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If you or your friend has recently hired a Phili helper - Laarnie, pls read [複製鏈接]

nasapower

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I have come to know from my current helper that our ex-helper, Laarnie, has a new employer. If you or your friend has recently hired a new helper from Phili who's name is Laarnie, please read on. I wanted to share my experience with you about this helper then you can decide if you wanted to work with her.
I am a stay home mom and have three kids in my family and she is my second helper. She wrote on her resume that she has experience with 18 months old baby and was working in UAE as a helper. When she arrives, this is what happen...

She told my existing helper that she doesn't know how to bath baby.
She doesn't know how to change diapers!! She told me babies don't burb!
My girls has scratch knees going to the park, bang my daughter's head in her bed when putting her to sleep and she wont stop crying. =( My daughter felt off the stair of the slide right in front of her!! =O
She cannot cook - she put chicken and beef in the same pot!!!
She switch on air-con and open windows at the same time.
She eats while she is preparing/cooking our meal. ie. pre-boil pork meat for soup, the ends and bits of vegetables while chopping like carrots.
She using the bath sponge to clean my kids potty.
She has broken my exhaust fan in the toilet while cleaning, scratch my sofa with metal pieces from vaccum cleaner, polish my husband's shoes from grey to black.
She wash dishes but still find food on bowls and pans.
She left my car unattended park on the street, unlocked and engine running.
She lie about completing cleaning when it is obviously not done. ie, grease on kitchen counter
She told my existing helper, don't let your employer know that you know how to do this and that, or you will need to work more...

There are just many more funny experience. If you have a child, please reconsider. I find her pretty rough but this depends on your standard. She also demand food on her day off. She normally drinks 3 cups of coffee with two slices of bread in the morning, eat peanut butter out of the jar. Another slice of bread before lunch and afternoon tea time with two cups of coffee. She eats two bowls of rice each meal . She asked to have all the meat from my soup plus regular serving (we normally, have one kind of meat and one veg). She complains not enough food.

Soon after I hired her, finding that she is incapable, I have not let her get close to my children. She doesn't take care of my children at all, she only cook some basic food for me and my husband and clean (if she doesn't break anything...). I don't trust her and was adding work load on my other helper and arguing with her. I had to terminate her after nearly two months.

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vici

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發表於 11-12-16 02:07 |只看該作者

引用:I have come to know from my current help

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spiderlily

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發表於 11-12-16 06:59 |只看該作者

I found some helpers claimed not know doing something. In fact, they know more than you and me. My style is to give her the benefit of doubt; train and make her know - can easily differentiate whether dont know or dont want.

The one in my house has the same issue. Dont know this and that, cannot this and that... She can be trained if she really doesnt know but...

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tingbb@mama

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發表於 11-12-16 07:42 |只看該作者

回覆：If you or your friend has recently hired a Phili helper - Laarnie, pls read

珍惜感恩
You got this！！

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333s

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發表於 11-12-16 08:48 |只看該作者

most of maid are not trusted. lie is their nation /culture characteristic.

it is our fault if we do put expectation, or believing she is same as you, capable lady.

想不開、就別想. 得不到、就不要. 失去了、繼續笑. 擁有了、要珍惜。
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