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複式洋房

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發表於 06-10-30 11:00 |只看該作者

兩公婆真係唔可以講錢架??

我好憎佢, 只係叫佢開個聯名戶口黎供樓啫, 好似我搶佢錢咁, 發皮四wor, 之後我話算, 唔開就由佢, 佢都仲唔肯算, 仲係度嬲我, 佢又唔諗下我已經好鏗架啦, d衫貴d都唔捨得買, 驚佢唔鍾意, 明明好鍾意都唔買, 要話唔鍾意, 仲想我點, 我真係唔想見到佢, 我為佢做咁多野, 佢都唔諗下我 :-( :-(


珊瑚宮

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發表於 06-10-30 11:06 |只看該作者

Re: 兩公婆真係唔可以講錢架??

依d野係一個個人既姐...有d人睇得錢好緊既...咪可能連2公婆都唔講得錢囉..但係有d人...覺得錢之嘛,冇咪搵過囉..咁就唔會care 2公婆講唔講錢...老婆要晒d錢都冇所為...重有就係又要睇下果個男人..對家既觀點係乜...有d男人..對家好執著..好傳統既..會覺得搵錢養老婆仔女係好應該,比晒d錢佢地,只係想佢地過得舒息...又有d男人...覺得,我盡左本份供養到屋企就ok..同老婆都要財政獨立..依d又唔係自私既..只係佢都想要d保障掛

不過如果知道老公唔like講錢既...就冇為為錢傷感情...keep番財政獨立囉...供樓唔一定要聯名先供得姐...佢有心買樓..用你個a/c或佢個a/c都一樣可以供架


男爵府

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發表於 06-10-30 11:10 |只看該作者

Re: 兩公婆真係唔可以講錢架??

如果你老公是這樣的人, 你就要更加留多些私己錢在身邊
有捨必有得 有得必有失


複式洋房

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發表於 06-10-30 11:17 |只看該作者

Re: 兩公婆真係唔可以講錢架??

依家我都話算架啦,係佢係度嬲我之麻,我咁驚係因為佢d屋企人會問佢攞錢架,之前都試過架啦,有去冇回,仲要佢地件件名牌,我就件件cheap..


洋房

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發表於 06-10-30 11:35 |只看該作者

Re: 兩公婆真係唔可以講錢架??

GIVENPLS 寫道:
依家我都話算架啦,係佢係度嬲我之麻,我咁驚係因為佢d屋企人會問佢攞錢架,之前都試過架啦,有去冇回,仲要佢地件件名牌,我就件件cheap..


講錢, *sigh. GIVENPLS, do you work?

I learned my lesson lor. Now I paid for mortgage and my child's preschool with my own money. It's tight so I haven't bought new clothes in forever and driving a very old car.

However, not having to ask c6 for money makes me so much happier than wearing brand name clothes!

Self sufficient is key ar. We just separated (kind of). He is still trying to come home but since I haven't said yes, he is staying at his mother's.

He's treating me much better now because he knows I don't need his money. And I don't need him


複式洋房

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發表於 06-10-30 13:02 |只看該作者

Re: 兩公婆真係唔可以講錢架??

GIVENPLS :
算啦!唔好嬲亦都唔好唔開心啦!佢仲要嬲既,你咪由佢嬲,你越理佢嬲唔嬲,佢分分鐘仲會嬲耐d添!因為我同你差唔多,我老公都唔係好鍾意俾錢我架!我地亦曾經因為錢呢個問題搞到差d離婚添!
你試下係適當既時候先同佢傾下你想點,睇下佢既想法係點,大家商量下啦!


大宅

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發表於 06-10-30 22:23 |只看該作者

Re: 兩公婆真係唔可以講錢架??

agree

WinChi 寫道:
如果你老公是這樣的人, 你就要更加留多些私己錢在身邊


複式洋房

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發表於 06-10-31 12:38 |只看該作者

Re: 兩公婆真係唔可以講錢架??

Agree. Now I pay for the school fees for my 2 children, salaries for 2 maids, all the household livings except the mortgage by my husband. I am much happier than before.

In the past, I don't mind sharing my savings with my husband. But not now, money can give me much freedom and sense of security.

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