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大宅

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發表於 06-5-8 17:42 |只看該作者

I fnially decided to quit...

Months ago I posted my message and share my concerns about the timing to quit my present job.

My original planning is to tolerate, get pregnant and give birth first before I quit the job. However, due to the increasing pressures and stress, I finally decide to quit first.

After several discussion with my husband, we finally decided to keep proceeding our "baby plan". I don't know if it is a right decision or not, since I may be pregnant before I find a new job. Then, I am unable to continue my job search but wait until giving birth.

I may not be that lucky to find a temp job during the pregnancy period, then, my husband has to take up the whole family burden...


男爵府

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發表於 06-5-9 09:08 |只看該作者

Re: I fnially decided to quit...

retails,

um...其實我唔知妳依家份job有幾大壓力同辛苦,最理想就緊係生完,攞埋產假先quit,不過,如果妳覺得真係好辛苦,而老公一個人搵錢仲頂得住下,都好架~有時壓力大都會影響懷孕,同埋陀果陣都會好辛苦,尤其如果有嘔呀咁~

妳話妳"may not be that lucky to find a temp job..", 咁即係都會有"maybe" la~ 如果妳已經決定quit,就唔會太擔心跟住條路會係點..其實我無做野full-time湊女,有時都會好似妳咁,擔心老公一個人要揹起成頭家,仲要養埋佢父母,不過,我發現上帝真係會看顧,俾妳意想不到嘅驚喜呀~!

加油,支持妳啊!


複式洋房

積分: 453


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發表於 06-5-9 10:11 |只看該作者

Re: I fnially decided to quit...

Retail,

As a father, I encourage you not to worry the family fanancial problem if your husband can get or has preparation to get the family burden. My wife's also a full time mother too! Your mission includes supporting your husband & keeping the baby(babies). Of course, you & your husband should be always to rely on God!

By the way, I looked at the chapter 16 of Luke in the spiritual study this morning. I'll use chinese for more accurate meaning of sharing bibblical message.


請看那不義的管家, 神看我們又是怎樣呢?
我地又怎樣去運用我地金錢, 甚至時間及才幹等等?
另外一提"拉撒路的意思是「神是幫助者」,當我地面對生活之中的挑戰,相信上主是我們唯一的幫助、終極的盼望"(這句是今早牧師寄給我們的)
最後, 我同意經文未必百分百切合你們的處境, 但我相信神會用我們所擁有去事奉祂(生兒育女都屬於事奉), 即使我們沒有(此時, 我們可能基於自己經歷或客觀環境, 甚至理性分析, 我們似乎冇可能, 亦都不能去做), 但祂必會賜我們需要的條件去完成, 我們只須投下信心.


大宅

積分: 1839


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發表於 06-5-9 11:11 |只看該作者

Re: I fnially decided to quit...

皇阿米,

感謝你! 我而家有既壓力, 係心理上既, 公司不斷 restructure, 老闆又 resign, 自己0係公司既去向未明, 一切都係 uncertainties. 老闆既下屬, 個個都各懷鬼胎, 同事又不和, 好唔開心.

我老闆一個月之前 resign 左, 我用左一個月時間去考慮, 去諗下自己可唔可以0係一個咁唔開心既環境下繼續工作. 最後決定 resign, 係因為我發覺自己開始有 d 唔正常既舉動... 我無端端都會流眼淚, 時時都會 dream 返公司做嘢, 亦試過半夜"扎"醒"訓"唔返... 一直諗公司既嘢到天光...

我老公知我既決定之後, 佢同我講, 佢好開心我最後都決定 resign, 佢話, 因為我既情緒奇實都好影響我地兩公婆既感情... 我聽完之後, 覺得好 guilty...

我係有諗過如果咁好彩 pregnant, 我會搵份 temp 做, 因為我係一個好怕悶既人. 不過唔知會唔會有 employer 肯請一個大肚婆做 temp je...??!! anyway, 我而家都放開左, 無之前咁多憂心. financially, 短期內都唔係大問題既, 因為我地有 saving 既習慣. 而家既 savings, 慳慳地, 都可以用到2年, 不過原先諗住買樓, 可能又要 defer lu.



大宅

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發表於 06-5-9 11:14 |只看該作者

Re: I fnially decided to quit...

william28,

Thanks for your sharing. I will keep praying and rely on GOD. I do trust that GOD will listen to me, my family and my life is in HIS hands.

May GOD bless everyone in need.


複式洋房

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發表於 06-5-9 11:59 |只看該作者

Re: I fnially decided to quit...

Retail,

知道多d, 又可講多d, 大家研究研究! :-P
妳冇決定錯! 有最少3個原因:
1. 妳老公贊成(最主要), 因為還有甚麼好得過另一半都支持的事, 特別結婚之後, 妳明啦!
2. 妳的工作影響另一半, 因為唔值得, 得不償失!
3. 妳自己身心受困擾, 有覺瞓唔得, 慘!
另外, 家庭多有多使, 少有少使, 唔緊要, 大家承擔及開心就得!
最後, 幫我話比妳老公聽, 我們(即老婆唔使外出打工)d老婆唔使做, 我地都幾...幾叻架, 雖然講唔到她們係享福, 好多時做全職媽咪絕不輕鬆過外出打工添!


男爵府

積分: 8452


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發表於 06-5-9 12:16 |只看該作者

Re: I fnially decided to quit...

retail....其實唔好感到guilty,妳老公既然都讚成,妳就叠埋心水,見步行步la~妳都話有savings,不過,就真係唔好買樓住去加重自己心理同經濟負擔囉~! 我都係諗住full-time湊女先賣左層樓,賣左真係輕鬆好多~


男爵府

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發表於 06-5-9 12:17 |只看該作者

Re: I fnially decided to quit...

yesyesyes~!!!!
william28 寫道:
最後, 幫我話比妳老公聽, 我們(即老婆唔使外出打工)d老婆唔使做, 我地都幾...幾叻架, 雖然講唔到她們係享福, 好多時做全職媽咪絕不輕鬆過外出打工添!


男爵府

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發表於 06-5-9 12:39 |只看該作者

Re: I fnially decided to quit...

Retail,

神既恩典夠妳用,佢既供應係不斷架!放心啦


大宅

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發表於 06-5-9 14:29 |只看該作者

Re: I fnially decided to quit...

多謝大家, 我真係好感恩, 因為0係 bk, 我可以搵倒一班咁好既朋友. 就算我唔可以好快咁搵倒工, 我都好開心, 至少, 我心靈上得到好大既滿足, 都係因為有你地...

william28, 我會幫你同我老公講, 我相信佢一定會認同你既講法.

I will take it easy... :lol:


複式洋房

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發表於 06-5-9 16:43 |只看該作者

Re: I fnially decided to quit...

Retail,

Thank you very much!


伯爵府

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發表於 06-5-11 11:29 |只看該作者

Re: I fnially decided to quit...


伯爵府

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發表於 06-5-11 11:29 |只看該作者

Re: I fnially decided to quit...

Retail,

我而家都係同妳一樣處境.

我都好相信我係果間問題公司要ot到深夜,又要帶工作回家做既~咁有壓力都生唔出,就算有左都會對個b唔健康...

所以妳決定正確!!!


複式洋房

積分: 453


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發表於 06-5-12 12:04 |只看該作者

Re: I fnially decided to quit...

LilianLegend,

妳係唔係quit唔到呀?


伯爵府

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發表於 06-5-12 17:11 |只看該作者

Re: I fnially decided to quit...

william28,

個topic係"I fnially decided to quit..."嘛~

所以我咪同佢一樣,冇做啦~


複式洋房

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發表於 06-5-12 21:14 |只看該作者

Re: I fnially decided to quit...

LilianLegend,

好, 身心+感情要緊!


大宅

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發表於 06-5-16 17:11 |只看該作者

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