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別墅

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發表於 07-2-13 17:55 |只看該作者

How long you spend time with your B ?

Now, I already be a full-time mammy !

Want to ask full-time mammy how long you spend time with your BB each day, as I got a 印印 at home, so most of the time, I left 印印 to take care of my B, eg. feeding. Sometimes I felt guilty, as I only spend time with my daughter 3-4 hours per day, and the rest of time I do my own things or 上網 or take a rest. So during the time, I always feel myself is not a good mother.


大宅

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發表於 07-2-13 20:36 |只看該作者

Re: How long you spend time with your B ?

其實我同妳一樣, 不過我又冇felt guilty喎, 可能我做一陣野or 上一陣網就會同qq玩一陣, 有時佢又會走到書房要玩玩, 抱抱.


大宅

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發表於 07-2-13 21:07 |只看該作者

Re: How long you spend time with your B ?

我大約7:30回到家. 8:00 開始同小b玩到10:00pm. 她便會sleep.
星期六日也多數一齊, 我想也足夠了. 太多, 可能會好tired.


洋房

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4#
發表於 07-2-13 22:20 |只看該作者

Re: How long you spend time with your B ?

My daughter is staying at my Monther's home. I can only take care of her during weekends as I'm busy at working and studying during weekdays.


複式洋房

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發表於 07-2-13 22:36 |只看該作者

Re: How long you spend time with your B ?

my daughter is one-year-old, i have been ftm half year. i will spend all the time with her as i don't have 'bun bun', she likes me to play with her but sometime i will play PSP and she knows it's time she plays herself ( i think it's gd to train her both )

if you feel guilty, spend more time on her like take her a bath, feeding, have a walk to park, swing ( my daughter loves it ) ...... not everyday, just once when you feel free and not tire. if she happy she smiles, you can feel it too !


別墅

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發表於 07-2-14 03:28 |只看該作者

Re: How long you spend time with your B ?

Hi Belami,
I am a full-time mom and also have a maid at home. I spend a lot of time with my younger daughter who is now 1. I basically do no house work at all, but care my baby, diaper change, feeding, playing etc., while the maid do all the house work and cooking.
After I pick up my elder daugher home from school, who is now 4.5, I basically will play with both of them till they go to bed at 8pm. Then I have the whole evening for myself.

From time to time during the day, e.g. when my baby is sleeping, I will go have a rest, surf the internet, but basically I spend all day with my kids.

I enjoy doing so because my kids are all very attached to me and that feeling of "being there for them" makes me feel proud. These strong bondings make parenting and teaching very easy because since they are babies, they are used to following my instructions and teaching. No arguments whatsoever. It will be "weird" for them not listen to me.

I encourage you spend more time with your baby as the time will flies and when you want to be with them, say 10-13, they don't even want you to be around....

You will have lots of time left for yourself in the future.


男爵府

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發表於 07-2-14 08:40 |只看該作者

Re: How long you spend time with your B ?

me too

dora611 寫道:
我大約7:30回到家. 8:00 開始同小b玩到10:00pm. 她便會sleep.
星期六日也多數一齊, 我想也足夠了. 太多, 可能會好tired.


大宅

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發表於 07-2-14 09:00 |只看該作者

Re: How long you spend time with your B ?

我8:00到始返到屋企. 之後全程陪本本. 佢會10.00pm前睡. 之後先做自己野. 星期六日也多數一齊,雖然平日得2小時不夠. 因為自覺已盡我所能. 所以一點不覺guilty.


mrsmcdull 寫道:
me too

[quote]
dora611 寫道:
我大約7:30回到家. 8:00 開始同小b玩到10:00pm. 她便會sleep.
星期六日也多數一齊, 我想也足夠了. 太多, 可能會好tired.
[/quote]


侯爵府

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發表於 07-2-14 10:08 |只看該作者

Re: How long you spend time with your B ?

my daily schedule is pretty much like YukiMommy's except that I don't have a elder child to take care. I handle the baby most of the time & let the maid do the housework & most of the cooking (dinner 3 times a week only!!!). But almost everyday I also bring the baby outdoor to get some fresh air/sun. My happiest time is after putting the baby to sleep/ after the maid clean the house & play with ah B, so I can surf the net, wathc TV.

""spend more time with your baby as the time will flies and when you want to be with them, say 10-13, they don't even want you to be around...."""---------this is exactly why I become a stay-home mom!!!!


大宅

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發表於 07-2-14 11:41 |只看該作者

Re: How long you spend time with your B ?

My girl sleep at 8pm( sometimes 7pm), If I can go home early enough, I can play with her for 1-2 hr. However, sometimes she has already sleeped when I arrive home. :-(
I am still breast feeding her at night and she would sleep with me. When she wake up at the middle of the night, she will cry "mama, 'nine nine'"
I treasure the time with her, even she is sleeping or just sucking with a closed eyes.


大宅

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11#
發表於 07-2-14 11:51 |只看該作者

Re: How long you spend time with your B ?

我都係平時放工返到屋企都成6/7點, 同澄澄玩一陣一齊食飯8點到同佢入bedroom calm down8點半9點訓覺 我一係同佢一齊訓一係起身睇tv :mrgreen: 平時weekday放假就會同澄澄落下公園玩, 同佢一齊睇disney. weedend有時我會cook西餐比囡囡食, 因為平日都係食粥仔有d變化ma

其實有好多野我都想同囡囡一齊去做不過真係因為要返工而時間唔多所以做唔到都有d唔開心架, 不過快啦我可以spend多d時間同囡囡一齊啦 我今年新年願望係become a full-time mom



別墅

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發表於 07-2-14 12:49 |只看該作者

Re: How long you spend time with your B ?

every morining, i take care my baby for her first feeding/diaper change and then I go to work...

and play and take care/bathing for around 2-3 hrs after work...

weekends most of the time will be with me la...


別墅

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發表於 07-2-14 12:55 |只看該作者

Re: How long you spend time with your B ?

小wahB,
Your daughter's sleep schedule is so much like mine. But she sleeps pretty much 11 hrs every night. So, she wakes early around 6-630, sometimes will sleep again and wake at 730am.

Early sleep time is good for us as we can have more personal time in the evening...

小wahB 寫道:
My girl sleep at 8pm( sometimes 7pm), If I can go home early enough, I can play with her for 1-2 hr. However, sometimes she has already sleeped when I arrive home. :-(
I am still breast feeding her at night and she would sleep with me. When she wake up at the middle of the night, she will cry "mama, 'nine nine'"
I treasure the time with her, even she is sleeping or just sucking with a closed eyes.


大宅

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發表於 07-2-14 13:55 |只看該作者

Re: How long you spend time with your B ?

我其實都覺得自己唔係一個好媽媽, 成日都要返工, 早上8:00am 就走, 要成8:xx, 9:00 先返. 每日得1.5個鐘頭左右同bb玩. 阿仔唔係好跟我, 餵佢食飯是我一個大難題, 反而爸爸佢就好肯跟. 其實都好唔開心, esp my husband 話我唔識做人阿媽. :-( :-(


大宅

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發表於 07-2-14 13:57 |只看該作者

Re: How long you spend time with your B ?

I have 3 hours everynight for my son start from 6:30, have dinner together at 7:00, play or watch dwe program for 15-20 mins. then will take him a bath myself while my maid doing housework. Take him to bedroom at 8:15, he will fall asleep between 9:00-9:30. After that, I can do my own things.

I spend all day with him during the weekends :-P


男爵府

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16#
發表於 07-2-14 23:05 |只看該作者

Re: How long you spend time with your B ?

jerry仔比以前好玩好多,我今個月少咗跳舞,一放工就番屋企同佢玩,睇住佢又唔識行到依家都行得幾自如...真係發覺要陪佢多d. 不過自己都好似jammylau咁,一早出門口番工,夜晚都要8點(唔計要上堂)先back to home, jerry仔9點就瞓,得一個hour to be with jerry......佢唔多跟�嗲我,淨係成日嗌"dad dad" "daddy", 不過我都同自己講,要盡量同佢玩,唔好因為佢唔跟你,就唔駛理佢.不過我會安排有d時間陪jerry仔,另外一d時間係自己嘅!!

今晚我捉住佢隻手仔學用匙羹,扮餵我食嘢,雖然佢只肯做兩次,但我都好開心,起碼佢會留意下我食嘢嘅樣子.又鍾意食白飯.

我相信我地每一位媽咪每日一點一點教BBs, 心機係唔會白費.所以唔好話自己係”唔好嘅媽媽”呀


大宅

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17#
發表於 07-2-15 09:09 |只看該作者

Re: How long you spend time with your B ?

me too.
無特別事做的日子,放工6:00左右陪著囡囡,餵飯、學行、玩玩具、食奶、哄她睡,通常平日都有4個鐘左右。放假全日陪,如果出街通常都帶埋佢。

Veronmac 寫道:
I have 3 hours everynight for my son start from 6:30, have dinner together at 7:00, play or watch dwe program for 15-20 mins. then will take him a bath myself while my maid doing housework. Take him to bedroom at 8:15, he will fall asleep between 9:00-9:30. After that, I can do my own things.

I spend all day with him during the weekends :-P


大宅

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18#
發表於 07-2-15 10:42 |只看該作者

Re: How long you spend time with your B ?

YukiMommy,
Yes, same same. My daughter also wake up at 6-6:30 and I will breast feed her before I go to work.
I do agree that early sleep is good for her, but just a bit disappointed if she already sleep when I arrive home.

YukiMommy 寫道:
小wahB,
Your daughter's sleep schedule is so much like mine. But she sleeps pretty much 11 hrs every night. So, she wakes early around 6-630, sometimes will sleep again and wake at 730am.

Early sleep time is good for us as we can have more personal time in the evening...

[quote]
小wahB 寫道:
My girl sleep at 8pm( sometimes 7pm), If I can go home early enough, I can play with her for 1-2 hr. However, sometimes she has already sleeped when I arrive home. :-(
I am still breast feeding her at night and she would sleep with me. When she wake up at the middle of the night, she will cry "mama, 'nine nine'"
I treasure the time with her, even she is sleeping or just sucking with a closed eyes.
[/quote]


大宅

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發表於 07-2-15 11:49 |只看該作者

Re: How long you spend time with your B ?

同大家分享下…

每朝我會同宗熹說句早晨,因宗熹爸爸會早起些,禁爸爸會抱BB來叫醒我,佢會攪醒我同bu bu 我。激C
洗過面就同BB沖涼。跟住同佢落公園玩/行十五到三十分鐘。返工。
八、九點先放工返到屋企 :-( 玩到十點到就會飲奶奶同暗佢訓。有時遲左放工就見唔到佢架啦! :-(
通當每晚都有1-2個鐘陪佢架。唉!唔夠∼唔夠∼所以有時都會成十一時先訓架。 都知唔好架啦,不過佢又唔想訓番。就變成惡性循環,越黎越夜。 :lol:
加起有1-3個鐘咋。 :-( :-(


別墅

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發表於 07-2-15 13:33 |只看該作者

Re: How long you spend time with your B ?

Actually, I do diaper change, take a bath, bring her out ... but playing with her... ; honestly, not much.

She likes to approach to me, if I ignore her, she will cry. But I found one thing is that she can play the toys by herself when the maid sits next to her. But when I sit down and play with her, a few seconds she must crawl around or walk while holding onto furniture.

I don't know why ? May be I need spend much time to play with her ...

YukiMommy 寫道:
Hi Belami,
I am a full-time mom and also have a maid at home. I spend a lot of time with my younger daughter who is now 1. I basically do no house work at all, but care my baby, diaper change, feeding, playing etc., while the maid do all the house work and cooking.
After I pick up my elder daugher home from school, who is now 4.5, I basically will play with both of them till they go to bed at 8pm. Then I have the whole evening for myself.

From time to time during the day, e.g. when my baby is sleeping, I will go have a rest, surf the internet, but basically I spend all day with my kids.

I enjoy doing so because my kids are all very attached to me and that feeling of "being there for them" makes me feel proud. These strong bondings make parenting and teaching very easy because since they are babies, they are used to following my instructions and teaching. No arguments whatsoever. It will be "weird" for them not listen to me.

I encourage you spend more time with your baby as the time will flies and when you want to be with them, say 10-13, they don't even want you to be around....

You will have lots of time left for yourself in the future.

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