My eleventh yrs baby girl always demanding people embracing her, she does not like sitting in the car or staying at the playpen with herself. When we go out,she must cry for climbing on the floor or walking by holding something. When the BB car is moving, she can claim down and looking around. She needs our attention everytime. Besides, she does not want to eat the congee as we take her outside. However, we see our friends,BB can play with themselves or sit down in BB car quietly. They advice us don't always embrace the bb and let them cry. But I don't know is it good for the bb and my mom always care about her. Pls give me some response. I am also afraid of she is a hyper active girl since she cannot be left alone at any time. She observe everything and touching everything. Before sleeping, she must crying loudly and she has to cry for bateing something when she sees we are eating. We are so exhausing and quite embrassing as we get along with other parent whom BB is quite disclipine. Any mom can show me your experience or advice.