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今日突激返屋企,比我見到佢係梳化度瞓緊覺!

今日突激返屋企,比我見到佢係梳化度瞓緊覺!
我平時返工時間係好有規律,而佢係知道我幾時返工、放工及
放假,今日我一早請咗下半奏假而唔話佢知!而我平時又係按
門鐘,今日當然就.....我一入到去淨係覺得好靜,同埋見到佢即
時喺梳化'彈起身"扮去摺衫,個樣好驚訝,連D頭髮都未得閒紮
返好(瞓到成pad嘢咁),就扮鎮定同我say hello,果刻我都唔
知比咩反應好,就黑住面就答咗佢一句hello,跟住就聽到佢將
部手提較返細D聲(由大>小>振機),因佢平時喺屋企都係較
振機,而且當我喺度時,佢從來都講手提/電話!
跟住我再周圍望下,見到佢今日自己食完嘅碗碟仲放緊喺sink
裡面未洗,有d雪藏嘢放咗喺個大碗攤凍,但碗外已有很多水,
好明顯係放咗好耐!咁我都冇出聲,走咗入厠所,靜靜雞打比
老公,跟住老公叫我話吓佢!
跟住我行出尼就問佢
我話:乜你唔舒服咩?你瞓覺嘅?
佢話:係呀!
我話:你邊度唔舒服呀?
佢話:(指指個頭)頭先唔舒服,依家冇嘢啦!
跟住佢就扮冇嘢問我仲セ咁早返,我就答佢今朝阿女學校老師
打比我叫我下午去見佢喎!(其實當然係一早已約咗老師啦)
跟住我仲叫佢:我星期六及日返大陸,你唔好帶人上尼喎!
(我重覆講咗兩次,佢就好唔or lai唔話梗係啦....跟住就有D
唔高興/黑面咁!

(其實上個月都突激過佢一次,但冇乜大發現,只係佢應該喺阿
女房食緊午飯及用手提煲緊粥,因為佢即刻好緊張咁收起電
話及咬住"住"麵出尼<迎接我> .........

其實佢不嬲都好好,錫我個女(依家阿女4歲),做家務都幾好,
又幾聽教聽話,好記性,又冇セ點試過黑面(除咗今次)!
佢就喺我度做咗岩岩6個月(今日),頭3個月簡直無懈可擊!
之後開始懶咗少少(我都明白人有惰性),所以我都冇怪佢,
仍然覺得都好開心,好好彩,第一次就請到好工人!所以我亦
對佢好好,我食セ,佢食セ,佢第2日尼上エ,我就帶佢去海洋公
園,前排我地去迪士尼,都帶埋佢去,佢仔女生日及閒時,我都
有買d小禮物比佢,出街食飯梗預埋佢,屋企嘅食物任佢食(不
過佢都好自律,冇セ點食,亦時常喺佢面前教阿女尊重佢,至於
我地兩公婆都未試過鬧/呼喝佢,因為佢亦未曾試過做d過份
到要我鬧嘅事,我仲經常同佢傾計講道理.....

不過依家開始有d....
總括尼請佢都算係好エ人(因為依家d僱主實在要求低,有人質
在手的,更要<揸頸就命>........可憐....


大宅

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發表於 06-6-29 15:59 |只看該作者

Re: 今日突激返屋企,比我見到佢係梳化度瞓緊覺!

And I just talk to her again!
"You go to take a rest if you are not feeling well!"
Then she reply"No need la...."

You see....I have to pretend nothing and still care
about her even though she do like that!
Otherwise I worry about my girl even she is 4 yrs old already!

So poor! :-( :-( :-(


民房

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發表於 06-6-29 16:42 |只看該作者

Re: 今日突激返屋企,比我見到佢係梳化度瞓緊覺!

是咁架la! 因為佢既心態只不過是黎打工遮. 個個打工仔都有偷懶的一刻, 只要唔好太過份, 一次半次咪當見唔到.

我個女傭表面都係乖個d, 仲話頭醒尾. 見佢又好錫亞仔, 所以我一家都對佢好好. 但有一次, 我一家去泰國旅行, 只留她在香港, 當時我也曾想過佢會唔會帯朋友黎屋企玩呢? 點知有一日, 無意中同佢傾閒計時, 佢自爆, 同我講: 我個朋友都話睇相見到亞細(我個細仔)個樣好似你." oh~當時, 我心唸你朋友見過我咩? 邊個朋友? 我無比過我有份影既相你架? 雖然當時有好多question mark, 但我只答佢一句: 係呀! 好似咩?! 我都知佢feel到講錯野, 即時收聲.
所以, 唔可以比佢見既野就要鎖起哂! 費事唔見左野後, 話佢偷, 有無証無據,只怕是佢d朋友手腳唔乾淨, 難為左佢就無謂.


侯爵府

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發表於 06-6-29 16:47 |只看該作者

Re: 今日突激返屋企,比我見到佢係梳化度瞓緊覺!

個女已經4歲, 我就吾會驚佢, 況且個女已經4歲, 怕且都吾應該會半夜起身飲夜奶, 佢已經有充足的睡眠

比著我, 我會同佢講, 夜晚吾好講甘多電話, 講到吾訓覺, 第二朝頭痛就黎訓覺, 同埋下次吾舒服, 一定要同我講, 等我帶你去see dr, 吾係自己甘訓就算, 如果佢話諗住訓下就無事, 你就要話, 就算要訓一陣, 都應該要通知我一聲, 吾係好似依家甘, 我會覺得你係偷懶而吾係吾舒服even你真係吾舒服我都當你係偷懶, 吾好比我見第二次, 如果再見到第二次, 係返印尼慢慢訓

個女4歲, 識講識叫救命, 我真係吾驚佢

bb另計


大宅

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發表於 06-6-29 17:18 |只看該作者

Re: 今日突激返屋企,比我見到佢係梳化度?緊覺!

BabyHazel,
哎呀,你步處錯晒喇。
你點會幫佢答埋個惜口答案架,佢梗係答係架啦。
同埋千祈唔比佢知你會去成日街,知你成日係唔係屋企,佢地一定會幫自己安排一個多知多彩既一日,就算call friend上黎又有乜奇呀。


複式洋房

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發表於 06-6-29 23:00 |只看該作者

Re: 今日突激返屋企,比我見到佢係梳化度?緊覺!

Oh, I have similar experience too. My baby is just 6 months old. It is my first time to hire a maid. At first, I found her excellent as she can cook well and look after my baby patiently. On the whole, she is hardworking. However, last week, I discovered her had used my shower foam. She admitted it. After a few days, I discovered her listened to the radio when I was not at home. And then, I discovered her had bought a new mobile phone. I was very very disappointed and unhappy. My husband said that they are all minor issues. But I think they are all signs of getting worse. But firing her on these issues seems doesn't make sense. I have talked to my maid seriously that I don't like her behaviours ( not on the mobile phone issue). But you know, my baby is so small that I can't do anything. I feel very upset. Poor us!!! :cry:


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發表於 06-6-29 23:56 |只看該作者

Re: 今日突激返屋企,比我見到佢係梳化度瞓緊覺!

可能我概要求比較低,工人一日做到黑都唔太現實,起碼巨都可以系你地返屋企之前將所有也做曬做好,中間概時間味由巨自己安排喇。。。我同我個工人講,我唔需要你當住我面做好耐,因為我要求概唔系時間長短,而系工作質量,你可以一日用兩個鐘做曬所有也並且達到我概要求,其它時間你可以休息。。。
少奶奶的身份,丫頭的命...


子爵府

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發表於 06-6-30 09:59 |只看該作者

Re: 今日突激返屋企,比我見到佢係梳化度

我對工人都係唔會有太大要求, 只要佢take care bb, 做好家務. 咁take 個break 我都可以接受, 無可能不停10幾個hrs 係咁做, 可能佢見屋企無人先咁 relax, 你可以同佢講, 休息下ok, 不過就唔好訓覺.


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Re: 今日突激返屋企,比我見到佢係梳化度

yes, 工人都係人, 可以take 個rest, 但如果親眼見到都吾話佢, 佢就會當左係我們的默認佢訓晏覺, 試問, 我返工, 可吾可以訓晏覺? or公然甘上bk?

當然大家都係偷偷地進行, 而又做得晒手頭上的工作, 老闆就吾會炸型, 之但係, 如果老闆一日忽然見到你上bk, 而d 工作又未做完(食完lunch d bowl都未洗), 你估老闆會吾會鬧你呢?


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Re: 今日突激返屋企,比我見到佢係梳化度瞓緊覺!

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係, 小朋友好易信姐姐, 之但係, 如果姐姐對佢吾好, 例如打佢, 父母見到d 傷痕, 又話者比d吾乾淨既野佢食, 令到佢肚all, 你再深層次探討, 會係小朋友口中打聽到一二, 你又明吾明?

吾似得d bb仔, 父母見到有傷痕, 因為bb仔吾識講, 苦無對証, 你又明吾明?

同埋始終個小朋友大, 識得報串, 個工人都會忌個小朋友3分, 吾會太過份

同埋最後, 我想講既係, 我一定吾會比個工人持住有個細的係佢手, 而對佢忍氣吞聲, 甘樣只會助長佢的炎氣, 吾係一個好方法

我會軟硬兼施, 岩就獎appreicate, 吾岩就話(吾係鬧), 但一定要比佢知道, 我吾怕無左佢, 亦要比佢知道, 吾會因為佢要看個細的而屈服

我有兩個小朋友, 大的, 果時對付工人的方法就係好似以家d媽咪大部份的方法, 諗住有個細的就忍氣吞聲, 結果, 個女4歲, 已經換左3個工人, 大部份都吾過1年

細的, 就用我的方法, 即係有錯就話, 岩的就appreciate + 保持賓主關係, 個仔依家4歲, only用兩個工人, 依家呢個還諗住續約

當然, 亦有部份係luck黎, 但係我亦相信, 要比工人知道我的底線 佢先可以maintain到佢的performance, 而吾係亂黎..................明吾明?


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大宅

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Re: 今日突激返屋企,比我見到佢係梳化度

hinhinmummy 寫道:
yes, 工人都係人, 可以take 個rest, 但如果親眼見到都吾話佢, 佢就會當左係我們的默認佢訓晏覺, 試問, 我返工, 可吾可以訓晏覺? or公然甘上bk?

當然大家都係偷偷地進行, 而又做得晒手頭上的工作, 老闆就吾會炸型, 之但係, 如果老闆一日忽然見到你上bk, 而d 工作又未做完(食完lunch d bowl都未洗), 你估老闆會吾會鬧你呢?


I agree with you!
就正正係比我見到佢有嘢未做完,我先至覺得唔開心......
我由上工時已經同佢講,如果你做晒d嘢想抖下,可以同我講,
休息下.依家佢基本上做晒嘢時已經冇/唔駛問我就休息,同我
地一齊喺度睇電視/VCD....我絕對/冇炸型及唔高興,相反知
佢鍾意周星馳,仲特登開尼一齊睇添呀.....
佢平時如果我放假一齊食飯,佢大概8:30-9:00pm就已經可
以出尼坐喺度休息睇電視,如果返工(一星期3-4晚)我夜d食,
佢都係9:30pm就可以休息睇電視,10:00pm就可以同阿女
一齊入房瞓,第2朝7:30起身,咁10:30pm-7:30am都有
9hrs瞓啦!半夜淨係坐起身睇下阿女有冇踢被(我估2-3次),
絕對夠瞓有餘,我都冇佢瞓咁多呀!

仲有我阿女係返全日班,基本上由9am-4pm佢都free嘅,無
王管,冇人突擊,做乜都冇人知啦!況且我地一家3口,兩公婆都
返工,佢唔係太多嘢做咋!
我尋日同佢講完以上嘅嘢後,自己落去接女,跟住漏咗嘢,上返
屋企攞,點知未行到門口已經聽到佢坐喺梳化講電話,由於無
關木門,只有鐵閘,而佢又講得好大聲,所以佢乜都聽到晒(佢
用英文講),我仲以為佢用屋企電話同我媽/家人講,咁我咪喺
門外叫佢個名一聲,點知佢實在太投入,竟然聽唔到,我咪用
key開,原來佢一邊講手提一邊聯衫,當佢見到我時即刻收埋
個電話扮聯衫,<又好驚訝>咁問我仲セ走返上尼,呢次我冇話
佢,跟住我同佢"講頭先我叫咗你個名啦!不過你聽唔到咋嘛!"

到放學時我問個女EE
喺屋企有冇講電話,佢話有,我問佢係用屋企個電話定手提,佢
就話手提,咁我問佢同邊個講,佢話:"我都唔知,佢講菲律賓話
嘅!"


跟住我返到屋企之後(唔係即刻)就同佢講:
"依家阿女開始放暑假及K2轉返半日學後,佢會有多d時間喺
屋企,我容許你休息及講電話,但只限你做晒d嘢同阿女瞓咗覺
先得,你明唔明?如果你下次唔舒服要話比我知!仲有你知我唔
係要求做足24小時唔比你休息嘅人,你知道我已經比咗好多
福利及大自由度你,我希望你會享受及珍惜,否則我會收返!"
Then she reply"OK, I know!" then smile to me!


大宅

積分: 4530

好媽媽勳章


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發表於 06-6-30 12:30 |只看該作者

Re: 今日突激返屋企,比我見到佢係梳化度

She is very hard working now because I'm off today!

NON-STOP TO CLEAN THE KITCHEN NOW AR


大宅

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發表於 06-6-30 12:42 |只看該作者

Re: 今日突激返屋企,比我見到佢係梳化度

I found a couple of times when I suddenly went home, my Indonesian helper was lying on the sofa reading her book with her mobile phone beside her. I then asked why she got nothing to do, then she said she wanted to take a rest. Later, she stopped lying on the sofa but sleeping in her own room. Whenever I suddenly came back to the home, she looked extremely sleepy with messy hair. Off course, she denied she was sleeping. With other bad points, I didn't renew her contract .

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