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[全職媽媽] 25k vs full time mom [複製鏈接]

tristanbaby

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發表於 08-12-16 09:18 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

I had been a full time mom for 2 month
and my baby is almost 5 months old.
but i just got a job offer....
What should i do??

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tokwawan

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發表於 08-12-16 15:29 |只看該作者

u mean u get $25k for new job?

if so, i think u should consider financial status of yr family, do this $25k is important for supporting yr family?..

if u get this job, then the opportunity cost is that...u will miss many "grow up" time of yr baby...

frankly, if $25k is not so important, i think u should be a FT mum, i also give up my $100k job when my son born...till now, i still think its valuable

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jonahlee

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發表於 08-12-16 15:50 |只看該作者

Me too. I used to be a $56K mom. If I keep going my job I need a lots of traveling and long hrs of work, pressure etc.... Will definitely sacrifice my kids.

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tristanbaby

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發表於 08-12-16 16:19 |只看該作者

well this job is 15 min away from my home....

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kongzilla

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發表於 08-12-17 00:24 |只看該作者

有時, 有些事不能用金錢可衡量....
但也要視乎錢在於你及你的家庭需要。
針無兩頭利, 如你選擇工作, 有金錢但卻失去更多親子時間; 相反, 則失去收入。
好好跟家人商量, 有家人的支持才是重要!!!

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bb2

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Tokwawan & Jonahlee,

我想問下你地兩個係咪諗住以後都唔做野架? 你地以前係做邊行的呢?

我而家月入約5萬, 有兩個小朋友讀緊幼稚園.....其實由佢地出世開始我已經好想係屋企睇住佢地, 但係經濟環境尚未容許, 但係近年老公事業發展得唔錯, 加上我份工做得好唔開心, 咁就更加令我想暫時離開職場一年至兩年(直到小朋友上小學), 係屋企陪下兩個孖寶....教下佢地....但係我有d担心, 一來唔知自己做開野突然無野做會唔會好悶,二來又覺得自己讀咁多書唔做野係屋企好似好'晒'咁, 三來又担心第日再搵番野做會無人請...你地以前搵咁多錢, 突然變左做全職媽媽, 你地係點調適自己的心態呢?

我兩個小朋友好鍾意我係屋企陪佢地, 成日都叫我唔好番工, 陪佢地玩同做功課...

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yennie

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發表於 08-12-26 23:04 |只看該作者

我自己未出過嚟做野就結咗婚
一路都係做ftm
我老公好支持
我自己好enjoy
日日見到自己兩個女好開心咁玩我覺得好滿足㗎
見到我教到兩個女咁乖，我好自豪
我成日都好自豪咁同人講我係ftm嚟㗎
錢唔係一切
我唔敢想像自己出咗嚟做野，miss咗兩個女咁多野我會有幾失落！
錢無咗可以搵過
時間無咗追唔返
同埋我覺得趁小朋友仲細，同佢打好親密關係好重要
我兩個女都好痴我
d人成日都話咁痴身唔好
但我覺得，佢地痴你身嘅時候得頭嗰幾年
大咗佢地就會周圍飛，唔會痴你
仲有痴你好過知其他人（如：工人）

你地都讀咗咁多書，第時唔怕無人請啦
我就諗住到我兩個女１０歲先出嚟做野
我地仲諗住生多兩個
所以我出嚟做野嘅plan其實係無了期嘅...

有小朋友係我地嘅福氣
好好珍惜到老咗都會有好多野回憶
我媽咪就；係因為喺我細個時掛住搵錢，我自細畀工人湊大，錯過咗同我建立關係嘅重要時刻
攪到我同佢而家成日都唔啱口型，一開口就鬧交
我唔想同樣嘅野發生喺我同我兩個女身上
所以我真係完全唔想因為錢而打斷咗我同佢地嘅關係！

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NGC9

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發表於 08-12-27 01:58 |只看該作者

wa 56K, 100K,

but stay with BB more important if financial OK

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jonahlee

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原文章由 bb2 於 08-12-26 18:34 發表
Tokwawan & Jonahlee,

我想問下你地兩個係咪諗住以後都唔做野架? 你地以前係做邊行的呢?

我而家月入約5萬, 有兩個小朋友讀緊幼稚園.....其實由佢地出世開始我已經好想係屋企睇住佢地, 但係經濟環境尚未容許, 但係 ...

bb2,

I used to work in the business field which is very competitive environment.

Actually, I am not a total full time mum as I am helping my husband's business. Being honest, I prefer working outside as I have better self-recognition i.e. with income and job satisfaction. However, we need to weight what is the priority in our life and whether you are willing to pay-off or not. It is uneasy to switch to my current lifestyle but when I obsevered my daughter's development I really feel deserve.

I am quite"old" to have my first daughter therefore I have been working for many years and earned/saved quite good money (as least I am satisfied with it) before switching to my current status. But, never say never, it depends on the financial situation next year. If I feel insecure for my husband's business I will try to re-join the employment market again but whether i still have a market value is dependable.

Nice to share with you.

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tokwawan

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發表於 08-12-27 21:35 |只看該作者

我係會計師(有牌的), 因為我大仔出世時我仲有做野, 我覺得miss左佢好多野, 直至細仔出世, 我決定做全職媽媽, 我而家仲未決定將來會唔會做返野, 但因為雖然我而家冇做野, 但會計師公會係規定我地每年都要讀course, 所以唔會脫節, 因此, 將來就算做返呢行, 都係冇問題

原文章由 bb2 於 08-12-26 18:34 發表
Tokwawan & Jonahlee,

我想問下你地兩個係咪諗住以後都唔做野架? 你地以前係做邊行的呢?

我而家月入約5萬, 有兩個小朋友讀緊幼稚園.....其實由佢地出世開始我已經好想係屋企睇住佢地, 但係經濟環境尚未容許, 但係 ...

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PrinceAaron

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發表於 08-12-27 22:43 |只看該作者

Dear bb2,

Really what I am struggling to.................. The most important is that my husband will love me forever.

原文章由 bb2 於 08-12-26 18:34 發表
Tokwawan & Jonahlee,

我想問下你地兩個係咪諗住以後都唔做野架? 你地以前係做邊行的呢?

我而家月入約5萬, 有兩個小朋友讀緊幼稚園.....其實由佢地出世開始我已經好想係屋企睇住佢地, 但係經濟環境尚未容許, 但係 ...

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我愛Corina

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發表於 08-12-28 05:35 |只看該作者

其實你enjoy係屋企湊bb嘛?
你想唔想再返出黎做野?
你老公afford得到all expenses嘛?

有d媽媽可能鍾意做野,多過湊bb...
我兩樣都鍾意,因為日日係屋企陪住亞b真係好開心..佢一舉一動都會覺得好可愛(樓主你bb太細,過多幾個月你就會唔捨得去返工ga la)

我鍾意返工,係因為我覺得我需要睇下出面既世界,我老公搵得唔係好多錢,但我地既支出將會好高,(亞女學費HKD 6萬一年,愈來愈貴,再大d要10萬,一年返香港一次約$10萬,一年父母黎一次約$5萬,供樓+車約hkd 25萬),唔計日常生活開支+旅行已經要40萬,如果再生多個,開支會仲大....

所以我要搵返野做...

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c-wong

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發表於 08-12-28 15:06 |只看該作者

原文章由 我愛Corina 於 08-12-28 05:35 發表
所以我要搵返野做...

haha, read your posts sometime back that you want to 搵返野做, but you are still a f-t mum!

i stopped working 1.5 years ago and become a full-time housewife. recently have a NB baby. if my hubby lost his job and later have a lower paid job, i may have to work again.

I want to see my BB anytime whenever I want to. If finance allows, I will not re-join working force.

i used to earn more than 25k. my friend referred me to a recruitment agent (actually i hv no intention to find a job now, but maybe later), the agent got me a 20k job, which is less than half of what i earned in the past, haha...so 25k is not bad at all.

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發表於 08-12-29 01:46 |只看該作者

原文章由 c-wong 於 08-12-28 07:06 發表

haha, read your posts sometime back that you want to 搵返野做, but you are still a f-t mum!

i stopped working 1.5 years ago and become a full-time housewife. recently have a NB baby. if my hubby ...

哈哈!因為有d事,所以我唔可以出黎做野住(我奶奶幫我湊b,但過去一年,因為奶奶既媽媽身體唔好,奶奶要成日返香港,,但而家婆婆已經過左身lu,雖然好唔開心,但奶奶已經唔洗突然返香港,咁我可以放心做野)..我地下個月會返香港一個幾月...咁我返黎就要搵野做ga啦...
如果我老公好有錢,我梗係唔做啦..而家係夠一般生活囉,我明白如果想好d,就要付出...
我印象中你同你老公都係叻仔叻女...比我感覺你唔止值20k呀???

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c-wong

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發表於 08-12-29 11:52 |只看該作者

原文章由 我愛Corina 於 08-12-29 01:46 發表

哈哈!因為有d事,所以我唔可以出黎做野住(我奶奶幫我湊b,但過去一年,因為奶奶既媽媽身體唔好,奶奶要成日返香港,,但而家婆婆已經過左身lu,雖然好唔開心,但奶奶已經唔洗突然返香港,咁我可以放心做野)..我地下個月會返 ...

so u will be in HK for good? the most important is to have someone to take care of your child.

I am not 叻女, but I think my hubby is 叻仔. He works in finance industry, so hit his industry very hard. He still has a job, but am afraid will lost his job anytime. I will not take up a 20k job la, a bit low for me as I used to earn more than double of this amount. I believe job mkt not good so agent only has a 20k job for me.

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原文章由 tokwawan 於 08-12-27 21:35 發表
我係會計師(有牌的), 因為我大仔出世時我仲有做野, 我覺得miss左佢好多野, 直至細仔出世, 我決定做全職媽媽,我而家仲未決定將來會唔會做返野, 但因為雖然我而家冇做野, 但會計師公會係規定我地每年都要讀course, 所以唔會脫節, 因此,將來就算做返呢行, 都係冇問題

你就好啦，我以前系津貼中學教書，一年前完成master，之後quit o左，但黎緊改學制，以後未必搵得番

但無理由教人地個仔，唔理自己個女（好多教師就係咁，自己的仔女讀唔成書 -- 依家做教師都要朝 7 晚 8 呀！）

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snoopyiu

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我同你一樣都係practising cpa, 我仲返緊工, 不過我返緊半日工因為公司同我轉左contract做part-time, 我依家有左bb明年出世, 但我都無諗過要 full time 湊, 因為我覺得我地呢行要keep住update, 唔做一段時間要pick up真係好吃力同埋好似out date左咁, 好似上一胎我放左三個月假咁, 之後返工覺得好多野轉左, 無論係公司work flow呀同working papers/program果類都一路轉緊, 因為公會有野update, 尤其係d acs disclosure, 我公司每隔一段時間就改啦, 所以唔做野一段時間真係好難追得上, 雖然話公會有course/seminars上, 但始終欠左practical experience同埋同人接觸係差左d, 我都有同老公商量, 大家都認為如果生完bb公司炒我先至full time照顧一段時間(最多一年)再找工, 可能都係找temp job或part-time job, 因為過年後應該好多公司都請少左full time而請多左temp同part-time, 所以我都唔會貿貿然唔做野, 如果屋企無人幫到我睇住個bb, 就請隔離鄰舍幫我睇半日....所以我都好佩服你可以全職睇住bb, 我覺得除左老公係咪負擔得來之外, 仲要睇埋出面環境, 雖側話bb頭幾年好需要媽咪, 但我總覺得唔需要全日睇住佢, 半日已經好多架啦, 媽咪都要抖下氣架, 媽咪情緒穩定都好重要, 我就比較差, 全日對住個b我覺得好down咁, 反而依家返半日睇住個大仔好好多, 佢又開心我又開比老公又放心....

原文章由 tokwawan 於 08-12-27 21:35 發表
我係會計師(有牌的), 因為我大仔出世時我仲有做野, 我覺得miss左佢好多野, 直至細仔出世, 我決定做全職媽媽, 我而家仲未決定將來會唔會做返野, 但因為雖然我而家冇做野, 但會計師公會係規定我地每年都要讀course, 所 ...

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原文章由 c-wong 於 08-12-29 03:52 發表

so u will be in HK for good? the most important is to have someone to take care of your child.

I am not 叻女, but I think my hubby is 叻仔. He works in finance industry, so hit his industry very ...

我想返香港搵野做,不過係呢個時間係好難,所以我會返ireland做住先+讀下書,係呢邊壓力無咁大,再睇下過一兩年咩情況先返香港..
如果係hk有$20k,對我黎講已經好好啦