I learned my lesson lor. Now I paid for mortgage and my child's preschool with my own money. It's tight so I haven't bought new clothes in forever and driving a very old car.
However, not having to ask c6 for money makes me so much happier than wearing brand name clothes!
Self sufficient is key ar. We just separated (kind of). He is still trying to come home but since I haven't said yes, he is staying at his mother's.
He's treating me much better now because he knows I don't need his money. And I don't need him
Agree. Now I pay for the school fees for my 2 children, salaries for 2 maids, all the household livings except the mortgage by my husband. I am much happier than before.
In the past, I don't mind sharing my savings with my husband. But not now, money can give me much freedom and sense of security.