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phoenix_mum


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發表於 06-2-25 10:57 |只看該作者

你是好顧主嗎?

請讓我借一板來訴說心中的感受.
早前我在bk幫我位姐姐找到新顧主..這位NEW BOSS 是她選擇的,因interview時很nice…一切都像很好..
我當時都和她的new boss 傾過她的優點和缺點,
(當然…我覺得姐姐好先幫佢搵new home 啦)….

現在我仍間中和姐姐電話聯絡, 問她: 好嗎?! 但次次她都忍不住哭訴…她身心都很辛苦, 很不開心…我聽完她細說各樣後, 自己很難受…(不能詳盡, 怕影響她)…..唉….她不想自己break-contract, 因如未完約是很難找到新工作的…

好像幫她對錯襯家咁, 好心痛下…又唔知點可以幫到佢….

希望各位mummy可以對姐姐們好一點, 給她們食得飽, 穿得暖…
They’re human, not machine….they have feeling and they also need take a rest……
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Anson_Ma_Ma


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發表於 06-2-25 11:03 |只看該作者

Re: 你是好顧主嗎?

有唔好helper, 都會有唔好的boss, 真係好睇好彩與否?
希望我個helper會覺得我係好boss la, 大家都會好過d.....
:mrgreen: :mrgreen:
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發表於 06-2-25 11:04 |只看該作者

Re: 你是好顧主嗎?

phoenix_mum
我自己都有請姐姐, 係佢心目中我吾知係未好顧主, 但"食得飽, 穿得暖"係好基本人權, 如果無我真係無法想像香港人係咁
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發表於 06-2-25 11:15 |只看該作者

Re: 你是好顧主嗎?

唉,佢鍾意食什麼我便買什麼,
要什麼時候借錢就什麼時候借錢,
有好野食一定預埋佢,
bb去旅行住hotel她一定有份,
朋友出國旅行手信我都會叫佢地唔使買俾我,
買俾個工人...............
所以有時個工人說話無大無小時,
我就會好傷心 :cry:

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發表於 06-2-25 11:17 |只看該作者

Re: 你是好顧主嗎?

phoenix_mum :
我都有請印印, 也知道有些唔好的僱主, 但同時也有一些唔好的工人, 我覺得有這樣事情發生是雙方面的!! 在香港請工人的僱主多數係照顧小朋友或長者的, 我諗多數僱主盡量令她 "食得飽, 穿得暖", 呢個係最基本的, 因為工人食唔飽, 穿唔暖哪裏有氣力去工作呢? 我會覺得有時對工人好佢地唔會APPRECIATE, 仲會覺得係應份的, 佢地並唔會因此去更加努力工作, 有時真係像對牛彈琴

以上純粹個人意見.
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phoenix_mum


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發表於 06-2-25 11:22 |只看該作者

Re: 你是好顧主嗎?

係....係絕對有d香港人係咁, 好多人唔覺得係問題, 認為正常!做得工人就要係咁...唔當佢地係人, 新年姐姐返黎同我拜年, 佢廋了一個圈不突上, 廋到頸上青根盡現.. :cry: ...
講講下又喊, o個一刻我都忍唔住! 就連我"不問世事"的老公都話個mum好有問題! 但可以點做?!
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發表於 06-2-25 13:51 |只看該作者

Re: 你是好顧主嗎?

My maid says I'm a good boss
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smallpiggie


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發表於 06-2-25 13:56 |只看該作者

Re: 你是好顧主嗎?

phoenix_mum, 打工既野真係睇彩數架，個新僱主係舊姐姐自己揀既，揀得唔好只有認命，就正如我地做阿ＭＵＭ搵著個唔好既工人一樣。真係頂唔順的話，break contract都要架, 未必搵唔到新工既~
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發表於 06-2-25 14:07 |只看該作者

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係唔係好僱主? 係啩! 唔係佢都走咗啦, 仲點會同我續約jet?
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qqel


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發表於 06-2-25 14:11 |只看該作者

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SUSANNA 寫道:
phoenix_mum
我自己都有請姐姐, 係佢心目中我吾知係未好顧主, 但"食得飽, 穿得暖"係好基本人權, 如果無我真係無法想像香港人係咁

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發表於 06-2-25 17:08 |只看該作者

Re: 你是好顧主嗎?

我諗我係卦。

但會分清庄閒, 佢有要求, 合理的會完全滿足佢, 但唔會太 friend, 費時持熟賣熟。
千 山 我 獨 行......... 不 必 相 送..........
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發表於 06-2-25 18:46 |只看該作者

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個工人係咪要湊初生bb，所以冇教好
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venus426


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發表於 06-2-25 19:40 |只看該作者

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Dear all,
I treat my maid so well at first but now I learnt a lesson!

She don't think it's a reward but just demand for more. And would black face and scold me if I don't give her more present/rest.

In the first year, I give her all my unfit clothes. Most of them are new and with brand e.g Levis trousers $500@. And buy present to her kids...

As I worry she cannot sleep well, I take care of my new born baby in the first year. So all the night milk is prepared by me and my husband!!!

Then, my baby now is 1 years old and 4 months la. And ask her to sleep with my baby. But she said: it's very tired to sleep with her. Or you ask the next maid to sleep with her la!

She asked me whether she can buy a mobile. I prepared one for her. But she said it's not beautiful and bought a new one herself. It cost $1600!

In the day time, only she and my baby at home. But she said she was so busy to take care of my baby. so No time to do the housework. But I know she just busy in talking her mobile phone. When I arrived home, after work, I beg her to do the cleansing, but she showed black face and do not willing to do the cleansing. Finally, I wrap the dirt in kitchen myself. She just sit in the sitting room with my baby watching DWE.

In Lunar New Year and her birthday, we give her $200 red pocket. But she just said her friend's boss treat her friend so well that her boss give her $2000 red pocket. I don't believe !!! Even I won't give my baby $2000 red pocket!

so, I don't think you treat your maid well = maid treat you well.
Next time, I would let my maid know:
She is maid, I am the boss.
I won't treat them too well, if not they would be more lazy.
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發表於 06-2-25 21:12 |只看該作者

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How come you can still stand with it, if I were you, I would kick her out at first
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發表於 06-2-25 22:18 |只看該作者

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I agree with venus426 that we treat our maid good doesn't beenthey will thank us.
I treated my 1st one quite good. I was afraid she did not get even sleep at night and we took care of our new born till 8 months, then she slept with him but also complaint of headache. We bought her medicine and offered to take her to the doctor. We bought her gift during X'mas, easter, New yr, etc.But she always gave us a black face so we fired her.

Then the 2nd one came and we treated her a little bit harsh. But after a while we think her work was Ok so we still treated her well. We bought clothes and gifts for her daughters, brought her to Ocean Park and disneyland, she eats whatever we eats, spmetimes we even brought dessert for her if my husband and I went out for dinner and left her with my son, etc. So we thought we treat her well, she will stay and renew her contract. However, we are too'naive', she doesn't want to renew her contract unless we give her $4000. Ok, fine, goodbye to her, I'll hire another and this time I'll be more like a boss although I still treat my maid as part of the family. ?-(
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venus426


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發表於 06-2-25 23:06 |只看該作者

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As 我有人質在她手上!
I forgive her for 3-4 times la. Everytime she made me very angry, I cannot scold her as I worry my baby's safety. And I cry for 2 times both in office and at home :-( Once, She did not listen to my phone. I just want to ask my baby's situation. But she said: every day is the same.

Now I prepare to install camera. If I found her not treat my baby well, I would not forgive her.

I would become crazy, as I hate her but I need to pretend to be like her and continue to give her $/present to enemy. All because of my little baby!!!
If I have no baby, I will kick her out immediately.
Black face, back to indonesia la!
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singleline


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發表於 06-2-25 23:30 |只看該作者

Re: 你是好顧主嗎?

有時D野好難講,好采同唔好采!!!!
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littlebirdbird


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發表於 06-2-25 23:46 |只看該作者

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她們真是身在褔中不知褔的.越對佢好,佢越得寸進尺.我已是沒什麼要求,只求把家中弄得乾淨,每天煮一餐晚飯,照顧一個7歲和一個13歲的小朋友.(佢地返全日),今本是4pm後才忙 ,可是佢仍然可把廚房弄得油立立.最近還被財務公司追債,一怒之下,炒了她.
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發表於 06-2-26 03:41 |只看該作者

Re: 你是好顧主嗎?

yes, You treat her well doesn't = she will treat you well... but it doesn' t only apply to maid.. it 's the same way to every one ... sometimes including your family member.
but it's not the reason for us as employer to treat the next maid unfairly or inhumanly...
If they give you black face... tell them you don't like balck face... if they continue... chances are, they don't want this job anymore.
If you don't like your maid.... let her go. why put up with it.... and drive yourself mad.
If I think my child has become人質 .. I would kick her out of my house at once. NO way that my child is going to be a 人質.
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venus426


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發表於 06-2-26 11:17 |只看該作者

Re: 你是好顧主嗎?

Hi, katyfok,
I was a very humane employer. I had told her what I don't like and what she need to do very time calmly or write it down. But she got very bad temper. until the last month, she said: You no need to buy me food/present la, if you always tell me you don't like this and don't like that. Every time, you give me present, and you say so many words! There aren't employer like you, writing working schedule, pointing out what job go wrong....And it's such a hard job here. I need to take care of your daughter, so no time to do the housework...I even had to buy Indonesia noodle/salted fish myself....

But I reply her: there are plenty of food in the refrigerator/cabinet. it's your own favor/choice. All our family member had assist you. I will bring my baby downstairs after I went home. <Actually she had plenty of relax, she slept until 10 in the morning!>If you don't like to work here, you can change your boss.

She reply: I don't say that. I need $. You can change me and back me to Indonesia and I won't frightened.

At that time, I was shocked and totally disappointed. As so far, We really treat her as family member or even better than family member. But her request is much more. Do I need to give her abalone/bird's nest for breakfast if she said she like it?

She said maid would chat/compare among their boss on holiday. Does an employer don't need them to do any work, give them $, and treat them like a Queen?

I am a working mum, as well as all our family member. We had used up all our vacation leave when she come to my house teaching her. So it's difficult for us to kick her out immediately. and waste time to teach the new maid. But we are preparing ...

Until now, she always said: "You and your husband are a good boss ...." <as she had so many fault, that we forgive, forgive and forgive ....just because she can take care of my baby in the daytime.>
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