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Kaka1014


複式洋房

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發表於 06-6-14 11:02 |只看該作者

工人好似講大話, 但又冇證據，個心好唔舒服!!!!!!

琴日我提前返到屋企，見到茶几上有半枝奶，等我去完厠所換衫，枝奶已經唔見咗。我問工人，佢話枝奶ＢＢ已經飲咗啦，擺明講大話．因爲我去厠所加換衫，前後最多五六分鐘，冇可能飲曬，其實我平時喂個女，如果飲唔曬都會倒咗支奶，我不介意她倒咗支奶，但介意她講大話。個工人已經来咗八個月啦,一直表現都OK, 平時又好鍾意個女, 又成日買衫給個女, 但從琴日開始，我個心就好唔舒服，BB平時够不够飽?Ｄ工人點解小小事都講大話？以後又點將個女交給俾佢？？？？？？？ :-( :-( :-(
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布甸仔媽媽


珍珠宮

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發表於 06-6-14 12:16 |只看該作者

Re: 工人好似講大話, 但又冇證據，個心好唔舒服!!!!!!

會ng會佢means'飲佐'ng係means '飲哂' 可能你b b g 後係有飲but only 飲佐少少就ng飲lor (可能3-4分鐘), so 佢咪攞奶樽去洗

ng洗ng開心, 你咪直接問清楚lor, me 日日都問我工人細仔d食奶, 食飯 & zzzz, 痾大大 d 情況ga
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LibraMum


別墅

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發表於 06-6-14 13:22 |只看該作者

Re: 工人好似講大話, 但又冇證據，個心好唔舒服!!!!!!

Kaka1014,

我今日同你一樣個心都好唔舒服. 我個工人做咗八個幾月, bb 宜家七個幾月, 一直表現都OK, 係有時唔記得一啲嘢, 我見小事都由佢, 叫佢下次記得做番, 但最近呢一兩個月, 發覺一話完佢(強調係語氣好輕嗰隻),佢都臉黑 , 成日又好似好多嘢冧敢, 做嘢又慢, 八點幾食完飯, 洗碗, 淸潔埋厨房, 洗奶樽, 沖涼, 要攪到十一點幾十二點先瞓, 朝早原本要六點半起身, 呢排成日遲咗起身.

琴日同佢講bb張highchair枱底dirty, 叫佢抺時要留意呢啲位置, 佢就唔like, 即時臉黑 . 之前已經同佢講過, 你做嘢有問題唔緊要, 最大問題係唔好臉黑(always unhappy face).

我今朝打俾agent 想睇吓佢有咩意見可以幫我, 傾吓傾吓, 先知我工人簽合約時簽咗份同意書唔準出手提電話, 但佢喺新年收咗啲利時後出咗手提電話, 原本我唔鍾意, keep起佢個手提電話, 晚上瞓覺同放假先俾番佢, 但後來心軟, 覺得好似唔信佢敢,俾番個手提電話佢keep, 佢應承我平時唔會開黎用. Agent 話佢哋通常會照用, 點知今日試吓打去睇吓通唔通, 真係通喎! 我覺得我真係信錯咗我個工人呀!

我唔開心呀, 應該點做呀! 係唔係其實好小事, 我太敏感咋!
:-( :-( :-(
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cat_house


大宅

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發表於 06-6-14 15:37 |只看該作者

Re: 工人好似講大話, 但又冇證據，個心好唔舒服!!!!!!

Libramum,

Your maid must be yan yan and after she repay the debt, she shows you her real character.

You'd better confront her on her practices and her long face. Tell her seriously how she should behave. Don't be afraid of her because she take care of your baby. She is testing your bottomline. There are a lot of working mommy's experience telling that if you give in, she will be even worse. Consider that you will need to live with her for more than a year, if you are not happy with her already, how you can bear with her doing for the rest of her contract.

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mylulu007


伯爵府

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發表於 06-6-14 15:46 |只看該作者

Re: 工人好似講大話, 但又冇證據，個心好唔舒服!!!!!!

布甸仔媽媽 寫道:
會ng會佢means'飲佐'ng係means '飲哂' 可能你b b g 後係有飲but only 飲佐少少就ng飲lor (可能3-4分鐘), so 佢咪攞奶樽去洗

ng洗ng開心, 你咪直接問清楚lor, me 日日都問我工人細仔d食奶, 食飯 & zzzz, 痾大大 d 情況ga


我都覺得可能係咁, 有時真係一場誤會o者, 因為我個工人都係, 乜都yes左先, 有時佢轉頭問番我之前講既野意思係咪咁咁咁....

bb食得好唔好? 體重ok嗎?
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mylulu007


伯爵府

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發表於 06-6-14 15:51 |只看該作者

Re: 工人好似講大話, 但又冇證據，個心好唔舒服!!!!!!

LibraMum 寫道:
Kaka1014,

我今日同你一樣個心都好唔舒服. 我個工人做咗八個幾月, bb 宜家七個幾月, 一直表現都OK, 係有時唔記得一啲嘢, 我見小事都由佢, 叫佢下次記得做番, 但最近呢一兩個月, 發覺一話完佢(強調係語氣好輕嗰隻),佢都臉黑 , 成日又好似好多嘢冧敢, 做嘢又慢, 八點幾食完飯, 洗碗, 淸潔埋厨房, 洗奶樽, 沖涼, 要攪到十一點幾十二點先瞓, 朝早原本要六點半起身, 呢排成日遲咗起身.

琴日同佢講bb張highchair枱底dirty, 叫佢抺時要留意呢啲位置, 佢就唔like, 即時臉黑 . 之前已經同佢講過, 你做嘢有問題唔緊要, 最大問題係唔好臉黑(always unhappy face).

我今朝打俾agent 想睇吓佢有咩意見可以幫我, 傾吓傾吓, 先知我工人簽合約時簽咗份同意書唔準出手提電話, 但佢喺新年收咗啲利時後出咗手提電話, 原本我唔鍾意, keep起佢個手提電話, 晚上瞓覺同放假先俾番佢, 但後來心軟, 覺得好似唔信佢敢,俾番個手提電話佢keep, 佢應承我平時唔會開黎用. Agent 話佢哋通常會照用, 點知今日試吓打去睇吓通唔通, 真係通喎! 我覺得我真係信錯咗我個工人呀!

我唔開心呀, 應該點做呀! 係唔係其實好小事, 我太敏感咋!
:-( :-( :-(


妳收番個工人既mobile啦, 唔可以因為佢照顧bb而"縱"佢架, 佢可能真係還晒debts, 而家俾real face妳睇.

如果妳同佢坐低傾, 佢都無改善, 妳咪睇下忍唔忍到佢finished contract囉, 俾我一定唔會忍, 如果日抖得bb同佢, 佢一定bow 電話粥唔理妳個bb, 好自為之.....
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Kaka1014


複式洋房

積分: 343


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發表於 06-6-14 16:17 |只看該作者

Re: 工人好似講大話, 但又冇證據，個心好唔舒服!!!!!!

LibraMum:

其實我D的共同點就係對個工人太心軟，太信任她們了．我個工人表面都好好，因爲我平時要返工，等到星期日自己執間屋先知好多地方都好Dirty，有時同老公講，他又話是不是ＢＢ大了，需要多Ｄ精力照顧，所以屋企反而是其次．有時想如果個ＢＢ健健康康都某所謂啦，也唯有這樣，請她返來都是照顧ＢＢ，但Black Face就一定唔得，我Ｄ返工已經看老細面色啦，返屋企仲要看工人面色埋好辛苦．但如果個心唔舒服，就一定要講出來，其實我琴日已經同個工人講咗，我話我今日信你，如果我發現你呃我，就一定出Warning. 當時她個樣已經好驚啦，所以我都算了，因爲如果你唔講，就會看她越來越不順眼，話曬仲有一年約．你都試下同個工人講下啦．
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LibraMum


別墅

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發表於 06-6-14 16:18 |只看該作者

Re: 工人好似講大話, 但又冇證據，個心好唔舒服!!!!!!

cat_house & mylulu007,

Thanks yr advices.

Yes, she's yan yan. 之前都聽過其他bk媽啲case. 原本我唔覺佢係呢種人黎架, 覺得佢幾純品, 慢慢變形!!!
你話”Don't be afraid of her because she take care of your baby”, 但係bb喺佢手上, 你教我應該用咩態度同佢傾 ??? 如果我安排agent同佢傾會唔會好啲, 有無效? 起碼唔駛我傾到火都黎嘅時候, 失控呀.

另一個想法係, 驚同佢傾會有反效果(表面無嘢, 但等無人喺度時就對bb差), 照常工作, 一邊觀察住, 一邊密識新工人, 一有唔妥即轉工人, 無機會再俾佢.

點睇呀?
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cat_house


大宅

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發表於 06-6-14 16:37 |只看該作者

Re: 工人好似講大話, 但又冇證據，個心好唔舒服!!!!!!

LibraMum,

>用咩態度同佢傾
I'll sit down, talk to her in firm and serious attitute, no scolding, no shouting. Tell her that she don't need response because these are all excuses which you don't care, she is the maid and should just and always listen to your instruction.
>安排agent同佢傾會唔會好啲
I believe in myself more than the agent. Direct communication is better than go through third party unless you need a translator.
>驚同佢傾會有反效果(表面無嘢, 但等無人喺度時就對bb差)
are you sure that she is good to the baby when nobody's home now? If you really want to make sure, then you should install cam at home. I would suggest that you spend more time after work with the baby, say pet him/her to sleep, wash for him/her, play with him/her etc. You definitely will notice something if the maid had done anything bad to him/her.
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