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大宅

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發表於 06-10-17 23:17 |只看該作者

會和菲傭出街嗎

我有1個9月大的兒子,如要外出,我很少和菲傭出外,包括食飯,不是因為$,而是not many things to talk,相對無言,不自在,係咪not good,因為我至今仲未比key佢,that means she can't go out freely anytime,only if i at home,because i worry she will takes my little son go elsewhere at daytime, anyone have experience can share

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Re: 會和菲傭出街嗎

最好..... 老人家和BB 和菲傭出外 la...
otherwise, take a 30-min break after dinner and go out together la....

I wont' pass my key to bun. but I go out with my BB & my bun bun everyday after work... (to shopping mall or clubhouse)

Everyday, my bun finish all her work and wait for me to home..

my BB & bun love to go out, even I am very tired, I still take them out... I also let my bun stay at clubhouse chat with friends (as a break law) my bun understand she need to work hard & behave good..... otherwise, I will cut out this benefit...

As she always work hard, no talk back, no black face..... I think it is worth to do something like that.....

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gyeung77

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發表於 06-10-17 23:41 |只看該作者

Re: 會和菲傭出街嗎

My yan yan did not go out at all, because she has to look after my 4 months old bb. She only goes out during her holiday.

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發表於 06-10-17 23:58 |只看該作者

Re: 會和菲傭出街嗎

i really admire u because u still have strength to go out after work with your BB and bun bun everyday,as in my case, time is very tight every night, after dinner and bun bun washed the dishes, usually about 9:00pm, and more important, i am tired to go out with her,but i will let her go out if she requests
do u have many things to talk with your bun bun?

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發表於 06-10-18 00:00 |只看該作者

Re: 會和菲傭出街嗎

我地去會一齊去飲茶或lunch, 可叫亞bun bun去取位先, 然後一齊在酒樓飲茶, 若果成日係屋企會唔會太bored. 有小朋友就另計. 我女女己7y. 起碼去下supermarket 見下人都好ga! 你唔使理要唔要同佢talking, 鍾意就talk, 唔鍾意就自己同老公吹水都可以la. 只是你需唔要工人幫手take care bb 先. but 人人不同.
只是我的經經驗, 未必合你.

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大宅

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發表於 06-10-18 00:03 |只看該作者

Re: 會和菲傭出街嗎

do u worry your yan yan too boring at home?did u give your key to her?

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發表於 06-10-18 00:08 |只看該作者

Re: 會和菲傭出街嗎

I am also a BF mother (7.5 month now~~) so busy everyday... well, then u can just go out once a week, twice a week.... or 一齊出街 as a award if she works hard.

should treat "going out 出街" as a relaxing activity. everyone need a break, so do your maid and your BB need to go out and say hi to the outsiders.

My bb go out everyday (except one day I got sick) since 10 week-old. She like to smile to the outsiders and look very happy whenever she go out...

* My maid likes to talk a lot to me... I always need to 扮有心機聽... (cos' I am very tired...

) anyway, we do have good relationship so far....

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發表於 06-10-18 00:09 |只看該作者

Re: 會和菲傭出街嗎

QI,

why not go out with your 9月大的兒子 and 菲傭?

Your helper can help you carry the bags, pram, etc.

You two can talk about many things, e.g. things in the supermarket, about her homeland, about her family, etc.

you may treat her as a part of your family then you won't be 相對無言

If you worry about your maid leaving home with your son, simply tell her she is not allowed to do so without your permission.

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發表於 06-10-18 00:14 |只看該作者

Re: 會和菲傭出街嗎

會,我地會一齊出去飲茶,食飯.因我同個bun都好好傾.

我99直頭同佢去廣州玩添呀.

我都plan緊同佢去oceanpark.

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發表於 06-10-18 00:20 |只看該作者

Re: 會和菲傭出街嗎

I will take my maid to the places I usually go, included my Mum's home, & now she can get what I want in different places (like market, supermarket...etc.) I specially train her for my own convenience. So when I'm not in town, she would be able to handle the things I listed.
I will spot check by calling home while the time she should be home.
When I take her out, most the time no talking, she follows me & sometimes will discuss what to buy in the market, all about food.
If 佢本質好, it's OK to train her than you can let go somtimes, give youself a break

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發表於 06-10-18 00:32 |只看該作者

Re: 會和菲傭出街嗎

when my bun bun come to my home at the first few months, i had talked with her as you suggested, however, now i have few topics and little interest to talk to her, i don't know why? maybe her english is not so good, my husband and i sometimes cannot understand what she said, also she is not very talkative too,
usually i go out with the baby on holiday and my husband will go togther, so we can take care BB ourselves,and we really enjoy the time without bun bun
as my bun bun had tell lies to us, so i can't trust her, if i just tell her not to take my son go out alone

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發表於 06-10-18 00:47 |只看該作者

Re: 會和菲傭出街嗎

it's so strange that bun bun don't speak English well, but in your case better to keep her in the house, telling lies is the start of the bad sign.
If for family day ot out for fun, I don't normally take my maid, coz' she will enjoy her day out with us & 發呆, & I need to take care of everything. I don't really enjoy this position change.
I won't chat much with my maid, due to the unhappy experience with my last maid.............(she copies me in clothing, hair & act like she's 1 of the incharge at home.......once she used my handbag.....well finally she's terminated at the 4th month.