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發表於 06-5-14 01:56 |只看該作者

點解出街喂BB食飯甘辛苦﹖﹖

16個月BB係家中食飯大概都係用半個鐘﹐但次次出街帶埋BB飯時就好辛苦﹐ 有時好彩就食大半碗﹐有時直頭唔食﹐ 好似今晚甘﹐ 我同老公帶埋工人同BB去食西餐﹐當然得我同老公食﹐ 我工人就喂BB食BB飯啦。。但一直都唔肯食﹐ 改俾奶都唔要﹐所以我地就啦啦臨食完就沖番屋企熱番D飯﹐ 俾BB坐係BB椅上有埋玩具就食晒成碗啦。。。。唉﹗食完都已經8點半啦。。。。

你地BB會唔會係甘﹖﹖ 我B再係甘樣都唔知點帶出街啦﹗ :-( :-(

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發表於 06-5-14 02:16 |只看該作者

Re: 點解出街喂BB食飯甘辛苦﹖﹖

Because of too much distraction when you eat out. My bb was like that before. If she gave up eating, I would let her go and not to give her anything else (not even a biscuit) to eat until the next meal time. Then she would understand if not eating there, she would have to starve for a few hours. Next time, she ate a little bit more. The third time, she ate a lot more and now she has no problem eating out at all.

If you rushed home preparing meal for your bb just because he did not eat in the restaurant, he would end up giving up eating in restaurant at all as he knows there's always something coming up if he chose not to eat there.

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發表於 06-5-15 01:31 |只看該作者

Re: 點解出街喂BB食飯甘辛苦﹖﹖

chingchingb.ma,

You're right...may i know how old was your baby to understand that rule??? I'm wondering if my son only 16 months old can he understand coz if i don't give him food at that meal time (dinner at 6.30pm)and wait for the next meal time ( last drink for a day at 9.30), he can't hold that long and he will cry for drink in between two meals time, so what will you do???

do u mean if your baby refuse to eat the congee/ rice, you won't replace it with milk??

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發表於 06-5-15 02:07 |只看該作者

Re: 點解出街喂BB食飯甘辛苦﹖﹖

She understood this rule since she's around 12 months (she's now 19 months). Actually it does not depend on the age. This is bb's basic instinct. Don't under-estimate your bb, they actually know so much since birth.

If my bb refused to eat, I would never replace it with milk nor anything else.

i.e. if your bb refuses to eat at 6:30 p.m., just leave him alone til 9:30. Then give him the last milk. If he cries in between 6:30 & 9:30, let him cry. Don't feel embarrassment as this is the way to train him up & let him know "meal time is for meal". If you give him replacement, he would never learn this rule.

Don't get so nervous about the bb meal. If you keep on rushing home preparing this & that for the bb, it would only add more pressure on you & bb and make you both being afraid of meal time.

Hope everything goes well & gets better with you & bb!!

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發表於 06-5-15 10:27 |只看該作者

Re: 點解出街喂BB食飯甘辛苦﹖﹖

Totally agreed to chingchingb.ma .

I also not give bb anything else (except for water) after she has refused to eat at 6:30pm's dinner (either at home or outside) until the lastest meal (11:30pm).

So as to let her know the rules for meal & I believed that it does not matter for missing one meal at the whole day.

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發表於 06-5-16 01:00 |只看該作者

Re: 點解出街喂BB食飯甘辛苦﹖﹖

Hmm....I think i hve to learn from both of you to be tough on my baby....since my baby now only around 21/22lbs, so still under average, that's why I always worry if my baby can't finish his rice or not....plus i got a lot of pressure fr my husband side family......

i guess you're right maybe my baby know the trick, if he refuse to eat rice, i will give milk or cereal...then he is the one control what he want to eat la.....

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發表於 06-5-16 02:24 |只看該作者

Re: 點解出街喂BB食飯甘辛苦﹖﹖

我個囝都係呀,母親節果日出街咩都唔肯食,
顧住佢我都食得好少又攰到反晒眼,返到屋企先問要食,我
衫褲都未換拿拿淋整熱D粥餵佢,好似餓得好緊要咁食幾碗,
吹脹!好彩未夠3歲自助餐唔計佢咋!

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發表於 06-5-16 03:53 |只看該作者

Re: 點解出街喂BB食飯甘辛苦﹖﹖

This is just one of the ways our bb are testing our bottomlines!!

Add oil

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發表於 06-5-16 13:23 |只看該作者

Re: 點解出街喂BB食飯甘辛苦﹖﹖

My bb is also like this. He refuses to drink/eat when he is not at home

He can't follow the feeding schedule when he is outside. If he refuses to drink/eat that meal, I will leave it and wait for the next meal, but I am so tired, unhappy and worried.
Sometimes, we just go out between meals but this is not a good way in the long run.

So, I always struggle: on one hand, going out is a stimulation for bb but on the other hand, it will affect his food intake. I think it's not so good fo bb to always skip the meal.

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發表於 06-5-17 00:39 |只看該作者

Re: 點解出街喂BB食飯甘辛苦﹖﹖

如果預著要佢岀街食飯我會留意之前唔俾太多小食佢食
到咁上下佢肚餓時食都快手d

但係你bb細個d 所以可以的話考慮去食飯前餵佢食d粥先啦!
到我d食飯時佢冇食都ok啦最多返屋企再補d俾佢啦!
有食咁仲更加好

如果佢係我d食飯時候扭計咁可以俾匙羹&碗(膠)佢玩等佢都覺得同我d一樣....

帶bb去街食飯通常我係冇的食
因為顧住bb 完全冇機會睇有咩菜仲更加冇可能夾d菜....
母親節個日又係咁我淨係食著老公夾俾我d菜
叫著咩菜都見唔到就已經俾個阿姊收走個碟....

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發表於 06-5-17 02:25 |只看該作者

Re: 點解出街喂BB食飯甘辛苦﹖﹖

I think the general rule for bb eating IT;S OKAY TO SKIP ONE MEAL SOMETIMES.
BB is like us... sometimes skipping one meal won't kill them. they may cry for snack , but I will never give anything else, except water or fruit.
and the next meal , when she's hungry , she will eat.
My girl always eats well but sometimes she may only take one bite and want to leave the table. As soon as she leave the table, I take away the food immediately. I never force bb to eat, i 'm afriad this may scare her and make her hate eating. If she eats, then eats. If she doesn't have good appetite , she can leave table, but she knows she'll will go hungry untill the next meal.
She make her choice la....I never chase my bb around the house to feed. That's why my girl always sit still to finish her meal .
BTW, my girl is now 26 months.

Don't worry... I think mothers nowadays tend to be too nervous about bb's eating... No bb starve to death in HK...

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發表於 06-5-18 01:56 |只看該作者

Re: 點解出街喂BB食飯甘辛苦﹖﹖

katyfok,

basically i agreed with you but if my baby always leave the table without finishing his food, i'm afraid that i might spoil him in the long run.....do u think we should teach baby to appreciate food and try to finish the food on his dish before leave the table??

I also agreed that not to chasing him around the house, actually i'm not the one feed him, i know if i feed him i might can even more crazy and out of control of myself....so i have a nanny to feed him, i only allow him to sit on his high chair or the nanny use carrier (very seldom) to carry him around to finish his food.... My neighbour kids are all need to ride on bicycle while the maids carrying food chase behind them, they migh need easy but i don't want to spoil my kid......

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發表於 06-5-18 23:58 |只看該作者

Re: 點解出街喂BB食飯甘辛苦﹖﹖

..."do u think we should teach baby to appreciate food and try to finish the food on his dish before leave the table??"
Yeah... I agree with you... but you said " try" right? even as an adult, if we're full or don't want to eat anymore, we stopped. Anyway, my thought is " never force bb to eat."... I know it's hard becuase we may worry he may become skinny. but forcing them may scare them... so whenever they thought about dinner table... they ran. Let him be la... babies are individuals... they have their own preference and idea ( althought they may be wrong).... but eating is one thing you cannot force.
As you teaching them to appreciate food... it's another thing you cannot teach... I'm sure you have friends or relatives around you ... some of them LOVE food... some don't mind so much... my point is to accept them as an individual.
Oh.. maybe you can try giving them smaller portions so he's able to finish ( add if he wants more)... and perhaps make his food more interesting.
I would even add a little more taste than he would normally have.. they love tasty food ( some may said too salty or too much taste is not good for their health, but it's better than not eating, right?)
I don't know ... hope that helps... or not?!

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發表於 06-5-19 00:16 |只看該作者

Re: 點解出街喂BB食飯甘辛苦﹖﹖

pegbrian 寫道:
16個月BB係家中食飯大概都係用半個鐘﹐但次次出街帶埋BB飯時就好辛苦﹐ 有時好彩就食大半碗﹐有時直頭唔食﹐ 好似今晚甘﹐ 我同老公帶埋工人同BB去食西餐﹐當然得我同老公食﹐ 我工人就喂BB食BB飯啦。。但一直都唔肯食﹐ 改俾奶都唔要﹐所以我地就啦啦臨食完就沖番屋企熱番D飯﹐ 俾BB坐係BB椅上有埋玩具就食晒成碗啦。。。。唉﹗食完都已經8點半啦。。。。

你地BB會唔會係甘﹖﹖ 我B再係甘樣都唔知點帶出街啦﹗ :-( :-(

點解你0地禁得意0既？你話你0地去食西餐，得你同老公有得食？感工人只係望住你0地食呀？佢咪無得食0羅？佢返到屋企先食呀？唔好意思，我八卦問0下0者…

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發表於 06-5-19 01:58 |只看該作者

Re: 點解出街喂BB食飯甘辛苦﹖﹖

francojoan1219 ,

我地依度對工人唔係好似香港甘平等﹐ 印尼比較著重主僕之分﹐ 你都知香港請個印印都要俾成$3xxx一個月﹐ 都唔係易教﹐聽話同知足﹐ 我係依度請一個只俾$300-400﹐ 所以教得唔好仲衰過香港果D印印嫁。。。

通常去D貴D既地方﹐我會安排工人或保姆先食左先﹐ 仲有佢地全部都係回教﹐都唔食豬肉﹐好難就既。。。

我arm arm 過黎依邊時﹐都會好似你甘諗唔好意思﹐但人人都係甘﹐我都要入鄉隨俗﹐ 費事做壞規矩啦。。

:wink:

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發表於 06-5-19 02:07 |只看該作者

Re: 點解出街喂BB食飯甘辛苦﹖﹖

katyfok,
hmmm....i understand your point, that's a also a way to make baby enjoy their meal time....

thank you for discussing this issue with me, i love to discuss with other mom about how to teach kids, i need to learn more and see from different point of view....

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發表於 06-5-20 01:59 |只看該作者

Re: 點解出街喂BB食飯甘辛苦﹖﹖

I agree... it's nice to talk to so many different moms tp share different views ... BTW, where are you??

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