think all the woman approach to his son was only for money la~(His family was rich)
Therefore, I don't want to make them feel I can do anything (pregant) in order to "entre" their family. I'm not that cheap!
take it easy.
1) 你要嫁比你男友, 而唔係嫁比佢屋企人
2) 現在最緊要係你BF ok or not.
i) ok, find a reason for your husband family
(ie: let you bf say, he cannot have bb due to himself)
(ie: 精蟲數目少or 精子唔活躍)
ii) not ok-you need to consider again to get marrie
(maybe later everything is ok, bb is coming ner)
my sister in law cannot have bb really the reason due to her husband like that!
I'm sorry to know that, would you consider to have boby check again and seek more opinion from expert b4 ruminating in the unhappiness.
Hope thing would become better.
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最緊要係你男友想點，如果佢都話無問題既，洗鬼理佢老豆老母講乜姐...話知佢同唔同意啦！家下成年人唔洗佢地簽紙架喎！
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