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別墅

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發表於 06-11-21 15:21 |只看該作者

If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

Where???


別墅

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發表於 06-11-21 15:45 |只看該作者

Re: If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

我都有想過這個問題, 返亞媽/家姐屋企, 又好似好大件事咁.
無啦啦去朋友屋企, 又唔知人地方唔方便.

不過, 我地通常next day morning便會無事. 大家想通左便無事了(為了99事吵架除外, 我因為要嬲幾日先至無事)



別墅

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發表於 06-11-21 16:06 |只看該作者

Re: If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

I want to go downstairs & sit for a night!
But I live with 99,hard to say when she asks me.
& how about my B?


子爵府

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發表於 06-11-21 16:33 |只看該作者

Re: If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

I will go to my sister's place since she lived very closed to me. and the most important thing is ...........she've got all baby stuff..

In fact, we don't have much argument as he is seldom home


珊瑚宮

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發表於 06-11-21 16:56 |只看該作者

Re: If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

冇地去喎...都係係屋企..不過我同老公好少嘈架..就算嘈..應該都係佢走既多


男爵府

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發表於 06-11-22 04:36 |只看該作者

Re: If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

試過一次走左噃呀媽到
但係好阻住佢地(因同埋呀b)
2日後我老公tim噃我接噃我走
不過我唔會再去我呀媽到
因為如果我同我老公會好噃,只會增加我呀媽對我老公負面影像
所以通常宜家argue ,一係我老公走
一係我自己走出去附近幾個鐘就會噃噃去,(因為擔心個仔)


複式洋房

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發表於 06-11-22 08:53 |只看該作者

Re: If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

月希 寫道:
冇地去喎...都係係屋企..不過我同老公好少嘈架..


me too........就算嘈都好快冇事!! :-P


大宅

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發表於 06-11-22 16:11 |只看該作者

Re: If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

我都係! 同埋我哋講好鬧交都唔可以走出街或唔返屋企.
小維尼 寫道:
[quote]
月希 寫道:
冇地去喎...都係係屋企..不過我同老公好少嘈架..


me too........就算嘈都好快冇事!! :-P [/quote]
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複式洋房

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發表於 06-11-22 16:35 |只看該作者

Re: If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

mee too!
小bon 寫道:
我都係! 同埋我哋講好鬧交都唔可以走出街或唔返屋企. [quote]
小維尼 寫道:
[quote]
月希 寫道:
冇地去喎...都係係屋企..不過我同老公好少嘈架..


me too........就算嘈都好快冇事!! :-P [/quote][/quote]


大宅

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發表於 06-11-22 16:48 |只看該作者

Re: If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

我都係, even 真係大件事, 都係佢出廳睡啦, 我自己壩住間房。

小bon 寫道:
我都係! 同埋我哋講好鬧交都唔可以走出街或唔返屋企. [quote]
小維尼 寫道:
[quote]
月希 寫道:
冇地去喎...都係係屋企..不過我同老公好少嘈架..


me too........就算嘈都好快冇事!! :-P [/quote][/quote]


大宅

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發表於 06-11-22 17:31 |只看該作者

Re: If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

唔走gar~ 就算鬧交, 都唔係要搞到好嚴重, 甚至無轉彎的餘地, 點解要走喎! 況且走左佢仲邊有機會氹番我, 俾我落台呀


洋房

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發表於 06-11-22 17:53 |只看該作者

Re: If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

試過想走, 雖然唔知會去邊, 但果一刻真係好激動~ 好彩老公氹留掂, 否則都唔知去邊, 返外家又太遠, 四圍逛又無心情


伯爵府

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發表於 06-11-22 17:56 |只看該作者

Re: If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

purple_lily 寫道:
唔走gar~ 就算鬧交, 都唔係要搞到好嚴重, 甚至無轉彎的餘地, 點解要走喎! 況且走左佢仲邊有機會氹番我, 俾我落台呀


複式洋房

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發表於 06-11-22 18:08 |只看該作者

Re: If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

Most of time, both of us will stay home. He may go if he is very angry. However, it hasn't happened for a long long time that I cannot remember.

I will calm down myself down by asking questions to myself such as:

1. Is that going to help if I keep angry?
2. Is he the only wrong person and it is unforgivable?
3. In the old time, I was always waiting for him to say sorry, but it is proved he is more patient than me. Since he could keep quite for days, it made me even more angry. So I will ask myself, if I want to be unhappy. If not, I have to break the ice first, because most of time "HE WON'T".
4. He will normally return to normal or even better (because he might in fact feel guilty).

By following the above, we seldom have angryment and in fact more sharing on our feelings and relationship is better than before.


大宅

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發表於 06-11-22 21:54 |只看該作者

Re: If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

好成熟好冷靜呀你!!!!!! 我都想快d唔好咁細老女...好似你咁呀!
AliJasEd 寫道:
Most of time, both of us will stay home. He may go if he is very angry. However, it hasn't happened for a long long time that I cannot remember.

I will calm down myself down by asking questions to myself such as:

1. Is that going to help if I keep angry?
2. Is he the only wrong person and it is unforgivable?
3. In the old time, I was always waiting for him to say sorry, but it is proved he is more patient than me. Since he could keep quite for days, it made me even more angry. So I will ask myself, if I want to be unhappy. If not, I have to break the ice first, because most of time "HE WON'T".
4. He will normally return to normal or even better (because he might in fact feel guilty).

By following the above, we seldom have angryment and in fact more sharing on our feelings and relationship is better than before.
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男爵府

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發表於 06-11-23 02:50 |只看該作者

Re: If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

以前就會走,而家唔會啦,咩環境都留係度,走得咁辛苦又要洗錢走黎做乜,要走都係踢佢走,幫佢汁埋行裝tim ar :tongue:


複式洋房

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發表於 06-11-23 11:23 |只看該作者

Re: If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

Hi 最愛=貓仔,

The key thing is whether you want to separate with him or you still love him? If you love him, you somehow have to adjust yourself to compromise the real situation. Of course, there is bottom line. "NO THIRD PARTY is accepted", because it is dignity, respect and person value.

It is what I have learnt for the past 15 years.


複式洋房

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發表於 06-11-23 12:09 |只看該作者

Re: If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

hi alijased

but why i have to be the one to compromise first everytime?

just like u said, he can keep quiet for a long time, and every time i HAVE TO be the one to talk to him first. does it mean that i care about us more than he does?


男爵府

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發表於 06-11-23 12:10 |只看該作者

Re: If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

我會 lock 自己係房,
唔理佢會去邊,
通常佢會係廳


複式洋房

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發表於 06-11-23 12:17 |只看該作者

Re: If U argue with husband,Where'll U go???

i think that he's wrong, but he doesnt think so. so who should compromise first? he really has the patient to keep quiet for a long time. everytime i tell myself that if he speaks to me first, i will forget about it.... but he seldom makes the first move, always me... and i dont like it

AliJasEd 寫道:
Most of time, both of us will stay home. He may go if he is very angry. However, it hasn't happened for a long long time that I cannot remember.

I will calm down myself down by asking questions to myself such as:

1. Is that going to help if I keep angry?
2. Is he the only wrong person and it is unforgivable?
3. In the old time, I was always waiting for him to say sorry, but it is proved he is more patient than me. Since he could keep quite for days, it made me even more angry. So I will ask myself, if I want to be unhappy. If not, I have to break the ice first, because most of time "HE WON'T".
4. He will normally return to normal or even better (because he might in fact feel guilty).

By following the above, we seldom have angryment and in fact more sharing on our feelings and relationship is better than before.

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