2kidsmother 寫道:
I have the same problem, my son is a F1 boy this year, He doesn't want me to stand in between his friend, nor to know his friend. :-(
he said : 八挂
Can I write English, because I do not know how to type Chinese, i can only type english and copy and paste the chinese word. very slow, sorry.
my son is in Form 1 this year, in the primary P1-6, i studied with him, but now he said he grow up, he can handle by himself,
i want to let him to study by himself, but i still have a little worry. as he was in 精英班, even now he is in his Secondly school, he is still in F1 A 精英班.
do you study with your son, or you will let him by himself?
thank you very much for your sharing, with your experience, i feel better, because i am in cross street, i have been asking myself, should i check his homework, should i teach him, should i push him, but he said he wants to handle it himself, on the other hand, i want him to be independent,
i agree with you, i should be relax, as his primary studies was good,
do you worry about your son in F4 class, do you have plan now for universay.
Dear 362436,
are all boys the same, do not want mother to know their friend.
Dear all mothers,
is there any mother have a girl in Secondary school, are they sharing with you with her friends,
now my daughter is 9 years old, she still talks with me every day, about her friend and school lift. i just want to know if she will be the same when she entre in Secondary school.
Dear Yinglam,
I will try to relax this year, to see the result. thanks a lot.
Dear all,
I used to give my son and daughter base on their performance at school, such as, if their dictation had 85 or up, i would give 10 dollars, if they had "tick" mark (this is school merit), i would give 5 dollars, if they had "triangle" mark, penalty $10.
then they did not have pocket money, because the basic need i would buy for them, when it was necessary.
this year, i changed to give $35 per week, supersede the former way, the disadvantage is they will not tell me immediately to share the happiness right after school as it was, the dictation+test marks, the merit, i know it only if school need me to sign.
therefore, i will review after this term how to give pocket money.