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發表於 07-8-22 12:33 |只看該作者
My new helper just arrived for 2 days. But my daughter seems so afraid of her...She doesn't let my helper feed her meals or even touch her...everytime when my helper wants to hug her, she cries sadly...

How should I comfort her & let her be friendly with my helper?


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發表於 07-8-22 12:39 |只看該作者
原文章由 mormorchan 於 07-8-22 12:33 發表
My new helper just arrived for 2 days. But my daughter seems so afraid of her...She doesn't let my helper feed her meals or even touch her...everytime when my helper wants to hug her, she cries ...

因為你工人係佢既陌生人... 三保呀∼
一係叫你工人逗下bb開心先,之後再慢慢熟絡...


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發表於 07-8-22 12:57 |只看該作者
原文章由 Maltesers 於 07-8-22 12:39 發表

因為你工人係佢既陌生人... 三保呀∼
一係叫你工人逗下bb開心先,之後再慢慢熟絡...


I can feel that my new helper is trying her best to play with my daughter...

But last night, my daughter just covered her ears by both hands & closed her eyes once my helper called her name...

I saw her with a bit frustrated & disappointed about my daughter's reactions...but luckily, she kept saying.. "take time...take time.." to herself.....

Usually, how long will this take? 2 more weeks?


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發表於 07-8-22 13:05 |只看該作者
原文章由 mormorchan 於 07-8-22 12:57 發表


I can feel that my new helper is trying her best to play with my daughter...

But last night, my daughter just covered her ears by both hands & closed her eyes once my helper called her nam ...


時間都好難預計的, 你先同個女講, 因為你要工作, 所以要姐姐幫忙做事及照顧佢, 咁樣先可以有時間同佢玩, 然後叫姐姐做一些佢平時好喜歡的事, 例如帶佢出街等 , 看她是否真的只是未習慣和只是怕生保, 但有時也未必可以的, 因為我以前有個工人做咗半年我倆個仔都係唔肯跟佢 , 但有些來不久就好喜歡, 到走都掛住個工人tim.:mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen:


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發表於 07-8-22 13:53 |只看該作者
原文章由 mj 於 07-8-22 13:05 發表


時間都好難預計的, 你先同個女講, 因為你要工作, 所以要姐姐幫忙做事及照顧佢, 咁樣先可以有時間同佢玩, 然後叫姐姐做一些佢平時好喜歡的事, 例如帶佢出街等 , 看她是否真的只是未習慣和只是 ...



"我以前有個工人做咗半年我倆個仔都係唔肯跟佢" ...

o..my god....:-(


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發表於 07-8-22 22:08 |只看該作者
原文章由 mormorchan 於 07-8-22 12:33 發表
My new helper just arrived for 2 days. But my daughter seems so afraid of her...She doesn't let my helper feed her meals or even touch her...everytime when my helper wants to hug her, she cries ...



My son took more than 1 month to trust the new maid ( my son is was 4 when the new maid came). In the first month he also dosen't like the new maid, won't let her bath him, cry when she brought him to school. Since I took 2 weeks' vacation when the maid came,therefore there was no progress for the first 2 weeks. When my vacation going to finish he still didn't get along very well with the maid. SO, one day,我好惡咁鬧個仔,"媽媽要返工,請姐姐返黎照顧你,你唔跟姐姐,邊個得閒理你。係咪要我放工至同你沖涼?"俾我鬧到佢飛起,跟住就開始跟姐姐。而家就快兩年,阿仔同姐姐不知幾夾。


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發表於 07-8-22 22:50 |只看該作者
你個仔醒目,你仲醒目,知到晒佢籠野!
好多時,細路仔好識feel到你想點,例如,係特定環境你將佢交比工人抱,佢就知道你即將會出街.
如果新工人來,你好想佢痴新工人多d,咁意味住你即將會將佢交比工人,咁bb更加唔肯啦.咪拉鋸一番囉.
呢個世界,無話無左邊個係唔得架.即係,只要個工人係有愛心,你放心啦,今日你係度,bb唔跟工人,你唔係屋企,唔通bb唔食飯咩!

原文章由 DavidMa 於 07-8-22 22:08 發表



My son took more than 1 month to trust the new maid ( my son is was 4 when the new maid came). In the first month he also dosen't like the new maid, won't let her bath him, cry when she bro ...


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發表於 07-8-23 09:50 |只看該作者
原文章由 方方媽媽 於 07-8-22 22:50 發表
你個仔醒目,你仲醒目,知到晒佢籠野!
好多時,細路仔好識feel到你想點,例如,係特定環境你將佢交比工人抱,佢就知道你即將會出街.
如果新工人來,你好想佢痴新工人多d,咁意味住你即將會將佢交比工人,咁bb更加唔肯啦 ...



My mother is now staying at our home for 3-4 nights a week, so my daughter rely on my mom so much now~

According to all of your experiences, I think I should kindly request my mom not to stay at my home that much...otherwise, there'll be no improvement!!

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