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I was playing back the recorded webcam video of the past few days last nite ... and discovered that one morning, my maid intentionally shift the cam away from the living room view and toward the wall................ 2 hours later, she shifted it back to facing the living room again.....

She was carrying baby at that moment and trying to put him to sleep.... well, I've told her about the cam.. and it has been setup for months..I didn't check it everyday... so I am not sure if this is the first time or? but occassionally I found out the cam's position got shifted a bit... I just thought she did that as she need to clean the surface of the shelf......

We decided to observe a few more days.... but any suggestion? how can I find out what she was doing??

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發表於 07-7-12 11:16 |只看該作者

2小時唔係短時間, 我估佢係傾電話 or 做緊一d唔比得人知既野.

你要 day day check 呀, 如果只係果次一次郁左個鏡頭, 都可以估係佢擰轉左抺野, 跟住唔記得擰返正, 但如果 day day 有幾粒鐘係咁, 佢都一定有蠱惑.

原文章由 eshiro 於 07-7-12 11:09 發表
I was playing back the recorded webcam video of the past few days last nite ... and discovered that one morning, my maid intentionally shift the cam away from the living room view and toward the ...

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發表於 07-7-12 11:16 |只看該作者

if she intentionally shift the cam then she must be doing something not good or acceptable by you, tell her she is not allowed to do this anymore, if necessary only clean the cam when you are at home!

原文章由 eshiro 於 07-7-12 11:09 發表
I was playing back the recorded webcam video of the past few days last nite ... and discovered that one morning, my maid intentionally shift the cam away from the living room view and toward the ...

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發表於 07-7-12 11:38 |只看該作者

傾電話 or watch TV is already not that strict to her... in fact, a few time I checked the recorded clips... she was watching TV for 1 -2 hours in both the morning and afternoon... which I told her only can watch during lunch... however, since it's not everyday... I didn't say anything

hm.. well, since she is quite good so far in doing both housework and taking care of BB (working in my home for 8 months already) ... and honest on money matter.... my husband and I just thought if it's minior things that did no harmless to my baby and us and not torture my baby ... we try to make it low profile as to keep the good relationship.....................................

原文章由 moonychan 於 07-7-12 11:16 發表
2小時唔係短時間, 我估佢係傾電話 or 做緊一d唔比得人知既野.

你要 day day check 呀, 如果只係果次一次郁左個鏡頭, 都可以估係佢擰轉左抺野, 跟住唔記得擰返正, 但如果 day day 有幾粒鐘係咁, 佢都一 ...

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發表於 07-7-12 11:39 |只看該作者

你係唔可能找得出真正原因o架. 因為工人全部都係大話精

.你可以同佢講沬o野唔好沬呢個cam, 我知你之前move過佢, 以後唔好沬這裡, 我叫你沬才沬.

原文章由 eshiro 於 07-7-12 11:09 發表
I was playing back the recorded webcam video of the past few days last nite ... and discovered that one morning, my maid intentionally shift the cam away from the living room view and toward the ...

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原文章由 eshiro 於 07-7-12 11:38 發表
傾電話 or watch TV is already not that strict to her... in fact, a few time I checked the recorded clips... she was watching TV for 1 -2 hours in both the morning and afternoon... which I told he ...

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我會選擇直接同佢講：我裝cam係想見到BB，如果個cam郁左，我會以為bb有事，我一向以BB為重，會即刻返屋企，所以請你不要隨便亂碰個cam，如果令到大家有誤會就唔好la
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發表於 07-7-12 12:11 |只看該作者

sigh.... thanks for your suggestion... 唯有同佢gum講 first..... in fact, if she want to hide thing... she can actually go to our room.. coz' we don't have cam in our room.....

原文章由 fion2504 於 07-7-12 11:39 發表
你係唔可能找得出真正原因o架. 因為工人全部都係大話精 .你可以同佢講沬o野唔好沬呢個cam, 我知你之前move過佢, 以後唔好沬這裡, 我叫你沬才沬.

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發表於 07-7-12 12:16 |只看該作者

thanks Froggy_joe, I will find a chance to talk to her.... yes... "如果令到大家有誤會就唔好la" ...

原文章由 Froggy_joe 於 07-7-12 11:54 發表
我會選擇直接同佢講：我裝cam係想見到BB，如果個cam郁左，我會以為bb有事，我一向以BB為重，會即刻返屋企，所以請你不要隨便亂碰個cam，如果令到大家有誤會就唔好la
我覺得呢段說話，唔會破壞關係，佢醒亦唔敢 ...

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"變本加勵".... that's what I afraid, too ...

i didn't find out the incident until last nite, it happened on Monday... after I talked with my husband.. my husband said it's better to find out if this happens often.. and if can, find out what she was doing. One thing we afraid is... if we mentioned the incident to her, we afraid she will find some other hidden place to do that "suspicious" thing....... So, we want to think clearly before we talk with her.. of course can't wait too long .. as if she is doing something harmful to baby... we better find out ASAP.... but I do check BB every nite, seems he is okay.

信工人... not really... but honestly, we didn't do much to 防 her.... in fact, I try to give her the feeling that we trust her... coz' 將心比心.. if I worked for a boss that doesn't trust me.. I won't work well, too ...

原文章由 moonychan 於 07-7-12 11:52 發表
有小小比佢牽住走, 佢移動個 cam 2個鐘, 你唔問點解 or　你唔比佢知道你係知既，　日後會唔會變本加勵都係未知之數．　不過，　好難得你咁信工人．希望你工人都唔會令你跌眼鏡．

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原文章由 eshiro 於 07-7-12 11:09 發表
I was playing back the recorded webcam video of the past few days last nite ... and discovered that one morning, my maid intentionally shift the cam away from the living room view and toward the ...

Where did you put your cam? I think you'd better put your cam high up on wall or ceiling so that she cannot easily touch the cam and it can cover as many area as possible.

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發表於 07-7-12 15:35 |只看該作者

其實你可以改變左個cam的位置之後同佢講. "我現在放只cam係到, 你唔須要沬呢個位置, 我叫你才可以沬. 其實我之前見到你move左我只cam去wall到成幾個鐘. 我到現在才問你係因為我信任你, 希望你同我主動講點解咁做. 如果佢話解釋的話. 就可以再直接問佢點解要咁做?. 你又可以時不時打電話番去叫佢帶enoch去只cam到俾你睇(雖然你可能睇唔到, 不過大下佢之麻) , 又同佢話明只可以帶dd去邊到玩. e.g. his room or living room咁.

原文章由 eshiro 於 07-7-12 12:44 發表
"變本加勵".... that's what I afraid, too ...

i didn't find out the incident until last nite, it happened on Monday... after I talked with my husband.. my husband said it's better to find out i ...

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發表於 07-7-12 15:36 |只看該作者

我自己都有放只cam係bb room到, 放係個衣櫃上, 用膠紙貼住唔可以旭的.

原文章由 chpyeung 於 07-7-12 15:20 發表

Where did you put your cam? I think you'd better put your cam high up on wall or ceiling so that she cannot easily touch the cam and it can cover as many area as possible.

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