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大家幫手睇下你哋點做？好苦惱呀! [複製鏈接]

kadie

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發表於 06-8-20 18:56 |只看該作者

大家幫手睇下你哋點做？好苦惱呀!

唉.....想問下大家會點做如你們有我以下這情況：
我個bun來了4個多月我己經同佢傾兩次計。第一次是她來了1個半月時就無la la發脾氣,我叫佢去冲凉但因為發現隻狗無哂水飲就叫佢"針"反D水,跟住佢就黑面又"接"我,重夠擔死bang對厠所門。可能冲完凉後知衰就扮無嘢同BB玩。我angry到死但都忍住到氣平心靜氣同佢傾，問佢系咪做得唔開心有セ可以攞出黎傾，事實上我己對佢好好，來到唔夠1 week己說我arrange嘅holiday唔可以比佢返到church,要求改去thursday(before i arrange monday),我說ok la。跟住1 week later,佢又話放thurs很悶無朋友陪佢。唉...我將心比已又可能真系悶D,跟住我就安排放半日Thurs半日Sat, 9pm前返。佢都幾開心,而我都希望做到大家開心此中佢要同我哋生活起碼2年。我又比好多衫比佢可以自己着同寄返屋企,我哋食セ用セ都比佢一樣。但佢習慣咗開始唔太appreciate，放發現我此乎對佢太好了....anyway,我同佢傾完後系好好多...但跟住就開始無禮貌唔greet我,做錯嘢我同佢講返唔response無表情無sorry...算啦...佢character好難改, 但佢對我個囡系几好又識同佢玩,見佢哋get along well, 我都隻眼開隻眼閉，一提就是佢housework都算ok la..但今個月佢唔小心left my daughter alone at home becoz she thought my mom was outside the door and when she open the door without checking, my dog ran out and the door closed at once leaving my daughter alone in the sofa, very dangerous! luckily, i come back early and found out this..i saw her crying so bad and i think she did not purposely did this mistake, so i just talk to her at night about the incident....note: she never say sorry at all!!!!!

跟住佢就話要resign云云，覺得無信心再take care my daughter...我見佢咁堅决所以都無留佢..而且唔需要比1 mth salary 我...the next day...佢話想做多1 month到時希望我幫佢write reference letter...i said if u are ok this mth until yr last day, i will help..過咗几日我老公問佢系味真糸想走, 佢話佢仲有方机會, 我見又費事麻煩請another one and she treat my daughter good, so i cancel her resign and let her stay...

of course, i have to make everything clear first, and let's start from the beginning....she start to complain about her sleeping area (in the kitchen)..not like what she expected b4, coz she thought she will be sleeping with my daughter...i said she never review this to me and i think she's ok with the arrangement..anyway..i make her sleeping in my baby room alone now (double bed - sofabed) and she said it is difficult to open....i was not happy when she say this

but anyway, i do my part already and also i told her to improve her behaviour and attitude..she said she will....and now everything SEEMS fine....today..she said to me" Mum, i want to make sth clear - about my time to come back....a few mths b4, you scold me that i was late home and i did call at 8:45pm which is not late at all" I was shock and dont know how to response and i said" becoz u really are late, and i did not remember which time you mention about!" I said" I want u to be back by 9pm during your holiday and if u are late, call me earlier and let me know or if it has heavy rain, i can accept u come back late." she then said ok..and walk away... ?-(

what is her purpose of saying this??? suddenly??
i remember i told her to be back at 8:30pm on her 1st day, and later she just keep coming back at 9pm so i just change the time to 9pm law....i thought she will thank me and happy, but now she just want to make sth clear?????????

唉......你哋会點做...同佢傾again或一了百了...炒!!!!