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aachan


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終於要告別奶媽生涯!!

今晚我終於飲了一大碗淡豆豉湯 , 告別6個月既奶媽生涯!

飲O個一刻內心真係好難受, 直情有少少想喊. :-( 回想過去六個月, 真係有苦有樂。

記得開初奶量唔係好夠, 阿囡又唔係好肯埋身食, 自己又唔係好識泵, 個泵又唔夠Pro, 跟住有硬塊, 驚左成個月先至搞得掂 :-( 其間因為又要埋身餵又要泵, 搞到體力透支, 朝朝起身都周身痛, 連老公都唔支持我, 叫我唔好再餵 。 不過我冇采佢, 我同自己講起碼都要餵到番工之前, 我真係希望我囡囡可以身體健康D。

好快三個月就過去, 當我開始覺得自己撐握到餵奶既技巧, 奶量又穩定時, 偏偏就要番工。原本諗住番工就唔再餵, 因為Office冇地方泵奶, 自己既工作又忙壓力又大, 總之就有好多unfavorable factors; 但係又真係唔捨得, 最後拖到番工前既一個星期, 好似整定咁俾我o係 呢度睇到有個Topic講番工點樣泵奶, 好多好熱心既媽媽share點樣可以o係Office既惡劣環境下泵奶, 同埋俾左好多鼓勵各位奶媽, 就係咁, 我心理上又得到好大既支持, 決定繼續做奶媽.

點知番左工之後, 先至知乜野叫辛苦, 每朝都要早半個鐘泵奶, 跟住又要帶晒D架生番公司, 跟住每日都要鬼鬼祟祟咁o係Executive Toilet泵奶, 放工又要一支箭咁番工企, 驚死D奶變壞, 食完飯又要9秒9沖涼, 跟住埋身餵, 跟住再泵。每一日都係重複以上既動作, 真係(支力)到想遲左份工唔做! 不過我同自己講一定要堅持到阿囡六個月, 呢個係最Minimum既requirement!

依家阿女終於六個幾月喇, 我諗我都係時候要停, 因為真係太辛苦, 同埋因為一些特別既原因 (不方便透露), 所以最早終要為自己既奶媽生涯畫上句號! 不過我已經覺得自己好叻, 咁大個女都未試過做一樣野係咁堅持既!

其實我只係想同各位媽媽share下自己既感受, 寫寫下好似好長氣咁, 希望各位媽咪唔好見怪~~
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俾10個叻您
盡咗力就心安理得,起碼都做過一件咁有意義嘅事,老實講陀仔生仔都係辛苦10個月,當中一樣有苦樂,而做奶媽嘅苦樂路時間可能更長,而且見住BB每日長大,真係想行一世
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能餵長點當然好,但你都餵左6個月啦,而且平衡利害後,覺得停餵是最佳選擇,你又開心,BB又得到從母乳中的好處,實在叫人開心.都係個句諗返轉頭都問心無愧!

你好叻咖喇,如果每日要我愉去EXCEUTIVE OFFICE泵奶,我真係早就停了,否則會C于心臟病!
歡迎來看丁噹的成長點滴
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dear aachan,
多謝你的分享，我已經全人奶2個多月, 返工2個星期, 希望可以學你咁最少堅持6個月啦!
我依家d冰奶多到要俾人, 千祈唔好到第時自己唔夠奶啦

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發表於 06-9-10 15:14 |只看該作者

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doublei 寫道:
dear aachan,
多謝你的分享，我已經全人奶2個多月, 返工2個星期, 希望可以學你咁最少堅持6個月啦!
我依家d冰奶多到要俾人, 千祈唔好到第時自己唔夠奶啦

doublei
"我依家d冰奶多到要俾人"WHO
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發表於 06-9-10 16:56 |只看該作者

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你好幸福!可以唔做!我放咗4個月產假.之前bb成日同我講嘢,而家返工後,佢見bun bun開心過見我...唯一令我開心,是我仍堅持全人奶,見阿b愈來愈肥,我都好有成功感 :-P :-P
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aachan 寫道:
點知番左工之後, 先至知乜野叫辛苦, 每朝都要早半個鐘泵奶, 跟住又要帶晒D架生番公司, 跟住每日都要鬼鬼祟祟咁o係Executive Toilet泵奶, 放工又要一支箭咁番工企, 驚死D奶變壞, 食完飯又要9秒9沖涼, 跟住埋身餵, 跟住再泵。每一日都係重複以上既動作


完全係我的寫照，老細同事唔明點解有時我地會遲到，仲日日大包小包趕住走，覺得我地冇責任感...但係呢到大家都知道所有野都係為左亞b好

aachan, you really did a good job and your kid know it!


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nicoleyin


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我亦身同感受，好辛苦！比起生bb辛苦好多好多倍！最慘我唔夠奶，所以唔敢懶，極度辛苦！！
但係見到bb肥肥白白，又唔捨得放棄。
前日比 in-charge 話完，心情真係極度失落！！因為我lunch 只有半個鐘，in-charge 話我食飯就食15mins，pump奶就半個鐘，仲末計洗嘢，超晒時！對其他同事好唔公平！又話我冇講低去pump奶！比佢話嗰陣我好想喊出來，但係我死忍，c都忍住唔喺佢面前喊！！！！
又諗放棄。但係又係唔捨得！！唯有試吓買D營養粉沖來當食飯，咁可以用盡嗰半個鐘。 :-( :-( :-(
樂樂B係06年5月尾出世。 :-)[img][url=http://www.babyhome.com.tw/bb/173039[/img]]入嚟睇吓我啦！[/url]
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J&D,
thanks for your care!
I will try to relax and try to do what I can do.
Thanks!!! :wink:
J&D 寫道:


nicoleyin,
平常心, 好似我咁, 自從上次我跌倒後d奶量急跌, 不過呢, 我無咁執著啦, 我家下間中都加餐奶粉, 尤其是我大囡返k1, 我要接接送送, 有時無時間pump奶, 咪由佢囉, 返黎有時間先pump, 不過都照飲湯水, 晚刻照埋身啜~~~
你照食飯啦, 但d野就唔好洗, 放工帶返home先洗, 食15分鐘pump15分鐘奶囉, pump得幾多得幾多, 起碼你個腦都知道, 中午食少d姐(d奶呀), 不過都係要食, 好過完全唔pump, 你唔食飯d奶都無營養, 咁亞b飲左有乜用喎, 放鬆d~~~
樂樂B係06年5月尾出世。 :-)[img][url=http://www.babyhome.com.tw/bb/173039[/img]]入嚟睇吓我啦！[/url]
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aachan,
Totally understand your feeling. I'm also a working mother. Originally, I don't have too much milk for my daughter in her 1st month and want to give up. But then, I read lots of other BK mothers' experience here and this gave me confidence. So, I continued.
I haven't thought that I can do it until now when my daughter is already 7.5 months as originally I just want to feed her until she is 3 months old. But the feeling of BF is so good, especially for working mother like me, it provides opportunity for me to develop a very close relationship with my daughter. Also, when I see my daughter is growing up and becomes big & strong, all the unfavourable & 辛苦 are gone.
Although I still need to give my daughter formula once a day, I think that I've done all my best and I will not regret.
Just want to share my experience with you. Anyway, you've done very good already!
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aachan
我剛剛餵人奶時，都遇到很多問題，阿B佢唔識食，食到我個乳頭損晒兼流血，用水擠，擠極都有硬塊，奶量不足，要補奶粉，到最後做全泵奶媽。最初我都係諗住餵一個月就算，因為要好勤力咁泵，而且我的產假不多，很快就返工，一返工啲奶量就急跌，諗住要玩完時，啲奶量又開始多番！本來要入廁所泵，最後不尷尬地向Admin申請午飯時借房泵奶，到現在已經做了三個月奶媽了，我都打算做到六個月就榮休，因為全泵形的奶媽生涯真的很辛苦，每天做要定時定候泵奶！但我估到時我會不捨得，到時再算吧，看看自己還有沒有這個能耐去堅持！
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"Y_Y"-yvonne 寫道:
堅持到6個月都好好啦!!有D6日都做唔到呀!!!
叻叻叻


你話緊我生大女果陣時呀!? 餵咗4日 :lol:
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hello candy, 你好叻呀, 終於都捱到6個月.
我囡囡呢個月尾都6個月
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My baby is now 4month 1 week old. I am also thinking of giving up being a BF mom.
Like most of u, I am a working mom, I went through the process of:
- little supply (which I felt shameful when I hand it to my mom to put to the fringe)
- milk duct blocked
- no appropriate area to pump after getting back to work
- wake up an hour earlier to start pumping everyday
- pump almost 40 mins each time x 6 times a day to increase my supply......etc

I was very depressed at 1st but now I am so proud that I am able to feed my baby only with my milk!! I really don't want to quit as I know I have what's the best for baby and I therefore should continue no matter what.

However, in these 4 months, I had 5 times of 乳腺炎... high fever + 發冷 + whole body shaking + 出淡汗(渾身濕透)...it was really an awful experience. I saw many doctors, 5 out of 6 recommended me to quit and I decided to quit every time when I had 乳腺炎. However, when my fever, body pain is gone, I find it hard to quit. As I have gone through such a long process to achieve it, I don't want to give up. I never think that I am able to be a 全人奶媽. I have worked so hard to make it and finally I can make it!

I think I will feel easier if I am unable to produce --> then I have no choice and can just quit. I have what's the best for BB and so it is hard to for me to choose not to give ar.

Giving birth to a baby is not easy BUT choosing not to give her the best is VERY HARD
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