i have the same case as yours, but "He" is my own brother, we hired her wife to take care of my parents before, but since she changed her status as "daughter-in-law", she doesn't want to take care of my parents any more. In fact she tried every thing to push my brother to get rid of my parents. Now my father passed away and i take care of my mom. Fortunately, my husband is willing to take care of my mom as well. But i told myself, i won't contact my brother's family any more. I will never treat them as family members, even though, in the future, my mom passes away, i won't inform them. CHINESE WOMEN ARE SO BAD!!!.