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發表於 06-10-9 14:34 |只看該作者

子女步入中學的媽媽齊來傾心聲

我個仔仔今年中3啦, 女女就來4個月^_^
有左個女女個仔都好開心,之前個仔開始唔跟我地囉, 常常同佢d同學仔玩, 真係好唔慣, 好似個仔開始有自己天地咁, 好多時佢既活動我同爸b都有問佢我地可否參加, 佢一句就話唔好啦咁多同學一齊...我地都係想融入佢既天地者, 原來好難架...... 有左個妹妹後, 我覺佢生性左好多, 房自己執, 成績好左, 做功課唔駛叫架e家, 係學校開始肯自覺做服務生呀幹事之類, 但就係同父母有左距離咁, 佢爸b成日都想同佢同d同學一齊出去玩, 但佢都拒絕, 有咩方法呢?可否教教?
~海澄靚相~最愛的Vivian妹妹豬豬


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發表於 06-10-10 04:59 |只看該作者

Re: 子女步入中學的媽媽齊來傾心聲

I have the same problem, my son is a F1 boy this year, He doesn't want me to stand in between his friend, nor to know his friend. :-(
he said : 八挂
best regards 2kidsmother


民房

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發表於 06-10-10 13:42 |只看該作者

Re: 子女步入中學的媽媽齊來傾心聲

2kidsmother 寫道:
I have the same problem, my son is a F1 boy this year, He doesn't want me to stand in between his friend, nor to know his friend. :-(
he said : 八挂

我個仔好多時都會同d同返屋企玩架, 但就唔鐘意同埋父母一齊出街囉, 你兩個細都咁大架?
~海澄靚相~最愛的Vivian妹妹豬豬


民房

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發表於 06-10-17 16:36 |只看該作者

Re: 子女步入中學的媽媽齊來傾心聲

Can I write English, because I do not know how to type Chinese, i can only type english and copy and paste the chinese word. very slow, sorry.

my son is in Form 1 this year, in the primary P1-6, i studied with him, but now he said he grow up, he can handle by himself,

i want to let him to study by himself, but i still have a little worry. as he was in 精英班, even now he is in his Secondly school, he is still in F1 A 精英班.

do you study with your son, or you will let him by himself?


best regards 2kidsmother


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發表於 06-10-21 01:13 |只看該作者

Re: 子女步入中學的媽媽齊來傾心聲

Hi 2kidsmother
我兒子今年 F.4,小學時候打好根基最緊要,自他升上中學後,我就沒法介入他的溫習中,樣樣都要靠他自動波,要他自己緊張,對成績有要求,就不需擔心。不要為精英班增添壓力,反而要鼓勵和欣賞多一點,給他自信心跨越每一步。

Hi Ckji
我個仔都唔會多願意同我們去街,更何況約他的同學仔,他們有自己的社交圈子,真是很難介入 好多時覺得我問的問題很無聊••••
:wave: :wave: 我心專主為大。


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發表於 06-10-21 15:00 |只看該作者

Re: 子女步入中學的媽媽齊來傾心聲

Hi, YINGLAM,

thank you very much for your sharing, with your experience, i feel better, because i am in cross street, i have been asking myself, should i check his homework, should i teach him, should i push him, but he said he wants to handle it himself, on the other hand, i want him to be independent,

i agree with you, i should be relax, as his primary studies was good,

do you worry about your son in F4 class, do you have plan now for universay.

best regards,
rame
best regards 2kidsmother


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發表於 06-10-21 17:56 |只看該作者

Re: 子女步入中學的媽媽齊來傾心聲

Hi Rame

放心,讓他自己來,從旁多留意便可,給他適當的意見。
回想起小學時侯,我很緊張他功課,但現在覺得很輕鬆自由。感覺自他上了F.4後更認真溫習,可能距離會考又近一步,他要做好預備掛,仔仔成績表現都ok.他自己目標是讀科大會計系。我想做家長最開心就是聽到孩子有信心和目標。其實讀邊間U都沒所謂。
:wave: :wave: 我心專主為大。


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發表於 06-10-21 18:45 |只看該作者

Re: 子女步入中學的媽媽齊來傾心聲

Hi ckji

我個仔都是讀中三架,他都唔跟我地,佢話平時返學咁忙,想休息下,老公放假,咁我地兩公婆自己去行街咋:-( ,除非是去親戚到,先至跟咋。他平時同佢d同學msn多,有時問佢同d同學說什麼,他就話你,你都唔識佢(笑笑口),唔好八卦 ,我做正經野咋,其實我地都是想知佢想什麼je :-(


民房

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發表於 06-10-23 13:32 |只看該作者

Re: 子女步入中學的媽媽齊來傾心聲


Dear 362436,
are all boys the same, do not want mother to know their friend.

Dear all mothers,
is there any mother have a girl in Secondary school, are they sharing with you with her friends,
now my daughter is 9 years old, she still talks with me every day, about her friend and school lift. i just want to know if she will be the same when she entre in Secondary school.

Dear Yinglam,
I will try to relax this year, to see the result. thanks a lot.

best regards
2kidsmother
best regards 2kidsmother


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發表於 06-10-23 14:06 |只看該作者

Re: 子女步入中學的媽媽齊來傾心聲

362436

我個仔都唔鐘意我過問佢
:wave: :wave: 我心專主為大。


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11#
發表於 06-10-23 22:16 |只看該作者

Re: 子女步入中學的媽媽齊來傾心聲

Hi 2kidsmother / YINGLAM

其實我都知男仔通常都唔喜歡問咁多,但有時忍唔住問,Yinglam 你個仔說得對,我地做父母應反過來想他們的感受。

我都非常同意你說的話,以及同你說一樣提醒他,有什麼困難,記得同父母講,我地一定幫佢支持佢。


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發表於 06-10-24 12:41 |只看該作者

Re: 子女步入中學的媽媽齊來傾心聲

有無人可以分享一下,你們給仔女(中學生)每日零用錢是多少?
:wave: :wave: 我心專主為大。


別墅

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發表於 06-10-24 18:08 |只看該作者

Re: 子女步入中學的媽媽齊來傾心聲

我個仔讀 F.4, 現在給他每日 $30 午飯 + 每月$250車費 +每月$100 什項 :-P 你們覺得OK嗎?他最近想我加早餐錢(本是屋企食,但好多時侯唔夠時間食。現在我都未決定,想聽聽其他家長做法。
:wave: :wave: 我心專主為大。


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發表於 06-10-25 10:57 |只看該作者

Re: 子女步入中學的媽媽齊來傾心聲

Hi YINGLAM

我個仔讀中三,因學校中一至中三不可出街食飯,是我買飯給他吃的,又不用比車錢(c6公司福利),八達通我又幫他入錢,比佢學校買野喝及間唔中坐車錢(其他車),大大小小都是我買給他的,他又沒有話要零用錢,所以我都沒有給他,不過他默書、小測、考試成績好(有80分以上),就給少少錢當獎勵(10元20元),其實我當零用錢比他,考試多少少啦!我有時唔記得比佢,佢都無問我"law",佢有時話佢的錢,即是媽咪的錢,比唔比都得啦(比佢笑c),可能我成日同他講,爸爸返工很辛苦,d錢不可亂花。

你囝囝想出街食早餐加早餐錢,如果學校食10元8塊都得,但快餐店就貴d啦,你可比過中間數,或者每日$15元。(個人意見)


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發表於 06-10-25 11:45 |只看該作者

Re: 子女步入中學的媽媽齊來傾心聲

YINGLAM
我個囡中二~ 朝早坐白牌保母車 $3 屋企拎
放學用八達通坐巴士
用晒問我入錢... (不過我無check佢數.信佢無亂買野啦)
lunch 一星期我比七十~ 佢話學校有麵餐同三文治餐
夠飽~ 都係十三蚊
有時就同同學去食飯~ $19好大碟~share~
咁佢話七十夠... 我叫佢唔夠就開聲..千祈唔好餓親
另每個月一號比 $100 零用


民房

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發表於 06-10-27 07:39 |只看該作者

Re: 子女步入中學的媽媽齊來傾心聲

Dear all,
I used to give my son and daughter base on their performance at school, such as, if their dictation had 85 or up, i would give 10 dollars, if they had "tick" mark (this is school merit), i would give 5 dollars, if they had "triangle" mark, penalty $10.

then they did not have pocket money, because the basic need i would buy for them, when it was necessary.

this year, i changed to give $35 per week, supersede the former way, the disadvantage is they will not tell me immediately to share the happiness right after school as it was, the dictation+test marks, the merit, i know it only if school need me to sign.

therefore, i will review after this term how to give pocket money.

best regards 2kidsmother


民房

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發表於 06-11-2 23:15 |只看該作者

Re: 子女步入中學的媽媽齊來傾心聲

我有2個仔都中係中學生, 每星期給250元包早午餐, 八達通另外比錢增值, 但佢二人都有參加童軍, 有D活動要佢地自己出, 因為250元X4星期= 1000 仲要再X2人 你地話幾大支出. :-(


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發表於 06-11-4 09:50 |只看該作者

Re: 子女步入中學的媽媽齊來傾心聲

Hi all,

聽完你
:wave: :wave: 我心專主為大。


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