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milka


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發表於 05-12-14 10:26 |只看該作者

Should/Shouldn't give all the best to our kid?

all,

I wish to hear your opinion about it.

1)Will u give up your favourite TV programme for your kid coz u feel shouldn't let your kid to watch the TV all the time?

2)Will u feel u don't really want to spend much to yourself but u are willing to buy something for your kid which u are affordable?

3)If the answer of (1) & (2) are yes....do u feel u spoil your kid? Anyone said u spoil your kid? Why?

Many Thanks!
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justjust


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發表於 05-12-14 10:40 |只看該作者

Re: Should/Shouldn't give all the best to our kid?

我一向唔支持小朋友睇太多電視﹐所以家中電視每日可能只開一至二小時﹐好多時係等小朋友訓左先開。我覺得唔係縱小朋友﹐係身教問題﹐我點樣可以一邊自己睇電視﹐一邊同囡囡講唔好掛住電視﹐專心d食飯﹐看書云云﹖我覺得我有責任除去電視呢個引誘。

但如果岩岩適逢喜愛既節目而唔打擾小朋友既活動﹐我地咪一齊睇囉。間唔中﹐大家鬆一鬆都要既。

至於第二條問題﹐好多有左小朋友既家長都會自自然然買少左自己既野﹐因心思都放晒落仔女度。但個人就覺得唔需要“buy everything for your kid which u are affordable”﹐如子女需要﹐need﹐自當然會提供﹐如只係want﹐就要過濾一下應唔應該買。若果真係在能力範圍內負擔得到的都買﹐唔過濾一下﹐就真係縱喇。
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milka


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發表於 05-12-14 11:03 |只看該作者

Re: Should/Shouldn't give all the best to our kid?

justjust,
Thanks for your reply!
Oh, U have two lovely angels, how lucky u are!
For (1), I got exactly the same thinking as u!
For (2), sorry for my poor English, actually it should be "something" instead of "everything".

I raise out the question as I also start to think if am really "abnormal" as what my 2 fds always told me... . They said I am a little bit over as I shouldn't give up/change my life style for my kid!!

They said I treat myself too bad (no Tv at night, seldom spend money to "eat" & "dress up"), they all believe it's good to kid if don't let them feel "satisfy", so that next day they can stand for everything.
e.g.: My fd said since her kid is 2 yr old (now is nearly 9yr), yesterday is the 2nd time they bring her to the Ocean park. when I asked her when she will bring her kid to HK Disneyland, she told me she is not interest with it, u know ....for me I feel....no matter I am not really like the place, if my kid wish to go, I will bring her there once!
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yuenwa


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發表於 05-12-14 11:09 |只看該作者

Re: Should/Shouldn't give all the best to our kid?

我平日都沒有時間睇電視, 而我囡囡都不太喜歡睇電視, 所以沒有思考過這問題。

至於物質上, 我會想, 我小時候都希望要個貼紙, 要個Melody髲夾, 所以我都會買這些東西給我囡囡, 當然不能太貴和太多。

要知道, "買得起"和"有錢買"是兩會事, "買得起"是不用死慳死抵, 買左仲有錢使的, 而"有錢買"是買了之後便沒錢使了。

我一定不會慳自己來買小朋友"想要"的東西, 亦只會買"買得起"的東西。但我一定會慳自己, 來買小朋友"需要"的東西。

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justjust


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發表於 05-12-14 12:59 |只看該作者

Re: Should/Shouldn't give all the best to our kid?

yuenwa 寫道:
我一定不會慳自己來買小朋友"想要"的東西, 亦只會買"買得起"的東西。但我一定會慳自己, 來買小朋友"需要"的東西。


一語中的。
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fc13


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發表於 05-12-14 13:30 |只看該作者

Re: Should/Shouldn't give all the best to our kid?

Agree
fc13
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Msma


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發表於 05-12-14 16:35 |只看該作者

Re: Should/Shouldn't give all the best to our kid?

不要比最好的比小朋友，無追求的生活人就會頹廢!

小時已穿dior ，著大屋，有花園，有佣人，飛機又養馬　，仲要努力追d乜呢 ？我穿開 fys就話想穿 bossini都要努力嗟，佢地仲要努力做乜呢？
Msma
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milka


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發表於 05-12-14 17:45 |只看該作者

Re: Should/Shouldn't give all the best to our kid?

Msma 寫道:
不要比最好的比小朋友，無追求的生活人就會頹廢!

小時已穿dior ，著大屋，有花園，有佣人，飛機又養馬　，仲要努力追d乜呢 ？我穿開 fys就話想穿 bossini都要努力嗟，佢地仲要努力做乜呢？


Dear all,
Thank u for all your replys! I really learn a lot from all of u!
I knew I still have a lot of things to learn & improve......
I will try not to spoil my kid, as I love her I should know how to say "no" in the right time.
Thanks!

msma,
Don't worry..... "Bossini" is nearly the best I can afford to buy for my kid....as I still need to afford a lot of exps of my own family & my mother side!
Thanks a lot!

Wish to learn more from all of u later.......!
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didima


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發表於 05-12-14 18:04 |只看該作者

Re: Should/Shouldn't give all the best to our kid?

hi milka:
(1)不會,另因我同囝囝都不太喜睇TV

(2)不會買他想耍的,但會買他"需要"的,需耍的便會買品質較好的


didima
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月希


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發表於 05-12-15 09:31 |只看該作者

Re: Should/Shouldn't give all the best to our kid?

1) 我唔太鍾意睇電視,最多睇新聞同資訊性既節目...仔仔要睇電視我都會比佢睇我揀既益智卡通

2) 本身自己就幾慳家架啦...so買野比仔仔都會計過度過,唔太貴先會買...不過可能d野全都唔太貴就久唔久都買 依點我諗真係太寵佢...因為我同老公都有少少覺得,仔仔根本就冇要求,因為係佢要求前我地見到d玩具諗佢會like既就會買

3)我同我老公有少少覺得太寵仔仔..不過冇人咁話過我地..
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milka


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發表於 05-12-15 10:05 |只看該作者

Re: Should/Shouldn't give all the best to our kid?

月希 寫道:
1) 我唔太鍾意睇電視,最多睇新聞同資訊性既節目...仔仔要睇電視我都會比佢睇我揀既益智卡通

2) 本身自己就幾慳家架啦...so買野比仔仔都會計過度過,唔太貴先會買...不過可能d野全都唔太貴就久唔久都買 依點我諗真係太寵佢...因為我同老公都有少少覺得,仔仔根本就冇要求,因為係佢要求前我地見到d玩具諗佢會like既就會買

3)我同我老公有少少覺得太寵仔仔..不過冇人咁話過我地..

Yue Hei & didima,
Thanks for your replys!
My bb is only 19 mos & she still don't know how to request me to buy anything yet (maybe not smart enough!)
Of-course, I won't & can't afford to spend big money to buy the things (toy & dress) to her....
Btw, I am so happy to learn & hear different voices from the other mami, I feel it's really good for me!
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yuenwa


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發表於 05-12-15 12:56 |只看該作者

Re: Should/Shouldn't give all the best to our kid?

時代唔同啦, 以前真係好窮, 米缸冇米, 亞媽都未必有錢買, 而家買個貼紙, 買件玩具有幾閒, 更何況你唔買, 大把人爭住買。

好似係屋企, 我買牛奶公司雪糕比亞囡食, 但姑媽會買haagendaz, 我更本阻止唔到姑媽請, 所以我只會話比我個囡知, haagendaz唔係必然, 她要感恩, 她是很幸福, 她有姑媽鍚。
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milka


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發表於 05-12-15 13:48 |只看該作者

Re: Should/Shouldn't give all the best to our kid?

yuenwa 寫道:
時代唔同啦, 以前真係好窮,.....
好似係屋企, 我買牛奶公司雪糕比亞囡食, 但姑媽會買haagendaz, 我更本阻止唔到姑媽請, 所以我只會話比我個囡知, haagendaz唔係必然, 她要"感恩", 她是很幸福, 她有姑媽鍚。

yuenwa,
Agree! "Thanks giving" is really what we should teach & let our kids know!
Not only for my kid, I always remind myself I should thanks for everythings which I am having from God!
(no matter it's good or not - from the point of view of a human being)
Thanks God for let me have a chance here to met u all!
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