me too....i would like to have another one just because first would like to have a girl and second would like to have accompany for my bb boy. But my husband was afraid it's too expensive to bring up two children.....
I have also heard about our thoughts will affect bb. Well, I would like to have a girl but when I knew it's a boy, I try to think that boy is easier to manage. At least, bb boy doesn't usually get problem on eating and sleeping....and I found that a lot of bb boy clothes are quite cute too.... All I want is he's not that naughty, so I listen to Mozzart music all day....
snoopy123,
I have already got a boy. So this time, I want a girl, but it will be a boy!!
Anyways, I have adjusted my thinking that a boy would be fine as those two brothers can play & grow together.
When I had my elder son, I listened to classical music (Mozart & etc) every afternoon before I went sleeping. But now, he is extremely naughty. I think most boys are naughty. If they are too quite, you would be worried what is wrong with him!! For my baby, he would be quite only when he is sick!!
Meanwhile, he loves music very much. When I play the CD, he feels very excited and start to move his body no matter he is sitting or standing - look like dancing. It is really funny!!
When he heard some music (e.g. the national song) from TV, he will turn to TV to see no matter where he is. I think he does remember he used to listen music when he was inside my tummy!!
So that means it works...at least there's something can attract his attention. I hope he won't jump around all the time cuz i will be exhausted. I also hope he can learn and play music when he grows up....well...it's a bit far....but you know, mom is mom...