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發表於 07-7-4 13:07 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

雖然只是扮走, 但這樣的行為真的十分upset....... :(

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發表於 07-7-7 15:12 |只看該作者

係因乜嘢事呀？

原文章由 PrinceAaron 於 07-7-4 13:07 發表
雖然只是扮走, 但這樣的行為真的十分upset....... :(

可以如何做?

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發表於 07-7-7 16:29 |只看該作者

Nothing special, as long as he is angry.:-(

[quote]原文章由 SandraLo 於 07-7-7 15:12 發表

係因乜嘢事呀？

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發表於 07-7-8 18:15 |只看該作者

係第一次？你点處理呀？

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發表於 07-7-9 09:35 |只看該作者

Not the first time but less than 5 times up to today.

We didn't stop him. Let him open the door but end up he just "pretend" to leave only. My husband open the lock and let my son go because my husband is too angry too. But I warned my husband afterwards not to 'test' my son buttom line anymore......

原文章由 SandraLo 於 07-7-8 18:15 發表
係第一次？你点處理呀？

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Is he imitating the behavior of any family member?

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發表於 07-7-9 13:21 |只看該作者

Maybe, because when my husband and I are at home, my son may sometimes dislike my mother. My mother then is very angry and will say she will leave............ But my mother never did the behaviour to open the door. Just verbally said she will leave.......... :-(

原文章由 mo777777 於 07-7-9 10:12 發表
Is he imitating the behavior of any family member?

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發表於 07-7-9 22:24 |只看該作者

原文章由 PrinceAaron 於 07-7-9 13:21 發表
Maybe, because when my husband and I are at home, my son may sometimes dislike my mother. My mother then is very angry and will say she will leave............ But my mother never did the behavi ...

answer you tomorrow
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發表於 07-7-11 19:55 |只看該作者

尋晚打咗篇嘢冇哂 :-( 根住重上唔到BK :-(
俾 d 時間我！

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發表於 07-7-12 19:38 |只看該作者

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發表於 07-7-12 22:55 |只看該作者

PrinceAaron：

1/
Ask your mother NOT to say anything about “leaving” again.
Or I should say ask your mother NOT to threaten him by saying anything which she will not do to him.

2/
Make good use of the bed-time stories.
Tell him stories like 三隻小豬 or 小紅帽 etc. which best describe the risk of opening the door because strangers can come in the house.
Do not make comments on what he had done (open the door) while telling these stories.
3/
Bad behaviours can always be changed by praising him when he’s NOT doing that behaviour.
The reason is to let him know what good behaviour is by praising him.
During the day when he’s NOT opening the door saying he will leave, praise him at any time by saying: bb好乖喎冇開門話走喎！and then give him a hug or play together his favorite toys.
Try to praise two time a day and you’ll see the result very soon.
Remember not to add other conditions while you do the praise.
(e.g. 係囉….咁就乖囉，上次XXX就唔好啦.....etc)

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發表於 07-7-13 09:44 |只看該作者

:loveliness: Thank you very much for your advice and I will try to do so..........

Now, we found he has a new behaviour by opening the doors immediately when the door bell ring without verifying who is the visitors. Because he is too happy to welcome people to visit us. We have the locks of wooden door and 鐵閘 but the locks are on his 'opening level' and we didn't add the "防盜 bar" on the wooden door..... My mother discovered yesterday and we told him already and ask him to open the door until we verify the visitors. But I don't know whether he understood or not.

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發表於 07-7-13 21:43 |只看該作者

原文章由 PrinceAaron 於 07-7-13 09:44 發表
:loveliness: Thank you very much for your advice and I will try to do so..........

Now, we found he has a new behaviour by opening the doors immediately when the door bell ring without verif ...

試吓擔張櫈仔响門後，有人按門鐘就要佢先睇咗防盜眼至淮開門，呢個遊戲都幾好玩，我諗佢會制！

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發表於 07-7-15 01:18 |只看該作者

我就會惡d,我會幫佢開埋門同閂門話叫佢走!有時真係要大下d小朋友佢地至識驚架!基本上係小朋友鐘意同大人玩心理戰架!佢知你地鍚佢,會出招黎威脅同食住d大人架!如果你呢次表現大反應阻止佢開門走,下次佢就吾會驚,鐘意用呢招黎激你.

原文章由 hk_babybaby 於 07-7-12 19:38 發表
我會話比佢知,唔可以咁樣.
因為小朋友一個好易比壞人捉走.以後,就見唔到爸爸媽媽!

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