thx. i totally agree with u. that's why we insisted to bring Ka Jer home everyday since the 1st day.
But for Mui Mui, it becomes very difficult and we give up. I feel very guilty at the time.
last night was a good start. so from now on, if Ka Jar likes to stay at grandies home, i would take Mui Mui with me. To bring both... i still have doubt
i hv one boy only and dare not to have any more kids so far, although he'll be 4 soon. i've been a full time mom since he's born. since my boy is quite active and always "蝦"我, 真係辛苦到想死呀!
tried to look for a nanny/helper (live-in, non-live-in, or part-time) for so many times but not quite successful. none of them worked for more than 1/2 years on average.
a lot of people asked me how come i don't go to work (what a waste)and that it's most expensive way to take care of my kid by myself.
both my husband's and my own families hv suggested to bring my son back to HK/Macau, since it's much easier and cheaper to hire maids there. but 我唔捨得.