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因為我囝囝有自閉傾向,我請左個bun bun ,雖然佢好好,好勤力,但係仲自閉過我個仔,佢唔多講野,我打算炒佢, 佢係唔係可以唔駛返去而係香港搵另一employer 嗎？
另外,果封入境處信應該寫咩原因terminate 佢呢？(佢&我都唔駛black list)

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原文章由 mygoddish 於 07-8-21 09:57 發表
因為我囝囝有自閉傾向,我請左個bun bun ,雖然佢好好,好勤力,但係仲自閉過我個仔,佢唔多講野,我打算炒佢, 佢係唔係可以唔駛返去而係香港搵另一employer 嗎？
另外,果封入境處信應該寫咩原因terminate 佢呢？(佢 ...

個工人係咪岩岩黎咋？？
可能佢未適應新環境，比Ｄ時間佢...　有Ｄ人係要耐Ｄ...
而且佢做得野，起碼你唔洗仇唔乾淨...

你個仔有自閉傾向，唔痴工人係正常既...　對佢黎講工人仲係陌生人...　呢度都要返一段時間...

第時搵到個唔理個仔，又唔做野，咪仲激氣...

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我有同佢講佢的問題,佢話佢性格係咁,我都有諗過佢可以幫我做好多家務,不過最慘係我囝囝話唔要呢個姐姐,我又要返工,我所以叫左我阿媽幫我睇住先。

原文章由 Maltesers 於 07-8-21 10:20 發表

個工人係咪岩岩黎咋？？
可能佢未適應新環境，比Ｄ時間佢...　有Ｄ人係要耐Ｄ...
而且佢做得野，起碼你唔洗仇唔乾淨...

你個仔有自閉傾向，唔痴工人係正常既...　對佢黎講工人仲係陌生人...　呢度都要返 ...

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你都話囝囝有自閉傾向,比普通小朋友難控制,就算唔要呢個下一個都係咁.何況唔可以因為佢話唔要就唔要,囝囝根本唔明白姐姐o既function係咩一回事.我諗佢最想要你,不如計下條數唔番工親自湊番,自閉小朋友要花好多心機湊架.

原文章由 mygoddish 於 07-8-21 11:02 發表
我有同佢講佢的問題,佢話佢性格係咁,我都有諗過佢可以幫我做好多家務,不過最慘係我囝囝話唔要呢個姐姐,我又要返工,我所以叫左我阿媽幫我睇住先。

春有百花秋有月夏有涼風冬有雪若無閒事掛心頭便是人間好時節

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原文章由 mygoddish 於 07-8-21 11:02 發表
我有同佢講佢的問題,佢話佢性格係咁,我都有諗過佢可以幫我做好多家務,不過最慘係我囝囝話唔要呢個姐姐,我又要返工,我所以叫左我阿媽幫我睇住先。

我諗你個件要比好似我媽呢Ｄ人，令佢由唔開口變左做開籠雀...

我自己會係咁同佢講野（唔係傾計），問佢屋企點呀，個仔點呀...　有無野發生...　等等　令佢慣左同我地講野，之後先慢慢加ｄ加ｄ...　我諗佢都仲有個好處既，就係無咁易比人教壞，佢都唔so人，人地點會理佢...:loveliness:

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係啦, 可唔可以自己湊呀? 我諗你個囝囝都想架...自己湊, 會比足心機同時間, 對你個仔好 d...

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I think it is not very nice to fire her, since you said your maid is 好好,好勤力.

我囝囝有自閉傾向 - better ask an expert to help.

但係仲自閉過我個仔,佢唔多講野 - it is her personality.

You cannot guarantee the new maid will be as good as her bor (if the new one is no good, then you have to pay her one more month's wage and air ticket)...you know it is hard to find a good maid.

原文章由 mygoddish 於 07-8-21 09:57 發表
因為我囝囝有自閉傾向,我請左個bun bun ,雖然佢好好,好勤力,但係仲自閉過我個仔,佢唔多講野,我打算炒佢, 佢係唔係可以唔駛返去而係香港搵另一employer 嗎？
另外,果封入境處信應該寫咩原因terminate 佢呢？(佢 ...

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好多謝大家的意見,我囝囝之前個姐姐由佢出世湊到而家,已經5年,姐姐要返印尼生仔,所以請左另一個工人。

你地講得無錯,我囝囝係好需要我full time 湊佢,無耐經濟環境因素,我一定要出黎工作。

佢唔多出聲都唔緊要,但係同佢呂真係好似啞敢,十問九唔應,明白唔同你講明白,唔明又唔問, 從來無唔該,多謝,早晨......總之,佢係啞既,只係不停地做做做..... 我好辛苦先令囝囝開口講野,而家請個啞的工人照顧佢,真係大檸樂
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原文章由 Ziramas 於 07-8-21 11:28 發表
I think it is not very nice to fire her, since you said your maid is 好好,好勤力.

我囝囝有自閉傾向 - better ask an expert to help.

但係仲自閉過我個仔,佢唔多講野 - it is her personality.

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原文章由 mygoddish 於 07-8-21 11:57 發表
你地講得無錯,我囝囝係好需要我full time 湊佢,無耐經濟環境因素,我一定要出黎工作。

佢唔多出聲都唔 ...

一係你請個專係同你個仔玩既囉...　不過講真，工人未攪掂，又黎多件，你個仔可能會 very unhappy...

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請問你個工人來了幾耐呀, ? 工人連早晨, 唔該都冇講, 唔係唔喜歡講野 , 係冇禮貌喎, 照你講她都肯做呀, 你試

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我打了很多字架, 出得咁少, 又要重新打過呀, :-(

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我件印姐都係咁，做嘢ok，但係係啞嘅，近排我放大假觀察吓佢點同阿B玩啦，點知佢一句声都唔出，唔講嘢，剩係望住我阿B玩，我阿B都成歲半連媽爸都唔講，印姐根本冇同BB有interaction，我都諗住完約換左佢。

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我個新工人都到了幾日，我同佢講野，佢好多時會答我yes or
ok！原來佢跟本就聽唔明香港既英文，因為佢未黎過香港做野，又未去過其它地方做野，只係係菲律bun做過，我知道後，就要佢，慢慢學香港既英文，我會講慢D，另外，唔好品答我yes or
ok！要答就全句答！yes i understand！後尾佢都做到我要求！
教工人預了要用好多心機，可能要重複講幾次。慢慢黎啦！

你要同佢講架！問佢做乜黎香港做野，為乜？
如果佢話係為錢，咁你就講，你要記住邊個出糧俾你，你就應該報上最好服務。包括要叫人！訓前要講聲。乜都要講！

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My personal opinion, if your helper is quite nice at work I think you can give her still some time to adapt. I have autistic kid too. Autistic kids are also kids, maybe you can say they are always like small kids, so the same thing applies to their willingness to accept new maids, just like any other kids do. All it needs is to take time. Even if you hire another who is most talkative and outgoing, could you ensure that the new one is willing to talk to your kid? I guess not. How many maids I have seen who are so talkative would only talk with their friends and are so lazy to talk with (or even look) at their little bosses.

If I were you, I would spend some time everynight to chat with her, like asking her to describe how everything has been going on with the little kid, more in detail about how well he eats, how he behaves when getting in and out to school, if he helps himself in changing his pants, etc. In that case, she must ast least answer you and thus to speak up. Get her involved in whatever training you are doing with your kid. Ask her to comply the way you are training your little kid too during day time. I think if she is not bad she should gradually become concerned about your child.

Hope this can be useful to you...

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原文章由 mygoddish 於 07-8-21 11:57 發表
好多謝大家的意見,我囝囝之前個姐姐由佢出世湊到而家,已經5年,姐姐要返印尼生仔,所以請左另一個工人。

你地講得無錯,我囝囝係好需要我full time 湊佢,無耐經濟環境因素,我一定要出黎工作。

佢唔多出聲都唔 ...

如果連基本的回應、早晨、Yes or No 也没有，我覺得不單是性格問題囉，是這個人没有對人的基本禮貌。你現在要的不是一個清潔工人，是一個可以handle你囝囝的helper，令他的情緒比較好，工人日日木口木面，又不說話，又要你照顧她的情緒，我會頂唔住，更何況你的兒子有自閉。

好似我，我前任bun時常對我苦口苦面，返到屋企已經唔開胃，話她一兩句便哭，仲要很陰毒，打萛去immi投訴我，屈我話我要她每晚做到很夜，及sun放假回來我要她做嘢。我終於炒了她，現在我剛請了個印，她很young, 不懂煮飯，清潔一般，要教，但她有揍BB經驗，人很pleasant，一到來便可以令BB不停咁笑，我覺得這樣嘢比較重要囉。

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請問你個工人來了幾耐呀, ? 工人連早晨, 唔該都冇講, 唔係唔喜歡講野 , 係冇禮貌喎, 照你講她都肯做呀, 你試同她傾傾, 係咪唔開心, 或掛住屋企,
我之前都想抄新工人,(我係bk 都post個文章) 她來了一個多星期, 同agent 傾完, 聽她的意見, 又試試睇耐點. 佢教我, 將你的要求同佢講, 佢唔主動, 懶,什麼唔好的地方, 同佢講, 如二三個月無改善就換人, 我想都是有道理的, 她都講得對的, 比機會和時間佢, 我又比時間自已, 因為舊工人太好了, 有得比較. 當我同佢講之後, 佢的表現又有改善喎. 不致於憎佢, 但要有耐性教佢.
你試同佢傾, 睇佢有冇心係到做.
我們做顧主, 好慘的, 如你要抄人, 要賠上幾千元, 但唔肯定下一個係咪好呢. 佢有改善的話證明佢都想留下來的. 你仔的情況, 習慣跟以前的姐姐, 或佢需要長點時適應,

[ 本文章最後由 Krymum 於 07-8-21 14:25 編輯 ]

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