And I just talk to her again!
"You go to take a rest if you are not feeling well!"
Then she reply"No need la...."
You see....I have to pretend nothing and still care
about her even though she do like that!
Otherwise I worry about my girl even she is 4 yrs old already!
Oh, I have similar experience too. My baby is just 6 months old. It is my first time to hire a maid. At first, I found her excellent as she can cook well and look after my baby patiently. On the whole, she is hardworking. However, last week, I discovered her had used my shower foam. She admitted it. After a few days, I discovered her listened to the radio when I was not at home. And then, I discovered her had bought a new mobile phone. I was very very disappointed and unhappy. My husband said that they are all minor issues. But I think they are all signs of getting worse. But firing her on these issues seems doesn't make sense. I have talked to my maid seriously that I don't like her behaviours ( not on the mobile phone issue). But you know, my baby is so small that I can't do anything. I feel very upset. Poor us!!! :cry:
跟住我返到屋企之後(唔係即刻)就同佢講:
"依家阿女開始放暑假及K2轉返半日學後,佢會有多d時間喺
屋企,我容許你休息及講電話,但只限你做晒d嘢同阿女瞓咗覺
先得,你明唔明?如果你下次唔舒服要話比我知!仲有你知我唔
係要求做足24小時唔比你休息嘅人,你知道我已經比咗好多
福利及大自由度你,我希望你會享受及珍惜,否則我會收返!"
Then she reply"OK, I know!" then smile to me!
I found a couple of times when I suddenly went home, my Indonesian helper was lying on the sofa reading her book with her mobile phone beside her. I then asked why she got nothing to do, then she said she wanted to take a rest. Later, she stopped lying on the sofa but sleeping in her own room. Whenever I suddenly came back to the home, she looked extremely sleepy with messy hair. Off course, she denied she was sleeping. With other bad points, I didn't renew her contract .