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Kellyaugust2004

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想生第二個,請進

hi all, i'm age 32 now , with one 3 yr old boy.
have tried 4 cycles, but failed.

visited 吉叔 this cycle, is day12 today.

as my relationship with husband is not so good recently. we dodo on day9 (as i've checked two lines by using david).

i'm really not happy as we've many different opinions on how to deal with our little boys. and last night. 佢對個仔又好惡, which made me feel bad already. we planned to dodo last night. 當我攪

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sharingw/u

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你的EQ都好高, 知道自己有問題, 即時改進, 你將會是一個好媽媽!

至於我同我HSB, 而家有一個一歲女女, 其實都想有多一個BABY, 但係我的第一個得來不易, 年幾又大, 經濟吾許可, 所以起初我HSB講遲d至算, 但係我話我吾遲得啦, 再遲我就吾生啦, 我退休都未養大個B, 點算, 跟住我HSB就話咁順其自然啦, 所以今個月開始冇避啦, 而我HSB以前係一d都吾鐘意小朋友的, 但係佢而家係360度大轉變, 我都估吾到! 不過佢不嬲都熱衷於訓覺多過DODO, 所以我想今次可能都係等到我人老豬黃都吾成功了!

beautyhappy 寫道:
I have exactly the same problem as you. I already have a 1 year old BB and want to have a second kid. After my BB was born, we quarrel very often. Mostly due to different opinions about dealing with the BB. Actually, I should say "I (now) my husband" but not we quarrel. Indeed, I find I'll be in very bad temper easily after my BB was born. Many things make me easily lose temper -- BB doesn't drink milk or eat congee well, husband plays computer or watches TV and doesn't response to my questions quickly, ...

In many cycles, we haven't dodo because no 心情 or either me or him 發脾氣.

Recently, I've tried to control my temper and learn to take things easy. Also, try to discover more the strength of my husband and appreciate more what he has done. Hope this can help.

Let's try our effort.

[img align=left]http://baby.popart.hk/blog/upload/KNY_FIONA/2006091509334184914.jpg[/img] 呢到仲有好多靚秋冬BB夾衣,入來睇睇啦!

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發表於 06-2-25 18:34 |只看該作者

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我都諗住生第二個, 我而家有個囡囡就黎5個月, 我同hubby都準備生piglet

其實我以前都試過好似你地咁, 同老公因為湊同教bbo既問題
而意見有分歧, 不過我比我老公接觸得多我d有小朋友o既朋友之後, 我老公開始知道佢o既方法唔係完全正確o既, 之後佢重日日幫我手湊囡囡豬添, 雖然唔係湊得好嫁喇, 不過都總算有心啦, 其實點都好, 我諗兩個人唔可以冇共識囉!!

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Kellyaugust2004

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發表於 06-2-27 15:07 |只看該作者

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Kellyaugust2004

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Kellyaugust2004

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發表於 06-2-27 15:10 |只看該作者

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beautyhappy, Anki媽媽
sharingw/u

many tks for your sharing. i will learn not to argue / try to make a peacful relationship w/ my husband.

but i doubt when sometimes dealing w/ my little boy, 會好勞氣, will affect bingo... i asked 吉叔 last time and he said yes. ...

it's really not easy ah..

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發表於 06-2-28 15:42 |只看該作者

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First of all, I would like to know who is 吉叔?
Actually I've a daught for 3 yrs and is in planning now. Any good suggestion for me?

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Kellyaugust2004

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發表於 06-2-28 19:12 |只看該作者

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MavisNg,

吉叔 is a " e c " at sheung wan. since i heard many bk moms visited him, so i tried law.

did u start your plan already?

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MavisNg

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發表於 06-3-1 13:46 |只看該作者

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Yes, started since Nov. But still not success. I've keep try by this week also.

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Cherry車里子

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發表於 06-3-1 15:19 |只看該作者

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Hi All

其實兩公婆點會沒有磨擦的呢？只要兩個人的方向目標一致就無問題，萬事忍一忍就大事化小、小事化無的啦﹗

我個仔現在都18個月大了，都想明年生個猪仔/女，因為始終覺得有小朋友有兄弟姐妹的話第時大了都有商有量，好 D 。不過又膽心經濟的問題，所以都未決定。

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Kellyaugust2004

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發表於 06-3-2 11:30 |只看該作者

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Cherry車里子
many tks for your sharing.
financial issue - can be discussed and solved i think. as i before view this as a big issue. but now don't think so la.

how about other moms? did u start yet ?