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我好需要一 d 意見, 請幫忙...

各位,
我而家個印都用左成半年啦, 佢之前 2years Sing exp & 2years Maya exp, 英文 ok,做野 ok, 自動波, 有時間佢會做得更乾淨, cooking 好, 聽教聽話 (lee 一刻重係), 我請佢係湊 bb, 但佢冇湊 newborn exp, 我有一個 1.5 years BB & 一個早產 bb, 早產果個重係醫院, 工人就每日都去醫院照顧 bb, 順便學下點 takecare, 如果有問題, nurse 可以教下佢 (因我要返工的), 而大仔就由我媽睇住半日先, 工人返到屋企就做返佢要做果 d 野.....

工人咁睇就冇咩野, 但佢一放假我就驚, 佢 d 私人野好麻煩, 佢唔聽 agent 話, 佢只係聽一個男人話, 果個男人又尊教 d 工人同僱主羅著數, 果個男人打橫黎, 我都好憎佢......

Main Point 黎啦......
話說佢有日返左大陸, 比人羅左本 passport, 返唔到黎香港, 幾日先返到落黎, passport 我睇過, 佢真係 stay 係大陸, 但係係大陸做過 d 咩, 就冇人知, 我可以炒佢而唔洗補 $ 比佢, 但果個男人就話如果我唔比 1mth notice or 1 mth salary 佢就去勞工處告我, Agent 話勞工處盲架, 僱主點都要比, 唔比多都要比 d, 本來我都係同佢玩到底, 但果時我又冇人用, 係咪都要比多 1 個月 $ 佢架啦, 而且個 agent 見我都好鍾意佢, 咪叫我比多個機會佢, 睇佢有冇改善 lor, 而且個工人再比我炒 (佢之前都係比人炒, 不過唔係衰, 比人炒, 而係有兩個工人唔要一個既, 果時佢剛剛還清 d agency fee), 佢就好難再云第二份工做, 結果就用返佢, 等新工人到先炒佢......而家見佢湊大個冇咩問題, 細 b 佢又學緊湊, 做野又自動波, 睇黎又冇咩問題, 點算呢 ?

其實炒佢張機票都出左, 新工人都係上月簽左, 但佢咁樣, 我又唔知重用唔用佢好......我有 d 問題, 就係....

其實我請佢湊 bb, so far 而家佢都未打過 bb or 黑面對 bb, 佢重教佢野 & 成日同佢玩, 如果 bb cry, 佢食食下飯都唔食住, 即刻出黎"海" bb, 有時見 bb 都云佢玩 (i think 佢冇對 bb 唔住啦), 新果工人我諗佢唔會同 bb 玩 (新果個 34years old), 而且英文唔得, 但湊兩個 bb 佢一定可以 & 又係好 like bb, 唔會打 bb ( i feel), 而家我應該點做好呢, 要返舊個或等新工人到.......

但用舊工人, 我媽同我都唔放心, 驚佢打 bb, 所以日日都黎同我o及住, 其他野我媽都話佢 ok, 自從大陸件事之後, 我媽都覺得佢開心多左 & 同 bb 玩多左添......

而我換新工人時, 我驚新工人會有黑面 (佢係香港做左 8年啦, 不過每兩年一個), 而且驚佢達唔到我地要求 (可能我地習慣左舊個工人工作時間, d 時間全部都係舊工人自己 plan, 佢從來唔洗我操心, 除左佢 d 私人問題外).....

其實我用返舊個到原約好還是都係用個新架好呀, 因為親新工人visa 未出, 可以 stop 左佢, 但咁又對個新工人唔住, 佢 resign 而家果份黎我到做 (其實佢都想 resign, 不過未有新工云到, 而家云到, 佢就立即 resign),

各位請指點 :-( :-(

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發表於 06-3-9 11:59 |只看該作者

Re: 我好需要一 d 意見, 請幫忙...

I don't think you have sufficient reason to 炒佢而唔洗補 $ for this case. But I'll definitely give warning to her.

First of all, you need to ask yourself if you are comfortable with her till her contract complete? If you don't, you'd better dismiss her. That's the most important point.

You are afraid of whether the new maid is good or not, however, who knows, maybe she is even better than the old one. Of course, you need also to prepare that she maybe bad and you need to change again later.

Other points, e.g. the man behind the maid, the new maid resign to take your job, are also irrelevant.

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rmvv8888

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發表於 06-3-9 12:10 |只看該作者

Re: 我好需要一 d 意見, 請幫忙...

果個男人咩人嚟架？
係未你工人有路？
佢上大陸做セ？仲比人扣住 passport？非常唔掂？
做過唔三唔四嘅嘢你都唔知？
其實請工人人品好緊要，做嘢如果肯學好快上手，
趁仲未有麻煩事發生，炒咗佢算數！

我有兩個女大女Vanessa好生性細女Venus好生肉

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發表於 06-3-9 12:11 |只看該作者

Re: 我好需要一 d 意見, 請幫忙...

其實你連新工人都請埋...咁仲有咩好諗...
如果你而家先唔要新o個個....你都真係會變左衰人...
因為人地係專登resign黎你o個度....

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發表於 06-3-9 13:34 |只看該作者

Re: 我好需要一 d 意見, 請幫忙...

其實我請工人最主要同我 takecare BB, 而家睇佢都冇對 bb 唔住...... 我係驚個新工人會打 bb, 之前工人打 bb d 新聞真係睇/聽到都怕怕, 我就係見到佢錫 bb, 所以而家都唔知點算好....我請工人個 main point 係一定要有愛心....

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birdbird

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發表於 06-3-9 13:38 |只看該作者

Re: 我好需要一 d 意見, 請幫忙...

1. 你已請o左新工人, 而家黎猶豫 & 質疑呢個工人適唔適合, 似乎太遲. 不過若然真係咁唔放心請呢個工人, 做人有時都要自私d, 尤得個工人再搵過另一個僱主..... 祝佢好運.

2. 相反, 若你想留番個舊工人, 咁你知唔知舊工人果幾日在大6 度做咩?? 佢同果個男人咩關係? 如果工人唔坦白, 成日質疑我點對佢, 有冇搵佢著數, 我就唔會留呢個工人在身邊.

3. 你炒舊工人, 你初頭諗住用咩藉口唔補錢比佢走?? 照你所講的, 似乎冇咩理由可以唔洗比一個月人工而要佢走. 就算話佢身在大6幾日, 如果佢期間有打電話番黎兼且係由於 passport 問題而番唔到香港, 僱主好難話即炒唔補錢.

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發表於 06-3-9 13:44 |只看該作者

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發表於 06-3-9 13:51 |只看該作者

Re: 我好需要一 d 意見, 請幫忙...

1) seems that when you choose a new maid, you do not look into basic details.
old maid -- do you believe in the reason that she was fired ?
new maid -- i will not choose a maid that can't renew contract. esp. english is no good.

2) no matter how good your old maid is, she will bring you trouble.

3) i will not keep any maid that i don't feel comfortable with.

4) you can't foresee if your new maid is good or not. but, if you think english is a must (or some other thing that she is missing), stop the process and find another maid.

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發表於 06-3-9 13:56 |只看該作者

Re: 我好需要一 d 意見, 請幫忙...

From your wordings, Firstly, i thought you are satisfied with your maid in taking care of your bb. and that is the most important criteria on you to choose whom to employ.

Secondly, you choose to employ another one. Does you feel your present maid in some area let you feel disappointed? or not confident in? Then, did you talk to your maid for further improvement or communication.

And why you are afraid of a man?? he is not an agnet, right? does he is your maid's bf?

The most concerned was why your maid stay in China for few days? Did she apply holiday from you? Otherwise, if she is disappeared, you can call the police to make a record at once. I am not sure whehter this is a significant reason to fire her without compensation. But sure you can give her a serious warning letter and told her "must not" happen again.

Finally, i think eveyone want to employ a good maid but who can guarantee.

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發表於 06-3-9 14:04 |只看該作者

Re: 我好需要一 d 意見, 請幫忙...

過客寫道:
Main Point 黎啦......
話說佢有日返左大陸, 比人羅左本 passport, 返唔到黎香港, 幾日先返到落黎, passport 我睇過, 佢真係 stay 係大陸, 但係係大陸做過 d 咩, 就冇人知, 我可以炒佢而唔洗補 $ 比佢, 但果個男人就話如果我唔比 1mth notice or 1 mth salary 佢就去勞工處告我, Agent 話勞工處盲架, 僱主點都要比,

睇完真係？？？
請問佢返大陸你知唔知？
返去做咩？
比人羅左本 passport？咩人？
做咩最後又比番佢？
幾日先返到落黎？
咁個幾日佢係邊度住同咩人一齊？
做緊咩？
passport 你睇過, 佢真係 stay 係大陸，咁又點？你比幾多日假佢？
返大陸要簽證，你無理由唔問佢過去做乜個喎？

我提出呢D問題因為你無提到同好奇怪，請工人最重要係諴信同無機心，呢個工人好似一個計時炸彈咁放係你身邊，勿論佢湊得好細路都係假，有咩事發生你就後悔莫及，用人勿疑，疑人勿用！

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Re: 我好需要一 d 意見, 請幫忙...

佢話佢返大陸 shopping, 本 passport 放左係佢個 friend 到, 佢唔記得, 佢個 friend 又唔知, 走左去, 云左好耐先記得, 佢留左係大陸 4日3夜, 返黎賠返 4 日假比我.....其實再問佢係大陸做咩都冇意思, 都唔知佢講果 d 係真唔係真, 不過我就有當面打電話去佢大陸朋友到, 用另一個方法去問佢個 friend, 兩人口供原全一樣, 好似冇講大話咁.....

果個男人係佢地 d 印印個所謂顧問...

咪又係想係 d 工人身上云 $, 我就最怕人口水多過茶, 果男人就係果種人, 所以我唔 like 佢.....

而家請一個工人, 洗費都係"慢慢"緊, 都比唔到 $唔媽洗添, 重點可以用兩個工人呀, 一個都咁煩, 兩個想死添啦....

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Re: 我好需要一 d 意見, 請幫忙...

過客,

好可能你個工人夾埋d friend講大話喎,可能你個工人個friend想你工人留多幾日係大陸陪佢,所以夾定口供囉,你唔好咁多心喇,要炒既就炒佢囉,如果你有運既,新工人都會係好的,但如果你無運既,比你用返舊工人又點呢,佢可能會係一個月後同你講"太太,我有左呀!"果時你就頭暈喇,況且佢都已入工會,而且仲比你見過工會既人添,你認為呢個工人仲會養得熟嗎?

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發表於 06-3-9 17:16 |只看該作者

Re: 我好需要一 d 意見, 請幫忙...

多謝各位意見 !

我都知個舊工人係養唔熟架啦, 不過而家大家都雙安無事, 冇端端炒佢, 佢好似好可憐咁, 剛剛還晒 $ 比 agent, 佢真係一毛都未代過.......

其實好多人打工都係謂 $, 只要人品好就得啦, 我都唔洗佢訓晒身落我屋企到, 最驚請著個衰既....

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發表於 06-3-9 17:24 |只看該作者

Re: 我好需要一 d 意見, 請幫忙...

我就覺得幾恐怖囉, 失驚無神唔見咗人, 就話留咗喺大陸, 佢喺大陸做過啲咩? 點知下次會去咗邊, 橫掂都請咗新人, 就唔好諗咁多.

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發表於 06-3-9 17:47 |只看該作者

Re: 我好需要一 d 意見, 請幫忙...

其實你當初請定第二個, 舊呢個一定係有d嘢令你接受唔到/忍唔到, 你先會去請啫. 何必心軟呢.

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