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大宅

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發表於 07-3-9 10:52 |只看該作者

14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

我朋友個女得14歲, 同男友有了BB, 之前朋友都知佢拍拖, 但反對都冇用, 話佢當你耳邊風, 讀Band3學校, 冇心向學, 上網,去街,唱K, 講粗口, 食煙...樣樣齊, 我朋友話讀唔到書都算, 只希望佢唔好學壞就算, 點知現在俾人搞大左個肚, 衰左就回家講俾亞媽知, 可能女仔都好驚, 唔知點處理, 朋友就話想帶佢上大陸落仔就算, 但另一方面又覺得好殘忍, 又想生, 又想唔要, 搞到佢兩母女個心都好矛盾, 老豆就話要報警拉個男仔, 現在上網想問下大家有咩意見, 如果將心比己, 你會點睇,


男爵府

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發表於 07-3-9 11:05 |只看該作者

Re: 14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

一定報警, 俾D程罰2個細路, 唔會比佢哋結婚, 生仔方面去母親的抉擇, 攪掂佢. 結婚一定離婚, 小朋友既前途........ :-(


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Re: 14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

去求助母親的抉擇...我唔贊成結婚...始終個女仔得14歲...自己都未攪得掂...如果係識諗...就唔會比人攪大個肚...

母親的抉擇


洋房

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發表於 07-3-9 11:10 |只看該作者

Re: 14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

唉....如果係我個女,一定喊死左,個心喇住喇住痛,幾晚睡唔著都似!!!!坦白講,果女仔得個14歲..我唔會覺得佢同男朋友有什麼真感情,佢地應該係想滿足個過程多過想要下一代。而且,佢地咁細個又未讀完書,又未出來做野,堅持生個bb出來,只會害了那bb一生。雖然我都覺得是殘忍,但我一定會同個女落左去。不過,我唔會選擇返大陸,因為太危險....點錯佢都係自己個女,係香港私家醫院落會安全好多,就算嬲都唔想睇住自己個女有事架嘛。


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Re: 14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

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Re: 14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

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大宅

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發表於 07-3-9 11:17 |只看該作者

Re: 14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

My friend happened the same many years ago. Below was her way to treat this case.

She has a very bad relationship with her daughter. When she knew that, she didn't say anything but just asked her daughter to choose whether she want the baby or not?

Of course she explained what will happen if she wants the baby. At last, her daughter chose to give up the baby. As under 16 years old, if you need to do the abortion, you need 2 signatures of the doctor and parents. The mother said I will help you but with 1 condition. You cannot meet this boy anymore. The girl said yes so her mother went to the house of the boy and said my daughter will give up the baby and now she came to say goodbye to you.

Since then, the relationship between the girl and the mother became close again because the gril understand that at last the one who may always stand beside her is her "mother".

Her mother changed the school for her and keep an eye on her. Girl changed and finally studied in the university.


公爵府

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發表於 07-3-9 11:18 |只看該作者

Re: 14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

我都係有兩個囡囡ga媽咪, 如果係我, 我一定叫個囡落左個bb, 因為生一個bb真係唔係玩, 除左$仲有好多尾隨問題.
我見過好多靚妹好後生生左同結埋婚但都係離婚收場, d b就咁擺底比佢地d媽咪. 有d甚至帶埋d bb跟完一個男人又一個.

我唔係話bb生命唔寶貴, 但係在未在準備好ge情況下要個bb, 我令願棄生個bb, 這是辦法之中ge辦法.
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發表於 07-3-9 11:25 |只看該作者

Re: 14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

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珍珠宮

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發表於 07-3-9 11:28 |只看該作者

Re: 14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

我好同意e個媽咪既做法,比返個選擇權個女孩! 唔好成日話亞媽迫佢落仔咁難聽!
mrsho 寫道:
My friend happened the same many years ago. Below was her way to treat this case.

She has a very bad relationship with her daughter. When she knew that, she didn't say anything but just asked her daughter to choose whether she want the baby or not?

Of course she explained what will happen if she wants the baby. At last, her daughter chose to give up the baby. As under 16 years old, if you need to do the abortion, you need 2 signatures of the doctor and parents. The mother said I will help you but with 1 condition. You cannot meet this boy anymore. The girl said yes so her mother went to the house of the boy and said my daughter will give up the baby and now she came to say goodbye to you.

Since then, the relationship between the girl and the mother became close again because the gril understand that at last the one who may always stand beside her is her "mother".

Her mother changed the school for her and keep an eye on her. Girl changed and finally studied in the university.
地球和火星 完美與破爛 現實對幻象 這樣的差距離還有盼望 嗎


子爵府

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發表於 07-3-9 11:29 |只看該作者

Re: 14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

火石 寫道:
一定唔可以生出來, 作孽都冇辦法, 一定要落仔 !
生出來, 咪又係女仔的父母養! 晒氣啦 !
唔通2個青少年識養咩 !
至於前途, 報警與否都係冇前途啦, 學壞晒 !
而且我會覺得如果報警, 女仔只會憎父母, 分分鐘離家出走, 只會將事件搞到更大。



agree!仲有,媽咪們有冇諗過報警之後,個女仔會點?我曾經睇過一本書,係關於未成年少女大肚懷孕,大部份佔左7成既女仔,因為屋企人既反對報警,引致佢地變本加厲,因為佢地有種放棄心態!連自己親人都對自己咁做,而且仲報警拉自己,佢地有種明知你係為佢好,但一於同你抗衡到底既心態,情況只會越黎越惡劣!


子爵府

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發表於 07-3-9 11:32 |只看該作者

Re: 14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

bigbighei 寫道:
我好同意e個媽咪既做法,比返個選擇權個女孩! 唔好成日話亞媽迫佢落仔咁難聽!
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mrsho 寫道:
My friend happened the same many years ago. Below was her way to treat this case.

She has a very bad relationship with her daughter. When she knew that, she didn't say anything but just asked her daughter to choose whether she want the baby or not?

Of course she explained what will happen if she wants the baby. At last, her daughter chose to give up the baby. As under 16 years old, if you need to do the abortion, you need 2 signatures of the doctor and parents. The mother said I will help you but with 1 condition. You cannot meet this boy anymore. The girl said yes so her mother went to the house of the boy and said my daughter will give up the baby and now she came to say goodbye to you.

Since then, the relationship between the girl and the mother became close again because the gril understand that at last the one who may always stand beside her is her "mother".

Her mother changed the school for her and keep an eye on her. Girl changed and finally studied in the university.
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發表於 07-3-9 11:42 |只看該作者

Re: 14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

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伯爵府

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發表於 07-3-9 11:44 |只看該作者

Re: 14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

同佢分析要同唔要以後會點,仲有都比個女自己諗下,同時求助母親的抉擇,但呢個時間就唔好再責備佢喇,比多d愛心佢,等佢知媽媽冇放棄佢!
當然我都會好心痛,好傷心啦~但發生左惟有去面對


伯爵府

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發表於 07-3-9 11:54 |只看該作者

Re: 14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

agree Mrsho say!

candybbnow 寫道:
[quote]
bigbighei 寫道:
我好同意e個媽咪既做法,比返個選擇權個女孩! 唔好成日話亞媽迫佢落仔咁難聽!
[quote]
mrsho 寫道:
My friend happened the same many years ago. Below was her way to treat this case.

She has a very bad relationship with her daughter. When she knew that, she didn't say anything but just asked her daughter to choose whether she want the baby or not?

Of course she explained what will happen if she wants the baby. At last, her daughter chose to give up the baby. As under 16 years old, if you need to do the abortion, you need 2 signatures of the doctor and parents. The mother said I will help you but with 1 condition. You cannot meet this boy anymore. The girl said yes so her mother went to the house of the boy and said my daughter will give up the baby and now she came to say goodbye to you.

Since then, the relationship between the girl and the mother became close again because the gril understand that at last the one who may always stand beside her is her "mother".

Her mother changed the school for her and keep an eye on her. Girl changed and finally studied in the university.
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別墅

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發表於 07-3-9 11:55 |只看該作者

Re: 14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

我有信仰. 不能夠放棄生命.

14 歲當然太後生. 不夠成熟做媽咪.

如果真係我囡我想我會 :

1.) 低調生下BB交給有關當局 eg mother choice (完全係基於信仰)

2.) 日後轉校, 當然希望她能從新開始, 發奮讀書.

3.) 一定會通知男方家長. 因為是犯法. 為了女兒. 暫不報警. 不過會讓對方知道保留了權利.

此舉是希望: 萬一男孩子是"壞人" 怕他會日後私自騷擾女兒. 所以讓他知道女方已經暫放他一馬. 請他以後不要再找女兒. 否則報警.

如果是好男孩 : 也讓對方家長知道. 今次僥倖逃過判刑. 是希望他能夠警醒永不再犯. 日後從新做人讀書. 千萬不要再糊塗一時. 再犯而傷害多一位少女.

明白少男少女大都是您情我願. 但後果往往是女性付出比較大. 生又好不生又好. 始終都係女孩子要承擔比男孩多. (假設雙放心靈都不好過. 但女性就要連埋身理都不好過)





大宅

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發表於 07-3-9 12:04 |只看該作者

Re: 14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

剛和朋友通電, 佢個女想要個BB, 唔想再讀書, 學一技之長然後自己養大BB喎, 女仔同老豆講, 如果報警就會憎佢一世, 佢話發生性行為係自願既, 冇人迫佢, 佢話男友唔係唔想付責任, 但冇能力又可以點喎,
而男仔父母就對女方亞媽講(你鐘意咪報警拉個衰仔囉, 我冇眼睇呀, 如果要結婚咪結婚囉, 不過我地冇錢架, 最多俾5百做禮金, 如果要拉我個仔, 咁你個女一樣要拉啦, 牛唔飲水點按得牛頭低)
朋友話聽過如果搵母親的決擇, 如果女仔未成年, 機構就會報警既, 唔理女仔願意否, 想問是否?


珍珠宮

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發表於 07-3-9 12:07 |只看該作者

Re: 14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

想要 bb,係香港生,醫院一樣會報警的!!
我把平安留給你們,我將我的平安賜給你們;我所賜給你們的,不像世界所賜的一樣。你心裏不要煩亂,也不要膽怯。(若 14:27)
Happy moments, praise God. Difficult moments, seek God. Quiet moments, worship God. Painful moments, trust God. Every moment, thank God!!!


大宅

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發表於 07-3-9 12:17 |只看該作者

Re: 14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

我識得個朋友15歲大肚(讀完F.3冇讀),之後雙方家長同意,她同個男仔(好似20歲)結婚,生咗個仔,到現在咁多年都咁好.

另朋友女,好似16歲大肚,女方家長要男方(好似17、8歲)罷酒結婚,生咗個仔,聽講個男仔婚後好生性,不停找$養家,但個女的就...(以前穿慣名牌,出名大皮氣,邊個定得順),結咗婚一年唔夠離婚,個仔俾嫲嫲顧.

個肚雙方都有份,雙方家長要心平氣和座低慢慢傾吓點處理.(看來幾難)


複式洋房

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發表於 07-3-9 12:31 |只看該作者

Re: 14歲女仔有孕, 如果你係佢亞媽, 你會點做, 請大家俾意見

唉~真係1樣米養百樣人∼”

but 其實個女仔都好值得同情∼”

佢好過有d生左出黎先算∼or掉左o係街果d∼”

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