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bubblezzzz

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發表於 07-5-17 12:44 |只看該作者

考慮緊離唔離婚既請進~~>_<

好辛苦, 唔想BB 晌單親家庭長大, 但我老公有第三者, 我唔想再掂佢, 應該點

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ChungKing

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發表於 07-5-18 13:23 |只看該作者

Re: 考慮緊離唔離婚既請進~~>_<

My husband do not have the other woman. But he ins a "mother's boy". My parents-in-law come to my home every week. My husband know I don't like them but he did nothing. He even said he cannot find any reason to refuse their coming. I don't want to go home for dinner when my in-law is there. But my husband will show the "black face". My husband has very high cholesteral (not sure the spelling) level. He said the main reason is the pressure I give him. Every month he will give a lump sum for me to run the family. He do little to the family. I'm working too, but I responsible to handle all the bill related to the house, arrange everything for my two sons. My husband always says he is tire and always sleep on the sofa. When I ask him to play with the sons, he will shout at me said he is so tire at work. I cry many times alone. I find the only function of my husband is give money monthly. He share no burden on the ruuning of a family. My parents were past away. Except to take the family, I also have to please his parents. His parents are very selfish. Both of them have no work, but they will not help us to take care my sons. Every time they come to my home for dinner, my husband will drive them home, so that I have to take care my sons alone. Even when I feel ill or extremely tire, he won't care, he will still drive them home. He never said he is tire when he doing thing for his parents. But always tire when i ask him to do something. I wonder what is the use of such a husband. I want to divorce too. I am a human being, I'll feel tire as well. I don't want to a "maid" any longer.

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tsunmom

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發表於 07-5-19 00:16 |只看該作者

Re: 考慮緊離唔離婚既請進~~>_<

ChungKing,

I will recommend you to seek for the assistance for marriage consultation.

Your story told me that you and your husband has the communication problem.

The consultant will help you out the way to understand each other. Please consider your kids before you make any decision to divorce.

My case even worst than yours:

My husband is a gambler. He has never beared any expenses, not even a fast food meal or bread.
I am a working woman and I am the only one to support the expenses of the whole family.

He does not want to take care of our son, not even play with him. The only thing he likes is gambling and sleep. He is hopeless.

I have seeked for assistance from marriage consultant. However, it does not work out.
Finally, I decided to leave.

I have no regret as I have tried my best to maintain my marriage.

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grakong

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發表於 07-5-21 12:53 |只看該作者

Re: 考慮緊離唔離婚既請進~~>_<

Could you please advise the contact number of the marriage consulation? is it related to social welfare department?

tsunmom 寫道:
ChungKing,

I will recommend you to seek for the assistance for marriage consultation.

Your story told me that you and your husband has the communication problem.

The consultant will help you out the way to understand each other. Please consider your kids before you make any decision to divorce.

My case even worst than yours:

My husband is a gambler. He has never beared any expenses, not even a fast food meal or bread.
I am a working woman and I am the only one to support the expenses of the whole family.

He does not want to take care of our son, not even play with him. The only thing he likes is gambling and sleep. He is hopeless.

I have seeked for assistance from marriage consultant. However, it does not work out.
Finally, I decided to leave.

I have no regret as I have tried my best to maintain my marriage.

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tsunmom

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發表於 07-5-21 23:41 |只看該作者

Re: 考慮緊離唔離婚既請進~~>_<

Yes. Check with the social welfare department or health department.

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Christmas

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發表於 07-5-22 09:53 |只看該作者

Re: 考慮緊離唔離婚既請進~~>_<

I am really sad and sorry to hear about all the problems that you guys are facing, I did not come from a good family background either, my parents were seperated when i was young, and they both passed away when i was young too, i know to have a 'complete' family is very important, whatever you guys do, please think for the young ones, and i know it is very hard to do, but we have made a choice to bring them into this world, as a mum, no matter how hard, we still have to try...

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Christmas

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發表於 07-5-22 09:57 |只看該作者

Re: 考慮緊離唔離婚既請進~~>_<

please do not divorce if because of some misunderstanding or disagreement, man who gamblers, drugs, or beat woment is hopeless, and is difficult to change, and to be honest, it is bad to raise a kid in the presence of such a dad....but for Chungking and bubleezz, please think twice. Its ok to be a mom's boy, it shows that he cares and loves his family, and i'm sure he will do the same thing to you too, maybe he feels that his parents are old, and he has no chance to take care of them anylonger, but for you, he still have his whole life with you....dont leave him because he cares for his family... and for bubleezz, 3rd party is always a difficult thing for women to handle, think it this way, i believe all man( sorry for all the man), will cheat on thier women atleast once in alife, just help them back on the correct track, of perhaps it is just unlucky for them to let you know about it...