sorry JM... i really want to reply... and typing chinese too slow.
Maybe he is not stupid, but just slow….
Sometimes when I tell him something he doesn’t understand and after 12hrs then suddenly will say “oh now I get it!”
But while he doesn’t understand he will unhappy!
I can’t think of an example at this moment…
But in general, I like to give lecture to him,
“ don’t do this, this is no good” blah blah blah
Like a mom teaching a kid, (I know it is not good but can’t control!”
I always think he is too childish! (younger than me 4yrs)
I think I am doing him good, so I teach him, but he will unhappy… so end up we fight. After 12 hrs, he will suddenly “oh I understand… you just want me good…”
ctmp 發表於 13-11-8 17:59
sorry JM... i really want to reply... and typing chinese too slow.
Maybe he is not stupid, but just ...
why every 12 hrs he will change his mind....?
like 夠鐘食藥....(just kiding)
well, i would say he is not bad! in fact he is a good man! He cares u a lot!!!
coz he is used to keep reviewing the things that he 'argued' wif u or things that made u unhappy ...
he is trying to work out a new solution!
Maybe sometimes he feels sad, and he know u are sad too. So he changed his mind to think 'oh my wife 's trying to make me feel good. make this for me."
that means he keeps the thing in his mind for 12hrs than his mood change from sad to understand u.
Perhaps he is younger than u and not mature? Depends if u like to dominate in the relationship. Stupid has adv. eg u can guess what he does and he isn\'t sneaky at all..
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