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男爵府

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發表於 06-1-31 18:39 |只看該作者

如果BB1yr轉工人,係咪好難適應

我個工人來了五個月,現在bb六個月大,初頭個工人好好因識湊bb,識得煮飯,又自動自覺清潔,基本上吾洗教。之前佢瞓廳,早上六點幾起身,如bb早上喊要食奶,佢就即刻入房餵奶,到晚上洗完碗同沖涼後就會同大囝玩一排約十點半瞓。

但我發覺佢越來越懶,連我老公同媽咪都發覺到。現在晚上洗碗同煮飯手腳慢左,洗完碗同沖完涼後都十一點幾,大仔都要瞓覺,早上六點幾bb喊都吾主動起身開奶,好啦我自己開,佢到七點幾先起身,見到bb喊先入房抱佢,跟住我起身睇下,佢就抱住囝囝在sofa上瞓著左。平日佢成日話細囝好扭計,要抱先肯瞓,但當我放假係屋企,我抱bb瞓覺,佢居然都係到休息睇報紙吾做野,平時又話冇時間清潔間屋,但假日我照顧bb,你都係到休息。

我把幾火自己執囝囝的衫,大仔想去玩,我叫佢叫工人去樓下玩,工人即刻話佢要煮粥仔比細囝食吾得閒喎。好啦,到工人餵細囝飲奶,飲完之後佢抱細囝係sofa瞓著左,簡直當我地係透明。

我地兩老公都待佢不薄,佢就變本加厲,但唯一工人都有心機湊細囝,而且佢都未還完agent 錢,就這樣,係佢要求每月只放兩日假,另外兩日比錢,我比錢你,你居然瞓覺,所以諗緊好吾好轉工人。

吾好意思,要大家聽我發囉唆。 :-(


別墅

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發表於 06-1-31 23:35 |只看該作者

Re: 如果BB1yr轉工人,係咪好難適應

我經驗..希望可以幫到你la
咁要睇你bb本身係咪"痴"個工人&夜晚係咪跟佢訓(咁會難覺o的)...好似我咁..我囝囝本來係99揍日頭,夜晚揍返屋.但到13個月大時就揍返自屋企la(請印印)...我囝囝可能唔怕"生保"都冇樓計..&可能以前99唔係好同bb玩 ..所以一o的都冇掛住99,bb見都99都冇返應!相返唔係成日見到婆婆bb就好開心!&我係屋企時就好"痴"我!&唔肯跟工人訓...如果你想抄佢..你就要攞返個"主導權"唔好比佢有"棋"(bb跟佢)
&工人有乜野真係要話o家!唔係佢地會放肆(我個就係咁)!
但我覺得你咁忍工人,都唔係辦法!...我都試過比工人激到死死下!想:-( !!!當時佢黎佐1個月到,話極唔聽.就叫agent同工人講..&我就再同佢講下"耶穌"..依家都做佐快4個月la..okla..重係觀察緊!(我有心理準備除時 佢!!


大宅

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發表於 06-2-1 00:16 |只看該作者

Re: 如果BB1yr轉工人,係咪好難適應

真係吾明點解d人真係要咁忍.個個都好似怕bb吾慣.
奇實係d大人怕煩.樣樣都要從新教過.
又吾知再來個個係好吾好.所以就吾換.忍忍忍........
請工人真係講好彩.
我請過4個工人. (大囡跟過4個工人)
1. 做家務ok,奏b ok.但吾o錫bb.
2. 中國人.做左2個月就走.回鄉結婚war.
3. 做家務no good. 奏b no good. 來左2個月我就話要炒 佢. 但我老公就係怕煩.樣樣都要從新教過.卒知用左1年.
個段時間我就見佢後面憎佢前面. 當我一有左第2個bb就要我老公炒左佢. 如果吾係實產前 :-( :-( .
4. 係我bb出世前2個月到.舊個走左之後真空左4個月.
我要個agent 幫我找一個真係鍾意bb口工人.吾識揍吾緊係.
生完之後再教. 一手跟我要求做.
今次真係好好彩.係人見佢都話佢好.做事主動細心;阿b吾訓佢就叫都吾訓.相反佢叫我訓先;話因為我第2日要返工.
需然佢好好;但佢一做錯或者我吾想佢做口事.我都會
.
工人可以o錫;但吾可以慫.


男爵府

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發表於 06-2-1 10:10 |只看該作者

Re: 如果BB1yr轉工人,係咪好難適應

maymei,

我囝囝夜晚跟我瞓,所以都跟我,早排就好跟工人,我同老公抱佢都喊。

WindyTan,

請工人真係好睇運氣,你現在個工人真係好好。我初頭都以為我好好彩請到個工人吾洗教,點知六個月就現形,又吾主動細心,我放工都吾同我開定門同關門,要我出聲幫我鎖門先得,昨天佢放假,返來不知幾好笑容,所以我昨日都吾同佢傾,等我今日放工返屋企同佢傾下先。


複式洋房

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發表於 06-2-6 12:26 |只看該作者

Re: 如果BB1yr轉工人,係咪好難適應

mkwok,
I had a very similar situation as yours. My boy is now 13 months old, and my old maid was just fired because she did not take good care of my son. My old maid was a yan yan. She was with me before my boy was born. However, after I went back to work after the maternity leave, she always left my baby in the crib / playpan, without playing / talking to him. She always talked on the phone, or even went out. My boy was like an orphant, always bored and doing nothing.
So, although she knew really well about my boy, I finally decided to fire her as I think the first few years of life of my boy is very very important to his future development.
Now a new maid has come, and my boy is still adapting to her. I took 2 weeks leave to train up the new one, and I found it's essential.
Back to your point - whether it is hard to adapt. I think it all depends on the bonding between you and the baby. Like me, I sleep with my son and I spend all my time with him during holidays / off work. So he used to be very close to me. So my case is not that difficult.
"add oil". A bad carer is really no good for the baby, especially young ones like ours.


男爵府

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發表於 06-2-6 13:02 |只看該作者

Re: 如果BB1yr轉工人,係咪好難適應

Natma,

我上個星期都同工人傾過,咁arm佢又吾舒服,佢話佢個幾日吾舒服所以抱住bb瞓,我暗示過話老公可以考慮放bb去育嬰園(因我大囝係育嬰園大,工人都知道,但當然吾會啦),即係吾需要工人。

這兩天見佢的精神好D,而且好自動自覺做清潔,可能怕我吾用佢,因佢仲有一個月要還錢給agent。

我今次係第一次話佢,所以我現在睇定d,睇下過一排有冇又係咁。


寶石宮

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發表於 06-2-6 14:42 |只看該作者

Re: 如果BB1yr轉工人,係咪好難適應

我個仔一歲時都係轉左個新工人,我又覺得冇咩問題喎,因為黎左第二日,我個仔就好跟佢,都係睇下個工人肯唔肯花多少少時間陪小朋友玩
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